Showing posts with label dream interpretation. Show all posts
Showing posts with label dream interpretation. Show all posts

Sunday, May 11, 2025

Dreams and Dream Interpretation

Dreams and Dream Interpretation

by Owen Waters

Posted on May 10, 2025




The stuff that dreams are made of is called etheric energy. It has often been called the astral light because, in the spirit realms, this energy can be seen glowing with radiance in the air.

In your spirit body, which you inhabit at night during your out-of-body travels, your subconscious mind can create "thought forms" quickly and easily. A thought form is a projection of etheric energy into seemingly solid form as etheric matter.

Thought forms can be furniture, rooms, scenery, even people or animals as long as your consciousness maintains enough attention to animate them. When you move on to other scenes or awaken, these quickly created thought forms will dissipate back into etheric energy over a period of hours or days.

Lucid dreaming occurs when you become aware, in your physical consciousness, that you are dreaming. This means that the conscious, physical mind has become engaged in the dream state. These vivid dreams are therefore easily recalled when you awaken in your physical body. A lucid dream is then recalled, from the physical mind's point of view, as being more vivid than a regular dream. It actually isn't more vivid than other dreams are, it's just that the physical mind's recollection of the dream is more vivid.

The deepest levels of sleep typically occur in the first two or three hours of the night. During deep sleep your spirit body can travel to higher states of consciousness, sometimes merging with your soul family as a nighttime reunion of like-minds. You are also able to meet the spirits of friends and family who have passed on from physical life. The spirit realms are their home and you locate them simply by focusing upon their personality, then projecting your consciousness to that location. This thought-powered form of travel has been traditionally called astral projection.

In the lighter states of sleep, emotional issues are often worked through and resolved in the dream state. The key to understanding dreams is that they are typically composed of symbols, rather than actual people, places and objects. When you focus on the emotion that the dream evoked, then you can unravel how the symbols in the dream played out the emotional tension that you were working through.

For example, when frightening things happen in a dream, they are not literally happening. Instead, they are a playing-out of the fear issue that the dream represents, and they are an opportunity to examine such a fear. Basically, the light dreaming state is an echo chamber of the last 3 or 4 days worth of emotional pressures, worked through as symbols in a dream.

You can develop dream recall by keeping a dream diary beside your bed. When you awaken each morning, before you do anything else at all, write your dreams down in as much detail as you can. With practice, you will bring the lessons of your dreams closer into your daily waking awareness and recall deeper dreams. In the deeper dreaming state, you are traveling the spirit realms to communicate with friends and explore anything that interests your curiosity.

Nighttime is a time for your spirit to travel to other realms of consciousness and for self-healing to occur. While your physical body sleeps and recharges for another day of waking consciousness, your spirit body soars through other realms within your complete range of consciousness.

You can gain great insights into the events of your physical life when you tell yourself, each night before bed, that you will remember what you learned while you were out of your body and cruising the other realms of consciousness.

Happy travels!

Owen Waters

Friday, June 23, 2023

Dreaming about an Ex You Don’t Talk to Anymore? 9 Reasons to Help You Move On

Dreaming about an Ex You Don’t Talk to Anymore?

9 Reasons to Help You Move On

By Janey Davies, B.A. (Hons)

Posted on June 23, 2023





I often have dreams about an ex I don’t talk to anymore, and I’ve got a pretty good idea why. Our split was acrimonious; he was controlling and coercive and he damaged my self-esteem.

Freud thought dreams reveal hidden feelings. Dreams express our unresolved issues and desires. So, if you wonder what dreaming about an ex you don’t talk to anymore means, here are 9 possible reasons:

9 reasons why you are dreaming about an ex you don’t talk to anymore

1. You’ve been thinking about your ex

An obvious reason for dreaming about an ex is they’ve crossed your mind recently. Perhaps your current partner has said or done something that triggered thoughts of your ex.

Maybe it’s the time of year you associate with your ex, or you heard a song or watched a film that reminds you of them. Or I wonder if you’re having doubts about breaking up with your ex.

Think about why your ex came into your thoughts. It might be something simple or that you have unresolved issues.

2. You didn’t get the chance to state your feelings

Speaking of unresolved issues, people pop into our dreams because our subconscious is trying to make sense of our feelings. Your conscious mind may not want to deal with issues in the relationship. However, these issues are bubbling away under the surface.

When my last serious relationship failed, I didn’t say how I felt. I wanted to tell my ex how his actions affected me. Now, if I dream about my ex, I recognize these angry feelings. I look at where I am now. I remind myself I don’t need him to hear me out, or to get his explanation or apology.

3. You still have feelings for your ex

Dreaming about an ex you don’t talk to anymore can mean you have feelings for them. Think about the context of the dream.

Was it romantic or sexual? Did you get back together with your ex? Were you on a date or living together? All these scenarios suggest you’re still attracted to your ex. If the dream wasn’t romantic or sexual, it could mean there’s something about your ex you miss.

Were they tactile and you miss the physical aspect of the relationship? Perhaps they were practical or dealt with the finances and you’re struggling on your own?

Dreaming about an ex you don’t talk to anymore doesn’t mean you want them back. They could represent something you’re missing.

4. The relationship still damages you

If you suffered abuse or trauma during the relationship, you can harbor fears and emotions. Stress and worry during the day can manifest into dreams and nightmares.

What was your ex doing in the dream? Was s/he angry with you, shouting at you, abusing you, or ignoring you? These are all signs you’re still processing what happened during the relationship.

I sometimes dream I’m living in my ex-partner’s house without his knowledge and I’m afraid he’ll come home and find me there. When we were together, he would accuse me of flirting and cheating behind his back. I always felt guilty, even though I’d done nothing wrong.

Remember, dreaming is a safe way of processing fears and trauma.

5. The breakup was sudden without explanation


As human beings, we want answers and closure. It allows us to move on with our lives. When relationships end suddenly and without explanation, our mind works overtime to find out why.

Was there something you did? Why didn’t your ex tell you why they ended things? Are you not worth an explanation? Not knowing the reason a relationship breaks up leaves you with doubt and lingering questions. Your dreams are processing what happened to you as a part of healing.

6. Your ex symbolizes something else

Dream analysis suggests that people and objects can represent something else. Objects can have literal meanings and people can symbolize feelings or situations.

Consider how you feel when you think about your ex. Do you feel happy? Stressed or worried? Anxious and unsure? Now think about what is happening in your life. How do you feel about a current situation or the people in your life? Is there any correlation between your feelings about your ex and your waking life?

7. You feel hurt and are angry with your ex

Breaking up can feel like a bereavement. We experience feelings of grief and despair, especially if we didn’t want the relationship to end.

Recurring dreams about an ex can mean you’re still upset and angry with how things ended. When someone breaks our heart, we experience a range of emotions. We feel deep loss, desolation, helplessness, and even rage.

Your dreams are gently telling you it’s time to let go. Move on. Being angry at someone only hurts you. If you can’t move forward, perhaps it’s time to think about therapy, which can help process your thoughts.

8. You regret how you behaved with your ex

So far, I’ve been examining dreams about an ex you don’t talk to anymore, as if the breakup was not your choice. However, sometimes we regret the way we ended the relationship.

Did you take the easy way out and text or leave a voice message ending it? Maybe you ghosted your ex or kept provoking arguments to end it?

No one is perfect, and feeling guilt over your actions shows you are human. This dream is asking you to reflect on your actions and be more considerate in the future.

9. You are still in love with your ex


A simple explanation for dreaming about an ex you don’t talk to anymore is that you’re still in love with them. This is true if your dreams revolve around getting back together or going out on dates. However, you might just be dreaming about your ex because you broke up recently and the breakup is still fresh in your mind.

Having recurring dreams of reuniting with your ex doesn’t mean this is a good thing or a possibility. Think about why you broke up. Was this person your soulmate? Did they deserve you? Are you just clinging on because you don’t want to be alone?

Final thoughts

We dream about issues that concern and occupy our minds. Dreams are a way of analyzing wishes and desires buried deep within our subconscious.

To understand why you are dreaming about an ex you don’t talk to anymore, examine the context of the dream and look for hidden meanings within the symbolism. Only then you can analyze your dream and make sense of it.

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JANEY DAVIES


SUB-EDITOR & STAFF WRITER AT LEARNING MIND
JANEY DAVIES HAS BEEN PUBLISHED ONLINE FOR OVER 10 YEARS. SHE HAS SUFFERED FROM A PANIC DISORDER FOR OVER 30 YEARS, WHICH PROMPTED HER TO STUDY AND RECEIVE AN HONOURS DEGREE IN PSYCHOLOGY WITH THE OPEN UNIVERSITY. JANEY USES THE EXPERIENCES OF HER OWN ANXIETY TO OFFER HELP AND ADVICE TO OTHERS DEALING WITH MENTAL HEALTH ISSUES.

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