Neale Talks About Love… #2

Neale Talks About Love… #2

Posted on April 23, 2023

My dear friends…

Let us to take a look at what Conversations with God has to say about love and relationships.

Most people, God said to me, enter into relationships for the wrong reason. The purpose of relationship is for us to create a context within which we might announce and declare, express and fulfill, our highest notion of who we really are. Very few people understand romantic relationships in this way.

I certainly didn’t in my life, and since I have been given this information I have found myself challenged at the very highest level. I have not always met the challenge. Indeed, I have failed time and time again to fulfill the highest notion I have had about myself in my relationships with others. Yet I believe that by my failures I have grown, and come to know more and more about what it means to be truly loving.

The first person that I have to be truly loving with, is myself. I know that sounds like nothing more than a shallow cliché, but I assure you that it is profoundly true — and immensely important. Loving oneself does not mean being selfish. It does mean not becoming a chameleon, not allowing yourself to change colors and change truths and change intentions and change the way it is that you are as an individual human being simply to keep another person in the room. It means loving yourself enough to be authentically YOU even if it looks like doing so will cause others to depart.

What will happen, in truth, is that certain people will depart, but certain other people will join you in your life in a new and powerful way. They will join you because they resonate with who you are. They are in harmony with the very essence of your being. They agree with your agenda. They hold the same intentions. They are compatible with you in many ways. They are not the same as you, but they are compatible. I cannot begin to tell you how important this is. A person cannot know — nor can you — whether or not they are compatible unless they know who you are in your Truthful Being.

This is a phrase that I have coined to describe a person who lives in, and comes from, his or her truth in every moment. I made a New Year’s resolution a while back. My resolution reads like this: “Tell your truth as soon as you know it.” For years I did not do this. In fact, for most of my life I have lied. I told small lies and big lies, trivial lies and important lies. And I did it because I felt that it served me to do it. Now I see that nothing has disserved me more. So old so soon, so smart so late.

And so, on this day, I invite you to love yourself as you have never loved yourself before. Love yourself enough to speak your deepest truth to everyone whose life you touch. And especially to your Significant Other. Please speak to your Beloved from your place of transparency and total visibility in every moment. Hide nothing. Shield nothing. Stand naked before your Beloved not only physically, but mentally, emotionally, and spiritually as well. Let yourself be seen, let yourself be known exactly as you are. This will be the greatest gift you could ever give to anyone, and the most wonderful present you could give to the person with whom you share your life.

And so, this is not only an act of self-love, but an act of enormous love for another as well. For the willingness to be absolutely vulnerable and completely without defense in the space of another is the highest tribute that one heart can pay to a second human being. It says more than all the store-bought gifts could possibly ever convey. And it tells more about you than anything else you could possibly do in order to communicate who you are and how much you love.

The willingness to lose another rather than hold them in your life under false pretenses is the highest act of love. And the irony of all this is that having the courage to share what it is that you are certain will drive the other person away… is very often precisely what inspires them to stay. For they then know that they are not living with an “image” of you, but with a reality. A truth. The authentic article. The real thing.

Most people can live with reality. What they can’t live with is false hopes, misplaced dreams, and the knowledge that they cannot trust the words that come from the mouth of the person they love — not because that person is mean or cruel or deliberately trying to be hurtful, but simply because that person is so wounded that he or she cannot speak in words that can be trusted. They do not know their own truth. Because they have never identified it. Because they have never had the urge to speak it and to declare it and to announce it for fear of losing another. The result is that they have lost many others, over and over again in their life.

People with whom I counsel ask me how they can announce their truth to another when they do not even know it. They ask me to help them identify their truth, to come to understand who they really are and what they really want. I tell them that they must begin by simply verbalizing their truth. They must begin by talking. Out loud. To others. About everything.

How they feel. What they want right now. It may be quite true that many people do not know what they want in the long run, but it is not true that people do not know what they want right here and now. Everyone knows what he or she wants right here, right now. Everyone knows that. It is merely a question of whether we will h’ave the courage to speak our truth about that. If we hold that truth in, and if we have done so for years, we literally lose touch with the essence of who we are and what we desire. We fall into a quiet resentment. We begin living lives of quiet desperation. We say less and less. We think more and more. We turn inward. And our significant relationship with our beloved other becomes unfulfilling — and we don’t even know why.

So on this day, give the gift of truth. Forget the candy, forget the beautiful card, forget the flowers, forget the dinner out and the negligee and whatever else it is that you thought would be the “perfect gift” on this ’special’ evening. Just tell the truth. Tell the good truth and the bad truth. Say the words that you know will be welcomed, and the words that you know will not. Be brave. Be courageous. Be authentic. Be truthful. And in so being, be the essence of love itself.

With Pure Love,

Neale

https://www.cwg.org/blog/041423

About Consciousness

About Consciousness

By Neal Donald Walsh

Posted on February 13, 2023

My dear friends…

Have you noticed that virtually every week these days there is some scholarly, scientific newspaper or magazine article or book or television news segment confirming the messages in the Conversations with God series of books?

This is thrilling to me not for reasons of ego, but just the opposite. Each one of these scholarly, scientific revelations makes it more and more clear to me that I had very little to do with the nature or the quality of the material in my dialogue with God. I’ve known that all along, of course, but these constant revelations confirm it.

They confirm it by telling me things that I could not possibly have known on my own, and showing me from a scientific viewpoint how true the words that came through me in CwG are!

I am a person of limited education (read that: no college degree), and I have little awareness of (much less understanding of) scientific thought on the nature of life and the universe. But I am finding out more and more every day, and it is thrilling me to see the words in CwG confirmed!

Let me give you an example of what I’m talking about.

Some time back I was reading an old cover story from U.S. NEWS & WORLD REPORT. The article was headlined: Science and the Soul. It was an in-depth exploration of the intersection of science and spirituality by journalist Jay Tolson — but it might as well have been a rewrite of the basic principles of The New Spirituality as described in the CwG books The New Revelations and Tomorrow’s God .

Tolson’s story fascinatingly explores what he describes as an emerging new field called neurotheology — a cross-disciplinary examination of the biochemical workings of the body and the mind as they relate to what spiritualists call “consciousness.”

Some scientists, the article informs us, believe there is no such thing as a separate consciousness that directs the activities of the body and the mind, but, rather, that every one of those activities is directed through biochemical reactions that begin at the most fundamental, submicroscopic, level of cellular and molecular interplay. This is a “bottom up” theory of causality, in which human beings (and their minds) are seen as biological mechanisms reacting to exterior stimuli in an ultra-sophisticated, if nevertheless fairly primitive, survival-of-the-species response designed, simply, to serve life.

Other scientists disagree, believing that the process of making conscious choices reflects a more traditionally accepted “top down” causality, in which humans think first of what they wish to experience, then produce their responses to exterior stimuli. Still others go further, suggesting that not only does human thought produce responses to the body’s exterior environment, it, in fact, impacts that environment. (In other words, thoughts create reality!)

If the first category of scientists call themselves reductionists, perhaps the last group might be called expansionists. Reductionists are believers in the proposition that all human behavior — and every reaction in life, for that matter — can be attributed, ultimately, to some root cause, however minute, at its basis, some chemical reaction, some initial physical propulsion. Expansionists, on the other hand, consider the possibility that root cause exists in realms that include, but are larger than , the physical. (Hence, meta physical.)

Reductionists would argue that there is no such thing as that which is larger than the physical, and that all such phenomena are but an illusion. Expansionists would argue that it is the physical which is the illusion, arising out of a process of metaphysical interactions with the environment — interactions which both react to that environment, and create it.

And now, writer Tolson tells us, science is exploring a new view of this “top down/bottom up” debate regarding causality: the idea that both are true. Both are occurring at once! This could only occur, science is now acknowledging, if the body and the mind were one.

Now that may seem to us like a fairly obvious notion, but much of the world has for centuries embraced the Cartesian model of a mind that is separate from the body (as opposed to the brain , which is seen as the physical location within the body where the Mind resides). This idea was placed into the common culture by French mathematician and philosopher Rene Descartes, who, as Tolson’s story explains, proposed that reality consisted of two entirely different substances: material substance and thinking substance.

Christianity, too, has adopted this thinking, finding that it supports its own proposition of the existence of the Soul (as separate from the body). Now, Tolson tells us, science is seriously asking two separate questions. Reductionists are asking, What if the soul does not even exist? In fact, they are not even asking that. They are saying it. Meanwhile, expansionists are asking: What if the body and the soul are one? (This is, of course, what CwG says. It reveals that the body exists within the soul , not the other way around, and that our physical body is the same stuff as the soul, simply vibrating at a different speed.)

Now the New Science is asking, “What if the facility that scientists have been calling ‘consciousness’ is really the soul ? And what if ‘consciousness’ is both physical and nonphysical, seen and unseen?”

I find it fascinating to watch how science is responding to such questions, and to see how it is now confirming the accuracy of many CwG statements, including CwG’s revelation of the true nature of Divinity. “God,” says the New Spirituality, “is a process.” And says the New Science? Tolson explains that the line of inquiry that science has now opened “suggests that consciousness is far more than a sophisticated survival machine…” Some members of the New Science community are now supporting the notion that consciousness “is a profoundly complex emerging system.”

And if the word “consciousness” is synonymous with the word “God,” then where do we stand…? This is the question that the New Spirituality asks — and answers. To review those answers (or to visit them for the first time), you may find it fascinating to take a very close look at the dialogue in the later Conversations with God books, including those mentioned 11 paragraphs ago, as well as Home with God in a Life That Never Ends. These extraordinary revelations bring us right to the intersection of the New Science and the New Spirituality…where tomorrow begins.

With Love,

Neal Donald Walsh

http://www.nealedonaldwalsch.com/