Post on February 23, 2026
Post on February 22, 2026
Most of us don’t like to think of ourselves as judgmental … it doesn’t feel nice to be all judgy! But not wanting to see the judgment only pushes it out of our awareness.
It becomes a blind spot for many of us.
If you’re interested in looking at where you might have judgment of others, here are some places to look honestly:
These are not the only ways we’re judgmental, but they might have you start to become more aware of your judgment. And you do have judgment — you’re only human!
So what can we do? Let’s take a look.
First, it’s important as you get more awareness of our judgment, that we not judge it too much! Let’s just acknowledge that we have it, because it’s a human thing to do.
And then notice any shame you might have about being judgmental. As we take an honest look at this, the shame might arise, and that’s OK. Let it come up, but don’t feed the shame with more thoughts about how bad you are. Have compassion for the part of you that’s ashamed of being judgmental.
This is a process of accepting a part of ourselves we usually judge.
As we accept this part of ourselves that we judge … it will help us to accept the parts of others that we judge. Other people struggle with the same things we do, and as we take an honest look at ourselves, and have compassion for ourselves, we can do that more and more with them.
When you notice yourself judging someone else — first notice that you’re feeling some fear and frustration, and have some compassion. You’re protecting yourself from fear, with your judgment and story about them.
Then see if you can drop that protection, and instead open your compassionate heart toward them. Be generous in how you see them. Feel how you’re connected to them, the same as them.
As we drop these boundaries between ourselves and others, we start to feel more connected to others, less separated, more open hearted. This is transformational and beautiful!
with love,
Post on February 22, 2026
Post on February 21, 2026
Beloved Ones,
Posted on February 21, 2026
There has been a lot of buzz around Lissa Rankin's article and millions have read it. (link is below)
The for profit spiritual machine is closing down - as it should.
It is not the end of spiritual teaching, training, and mentoring, and holistic services, but the beginning of ethical, authentic, and honest support by qualified people.
I wanted to mention something I have been thinking about today given the news about the spiritual community's dark and sordid business and it is something I have been considering for several months.
I would like to offer a business training program specifically for holistic practitioners - intuitives, energy workers, healers, tarot, numerology, reiki, yoga teachers, light and sound healers, animal communicators - every holistic practitioner could benefit.
The program would be 6 weeks with training in starting and managing your business, how to make money (very important), how to get clients, marketing, promotion, and customer retention, how to use technology in your business, methods and processes I use and have perfected in 23 years.
And you would receive a certification from me for completing the program that you can use on your website and in your marketing.
I have the added benefit of being a business expert, with degrees, over 23 years of experience owning my holistic business, and strong reputation for ethics and honesty.
The program would give you everything you need to start your business with confidence, clarity, and a very clear strategy and operational plan. This is real business training, not mindset or nervous system fluff. No one who offers business training has my expert credentials.
The program is planned to start March 21 with an early signup offer. Cost would be affordable - less than $500. I do not believe in charging thousands for programs, I never have.
If you do not need startup business training, I am also considering a monthly membership for holistic practitioners that focuses on your particular business issues with training, coaching, and Q&A sessions that would also be affordable.
Do you need something like this and are you interested? Let me know in the Facebook post comments and watch your email for more details.
Now we move forward and those of you who have a calling, it is time to stand up, speak up, and shine.
Those of us who have been doing this work in our corners for years and who have been overshadowed by an industry that only cared about profit margins and performance, are now vindicated.
If this is your calling the stage is yours - shine on.
