Sunday, March 29, 2026

Less Than?

Post on March 29, 2026

 

If you feel that you have to be less than to keep a person in your life then, my love, you may be having relationships with the wrong people. 

There will always be people that will attempt to make you feel smaller so they can feel bigger. 

Once the conscious realization of this sinks in, you can then choose whether you want to stay where you are or move forward and grow. 

The choice always has been and always will be yours.

The Creator

 
Jennifer Farley  
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Destiny is Variable


Destiny is Variable

By Owen Waters

Post on March 29, 2026



In the Old Reality, things were seen as opposites - black or white, hot or cold, good or bad, this way or that way. In the expanded view of New Reality consciousness, life is seen in a unified way. Opposite sides of the coin are viewed, not as polar opposites, but rather as just being different aspects of the one coin.

In the New Reality view of the world, the opposite extremes of black and white become, instead, endless shades of gray. Hot and cold become variable degrees of warmth. Good and bad become different shades of human nature; free of the judgment, resentment and fear that comes with Old Reality, polarized thinking.

In the Old Reality, destiny and free will were seen as mutually exclusive. The reasoning was that, if destiny exists, then it controls everything and, therefore, free will does not exist. On the other hand, you can prove that free will does exist by making a choice. So, as the thinking goes, if free will does exist, then there can be no destiny.

But, wait. Perhaps that choice of "free will" was really a predestined one. Perhaps the person was destined to make that choice all along, so the experience of choice was just an illusion. At this point, people usually give up on the whole question because it has turned into one of those brain teasers, like asking which came first - the chicken or the egg.

Brain teasers keep your mind in an endless loop until you try stepping back from the situation and seeing it in a wider perspective. The new, wider perspective allows for the inclusion of non-materialistic factors. In deciding whether the chicken or the egg came first, for example, you just have to step back and see that the chicken was designed to be self-perpetuating.

When you step back and see destiny and free will from a wider perspective, you realize that nothing has to be absolute. If every event in your life were preordained, there would be no such thing as free will or self-determination. As we do have free will, destiny cannot be fixed.

Destiny is therefore variable, not fixed. Destiny and free will both exist as interwoven facets of your life. Like threads in a tapestry, they interact with each other and blend to form the outcomes that are the events in your life.

Your destiny is created by plans that you made at a soul level of consciousness. Before you were born, you made your main plan for this life. Then, the minute you were born, the rules of the game demanded that you also get a case of amnesia about the whole arrangement. Such is the game of life in the physical realm.

However, at night when you go to sleep, you can go to the deepest levels of human consciousness, review how the original plan is unfolding and make changes to your plan if desired. When you return to your physical body and awake in the morning, amnesia strikes again. Within seconds of your conscious mind returning into your physical brain, you forget both the surface dreams and the deep experiences of the night.

Amnesia may be a part of the game we are playing in this life, but inner guidance is always available to anyone who pays attention to it. Your intuition is your link to your soul, or inner being, which is also linked to the rest of the universe and all levels of Creation.

You are never left alone to fumble in the darkness of a purely physical life. Your inner being is always there with you, expressing itself through the quiet whisperings of intuitive information. Thanks to this inner compass of knowing, you can always sense which choice feels right. You can always tell when your life is running on plan, and you can tell equally well if you've become temporarily distracted from your plan. You always have the means to be right on course, or get back on course, and explore the fascinating themes that make up your life plan.

The most productive use of free will is to explore your true potential within the themes of your life, thus gaining the greatest possible experience from your life plan.

Destiny is an influence that comes from your inner plan. There is nothing absolute about your destiny. It's a pressure which constantly seeks the best route to unfold into manifestation.

Free will provides the means to manifest that destiny in a way that provides the learning that you came here to acquire in this life.

Destiny is variable. It adapts to the circumstances of your life every second of the day. As destiny unfolds, you feel it within as a sense of being a part of the flow of life, of manifesting your potential in the way that you planned for this day and that you planned for this life.

Destiny is the plan. Free will is the action. Experience is the result.

That's what being human is all about.


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Owen Waters


 

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Wellness as a Creative Practice


Wellness as a Creative Practice

Making Space for Inspiration

By Jayde Kolb

Post on March 29, 2026


Overcome burnout and reignite creativity with yoga, meditation, and honoring energy cycles to co-create joy with Spirit.

I’ve always been bursting with creativity. When I was little, I hosted game shows in my living room, convinced my cousins to be my backup dancers, and launched new craft projects like it was my side hustle. (I actually tried to sell my parents a picture from second-grade art class for two dollars. They didn’t buy it). What I remember is how immersive it all felt. My environment would narrow to a single, sacred space where my work and I seemed to dance with God.

There’s a magical mystery wrapped in sparks of inspiration. Creative ideas don’t come from us so much as they move through us. And it goes beyond a simple painting or poem—it’s how we rearrange a room, solve a problem, or combine the exact right words at the right time. Creativity is life in motion.

When an idea comes to us, it needs a way to come alive. Humans are the only species that can bring form to the formless; our bodies are active participants in creativity. One time, an idea for a textural art piece, a new creative adventure, came to me, and I was swept up by the overwhelming urge to spend too much money on art supplies. I bought a tub of spackle (which got everywhere, by the way) and made eight canvases of glorious squiggles. My body had taken over the control panel.

Burnout

I have always been a fast-paced, outgoing person who made time to be creative, even with a full-time job and regular gym habit. But after years and years of constant motion, my body couldn’t keep up. Ambitious, imaginative, a bit quirky—and completely depleted.

Burnout is depression’s little brother, and I became a family friend to both. Fatigue took up residence in my bones. Simple tasks demanded high amounts of energy. My temper was short, my brain was foggy, and creativity was elusive.

I tried to pick up a paintbrush. Nothing.

I tried to start an interesting project at work. Disaster.

I tried to make new friends. Crickets.

There wasn’t a single breaking point but moments that built up like snowflakes into an avalanche: crying in the ladies’ room, doomscrolling on social media, canceling another get-together with a loved one. One friend mentioned to me that it seemed like I was always going through a rough patch. Ouch.

Learning to Rest

This is where I finally paused and wrestled with the idea of slowing down. Wellness had become a chore, and ambition had become an obsession. My body, spirit, and mind were crying for help. The way I had been living wasn’t working. Finally, I had to learn to rest.

I say learned because resting is beyond a simple good night’s sleep. I was introduced to the idea of “energy givers” and “energy takers.” I thought about what inspired me and gave me a breath of fresh air versus what stole my time, energy, and joy. I dove deep into the roots of my stress, reexamined my relationship to the word busy, and learned to set boundaries. True rest is preserving your energy on a mental, physical, and emotional level.

I felt as if the more I nourished my body, the more spiritual input I could receive. I was tuning the dial to a creative frequency and bit by bit, my imagination returned. She dusted off the shelves so ideas had a place to stay and freed up space in the living room so God and I could dance together once again.

Moving New Energy Through the Body Through Yoga

I started to live creatively again when I became a yoga instructor. I had been practicing yoga for years; it was one of the practices I used to recover from burnout. Breathwork, meditation, and asana fell into the “energy givers” category. But teaching? That required a new mindset, and between you and me, I was scared it would put me in a burnout spiral.

To serve others, I was going to have to serve myself and stay tuned in to a greater power. My wellness practice became the foundation of my creativity. Rest, yoga, meditation, and seeing the flow of the world helped me co-create with Spirit in ways I couldn’t before.

Yoga helps me move new energy through my body—and find grace off the mat, too. Meditation has taught me stillness to listen to God. Rest is a non-negotiable way to relax my nervous system and surrender. Seeing life as a cycle has taught me how my body and creativity move through ups and downs.

Living in a way that supports creativity doesn’t just generate good ideas; it’s helped me find more joy in the world around me. I’ve slowed down to enjoy what has already been created for my pleasure. Honey is sweeter, the stars sparkle, and I see magic in the mundane.

Practices for Creating Space

If you’re longing to see the world with fresh eyes, here are the practices that helped me create space:

  • Enjoy rest: This does not include doomscrolling, folks. Enjoy sleep, stillness, and nervous system recovery.
  • Move mindfully: Practicing yoga, stretching, or taking a walk can help move stagnant energy and encourage new ideas to flow.
  • Practice stillness: Meditation, prayer, or reflection create space for inspiration to enter.
  • Honor your cycles: Notice the natural ebbs and flows in your energy, body, and the world around you. Work with them instead of against them.

When you create, you’re not only expressing yourself—you’re expressing the Divine. It’s the most fruitful way God can work through you. When the body is strong, sparks of inspiration can catch fire, and then you can delight in the creative act of simply being alive.

Jayde Kolb


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Saturday, March 28, 2026

Unwavering Faith


 
Unwavering Faith
Post on March 28, 2026

 

You now know your Earth plane existence can be as easy or as challenging as you choose.  You have heard this many times.  

What you need to remember is that The Universe has unwavering faith in you and your ability to navigate the sometimes-tumultuous experiences that occur.  

View yourself as The Universe does, my love, and all will be well.

The Creator

 
Jennifer Farley  
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Friday, March 27, 2026

Returns

Post on March 27, 2026

 

There will be times, my beautiful child, when your acts of service will seem to fall away to nothing and appear to be unappreciated. 

Never fear, The Universe has witnessed and knows where your heart is and will return the gifts so lovingly bestowed on others to you.

The Creator

 
Jennifer Farley  
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Thursday, March 26, 2026

The Ability

Post on March 26, 2026

 

Part of your Earth plane existence is to engage in clearing age-old patterns that have kept you stuck right where you are, not moving forward, not moving back. 

The urge to busy yourself with unnecessary noise and things may have kept you safe to this point, but they are no longer serving you. 

Now… now is the time, my love, to understand that only you can change these things for yourself. 

Releasing them need not be arduous work. Make it fun, make it play, make it exciting! 

You have that ability…use it! 

The Creator

 
Jennifer Farley  
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Wednesday, March 25, 2026

An Understanding


 
An Understanding
Post on March 25, 2026

 

Occasionally The Universe will present a challenging emotion, situation or experience and ask you to walk with it to gain a deeper, more visceral understanding.  

Rather than fighting those moments, embrace them and know that when they have reached their conclusion, you will have an insight very few possess.  

The best part of it all, my darling child, is you can make the process as long or as short as you choose. 

The Creator

 
Jennifer Farley  

Honour Your Body's Needs

Corpo da mensagem


Honour Your Body's Needs

By Kate Spreckley

March 25, 2026


In so many ways the energies are bringing an undeniable clarity about what we have outgrown and what must change. Yet, the strong need for closure coupled with the impulse to push forward is creating a deep inner friction that can feel intensely uncomfortable. While downloads of clarity and new directions continue to flood our system, our physical bodies are still catching up, processing the enormous shifts of this year. This is heavy work for the nervous system, often manifesting as profound exhaustion or overwhelm. To find balance, we are being urged to slow down and support our bodies in anchoring the shifts that our souls have already accepted.

Be mindful that you are being called to bridge the gap between your soul’s clarity and your body’s capacity. To ease the heavy load on your nervous system, focus on anchoring the light into the physical. This is not the time for doing. It is a time where you are being urged to honour your body’s need to move at a slower, more deliberate pace. This will allow the internal upgrades to unfold without burning you out. In this space, you can transform the uncomfortable tension into a stable, grounded foundation for the new directions ahead.

Much love

Kate

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Tuesday, March 24, 2026

One Constant

 

One Constant
Post on March 24, 2026

 

There is nothing permanent about your Earth plane existence. Its mutable energy shifts and changes, never repeating the same pattern. 

However, there is one constant; The Universe’s love for you is never-ending, unchanging and always with you. 

When you feel you have lost faith in everything, remember that The Universe is always there supporting and whispering its adoration of you! 

The Creator

 
Jennifer Farley  

Anchor Yourself in Peace

Corpo da mensagem


Anchor Yourself in Peace

By Kate Spreckley

March 24, 2026


We are being called to reach the future by actively birthing a new destiny for the world. As the new astrological year begins to take flight, we are being asked to do this without attachment and without expecting anything back. It is the gift we give to life, our gift to creation, one that must be given with an open heart and a willingness to give freely and therefore receive freely.

We do this by seeing beauty in every situation, by bringing beauty to every experience, and peace to every difficult encounter. When we anchor ourselves in peace, we no longer just observe the world, we begin to reshape it by recognizing the inherent goodness and hidden opportunities that persist even in times of chaos. In this space, we realize that the peace we cultivate for ourselves is the very same peace we offer to the collective.

Despite the truth that there are unlimited resources available to us, the current state of the world is triggering many into survival mode. Choose to look around yourself with fresh eyes, notice every detail, and find the hidden blessings brought to you in these transformational times. Do not be distracted by the many illusions or surface level noise. Trust your intuition and follow as it leads you forward and into bold, decisive action. Allow your perception of your circumstances to dissolve old boundaries and widen to include what you normally miss by taking things at face value. Remember that truth is your compass and courage is your engine.

Much love

Kate

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The Quiet Signs A Friendship Is Doing More Harm Than Good


The Quiet Signs A Friendship Is Doing More Harm Than Good

By Diane Kathrine

Posted on March 24, 2026



You may already know, especially if you are a regular reader of my blog, that certain people in our lives, those who bring stress, tension, or emotional heaviness, can quietly wear us down over time. They can even add years to our life in the way of premature aging.


I remember having a sense of relief when I finally understood that creating a little distance from certain relationships isn’t cold or unkind; it can actually be a deeply healing act towards ourselves.


But it took me time, quite a lot of time, to arrive at that understanding.


For the longest while, I questioned myself instead. I wondered if I was just being overly sensitive, if I was reading too much into things, or expecting too much from people. There was also that lingering belief that stepping back from someone, especially someone who had been in my life for a long time, somehow made me unkind… or worse, disloyal. I think many of us Empaths feel like we should endure and make space for others even when it is damaging.


This is a subject I explored last year in my post “Empaths Are Not Emotional Punchbags”, where I discussed the importance of recognising when we’re being drained or overextended. But what I feel drawn to talk about now are those long-term friendships that don’t necessarily feel obviously harmful, but over time have shifted or quietly soured in ways we may not immediately recognise.


Because sometimes, it’s not about clear conflict or obvious hurt. Sometimes, it’s just a feeling… a gradual misalignment, a sense that something no longer feels as safe or as easy as it once did.


But how do you recognise when a friendship isn’t serving you, especially when it’s often more subtle than spotting red flags in romantic relationships?


For Empaths in particular, it can be harder, we’re wired to understand, to give the benefit of the doubt, and we often keep people in our life out of guilt.


Here are a few gentle signs to notice:


You feel unsettled after being with them


If you often leave interactions feeling anxious, drained, flat, frustrated, or somehow “less yourself,” it’s worth tuning into that. You might notice you’re on edge around them, thinking carefully about what to say, watching their reactions, or struggling to fully relax.


Sometimes, the feeling shows up even before you see them… a quiet sense of anxiety, maybe followed by guilt for feeling that way. Or perhaps they say or do things that leave you feeling hurt, unseen, or misunderstood.


There’s an undercurrent of negativity


Not all toxicity is loud. Sometimes it’s subtle, like backhanded compliments or small comments that don’t quite sit right.


Other times, it’s clearer: sharing your private thoughts with others, minimising your feelings, competing instead of celebrating you, or making passive-aggressive remarks. As an Empath, you’ll often feel this before you can fully name it.


You’re carrying the emotional weight


If you’re always the one reaching out, making the plans, listening, and supporting, it can start to feel unbalanced. Healthy friendships flow both ways.


You might also notice inconsistency, warmth in private, but distance or dismissal around others. That kind of shift can feel confusing and quietly eroding.


If something feels off, how do you approach it?


Not every difficult moment means the friendship is unhealthy. Sometimes people we care about are simply going through something heavy.


If it feels right to speak up, try to choose a calm, grounded moment. Lead with your feelings rather than blame:


“I’ve been feeling a bit disconnected from us lately” opens a conversation far more gently than “You never make an effort.”


Sadly, people who take a lot may be running on empty. Those who diminish others can sometimes be carrying their own insecurities. That doesn’t make the behaviour okay, but it can help you decide whether this is something to work through, or a sign that the connection isn’t aligned anymore.


If a direct conversation feels like too much, it’s okay to take a step back quietly. Creating a little space can give you room to breathe, and sometimes the dynamic naturally shifts, or becomes clearer.


Knowing when it’s time to let go


There isn’t a perfect formula for this, and it can feel especially hard when you care deeply or if a friend has been in your life for a long time. But a few questions might help you decide:Has this always felt this way, or is it a phase?


All friendships have ebbs and flows, but if it’s felt heavy for a long time, even after you’ve tried to address it, it may be worth asking whether it can truly meet you where you are.Is what you receive worth what it costs you?


Your energy, peace, time, and emotional wellbeing matter. It’s okay to weigh that honestly.What’s keeping you here?


History and loyalty are meaningful, but they’re not reasons to stay in something that makes you feel small, stressed or even ill. If the answer is guilt or uncertainty, that’s something to gently explore.


Letting go doesn’t have to be dramatic. Sometimes it’s as simple as taking longer to reply, spacing out meetups, or just giving yourself permission to invest your energy where it feels returned and safe.


At the heart of it all, this is about leaning into your Sensitivity, not seeing it as something to override, but something to trust.


Your feelings are information, and you’re allowed to choose connections that feel like home.


Hope this helps on your journey,


Until next time,

Diane Kathrine

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