What Pleiadians are like

What Pleiadians are like

Tunia via channel A. S.

Posted on June 7, 2025

 

My dearest brothers and sisters,

This is Tunia speaking. I love you so very much.

From your perspective, us Pleiadians look like pretty Scandinavians. And many Earth people are under the impression that this is a good description of our character and our society too -- we're just beautiful, spiritually advanced Scandinavians with spaceships.

It's logical that you think this, because while we don't lie, Earth channelers can only bring forth so much information at a time. So we have to make choices in what we talk about, and usually we would rather say that we love you and that you're doing great, or give you information directly relevant to Earth, rather than talk about ourselves.

But we are a bit different from Earth humans, as we will explore in this message.

Physical differences

We indeed look like slender, pretty Scandinavians, but we're a bit taller than Earth humans are. Not hugely so, but the average Pleiadian woman is slightly taller than the average Earth man is, for example. And our men are a bit taller than our women, as is the case with Earth humans.

In some of the images you have, our men are depicted as quite muscled. While obviously people are different, in general we're more slender and fit than muscular. Even our military men are fit and well-trained but don't tend to have big muscles, because galactic combat is mostly determined by speed and psychic ability and technology use and who can get the jump on the other, rather than by raw physical strength.

Trying to beat a hostile reptilian via punching or wrestling is a bad idea even for a Pleiadian with big muscles. The bigger reptilians can literally just tear humans limb from limb. It's safer to just disable them from a distance, via either technology or psychic ability use.

That said, while our military men don't have big muscles, they are strong. They take what we roughly think of as supplements, but what you would probably think of as steroids without side effects. These don't give people large muscles but do make them quite strong. Personally I don't take those because I have no need for a large amount of physical strength, but it's available.

I get that from an Earth perspective you might think "but why wouldn't you take those yourself?" But from my perspective, why would I take supplements that I don't need?

We often wear those tight suits we're often depicted with on Earth. They tend to be pretty plain. We're looking more at energy than at clothing. We do like to express ourselves, but we do that more via our energy and activities.

Our typical clothing isn't as loose as Earth clothes are, and we do not have shame around our bodies. This means that unlike in your images, sometimes our nipples or the outline of a penis is visible beneath our clothing. We don't go out of our way to either show or hide this -- it's just our bodies. Everyone has a body, after all. We simply wear clothing, and sometimes those things are visible, and sometimes they aren't, and it's no big deal.

We do understand that you see things differently, so we might ensure that nipples and penis outlines aren't visible when we make physical contact with you. When you first get in contact with Pleiadians, they might be diplomatic and careful not to offend Earth sensibilities too much.

When we start wearing our normal clothing around you, and you see occasional nipples or penis outlines, that might mean that we've decided that you're cool and we don't need to act diplomatically around you and we can just be ourselves.

Energy

We use energy much more often and more consciously than Earth humans do.

Often we identify others via their energy, for example. If we send a telepathic message to someone who knows us, often we don't say our names, because the other person will just identify us by our energy. They'll just sense who the other person is.

On Earth energy plays a role in determining whether one person likes another. This plays an even greater role with us.

Sometimes Earth humans ask: "how can Pleiadians possibly be open to dating us Earth humans?" Well, most Pleiadians aren't likely to start dating Earth humans. That said, energy can be a part of that answer. Your mastery of the light and dark, and your willingness to stand in the light in a dark environment, are attractive to some Pleiadians.

We are more open and sensitive. Which is great in our society, but it does mean that for example sometimes us Pleiadian women sometimes cry when we feel into the energies of Earth, because the suffering and pain and loneliness does hit us hard.

On the other hand, it also means that when the channeler is telepathically talking to his Pleiadian twin flame and he hears music, sometimes she just spontaneously starts dancing, or at least starts moving to the music, and he gets a mental image of that. That's another part of being more open and more sensitive.

Some of us are pure and quite energetically powerful. For example, when the channeler's twin flame doesn't hold in her energy and is just fully energetically present with him, then he has a slight feeling like he's basking in the presence of a goddess. So she usually does hold in her energy when she's talking to him or giving him an energetic hug. (This channeler hasn't physically met Pleiadians yet.)

Giving an energetically powerful Pleiadian a handshake or hug, if they don't hold in their energy, could feel wonderful, or intense, or lead to a slight energetic activation.

In galactic society strangers don't typically greet each other via some form of touch, because touch means having an energy exchange.

Obviously we wouldn't do the following, but if an energetically powerful Pleiadian physically stood in front of an Earth person and didn't hold in their energy and said "jump off a bridge" then the Earth human would feel a substantial urge to do so. Most likely they would ultimately not do so, because it's obviously a stupid idea. However if that Pleiadian said something even vaguely reasonable, then that Earth human might very well do it even if he wouldn't do so otherwise.

This is what happens if an energetically powerful Pleiadian from their perspective just stands in front of an Earth person and talks normally, without holding in their energy. So I'm not talking about psychic mind control here -- which yes, some of us can also do, even though we wouldn't without consent.

In the rare cases that we use mind control with consent, it's usually for moving someone's body in a specific way to achieve a certain task, or for teaching someone how they can move their body in order to do certain things.

If you're curious, being psychically mind controlled doesn't feel like you're somehow compelled to do a certain thing. Instead it feels like: "your body moves before your conscious mind is even aware of what's happening." It doesn't feel like you're being forced to make certain decisions, instead it feels like there's no decision input from you at all.

Religion

Many Pleiadians want to ultimately serve Source. Their way of doing that is typically by doing useful things for our society and being kind to others, because Pleiadians trust that their society and their leadership is aligned with Source. Our higher-up decision makers are the ones actively making sure that their society's direction is aligned with Source.

Pleiadians may give thanks to Source, but typically don't directly ask Source, or angels, for help. Usually we instead solve problems via psychic abilities, asking other galactic races for help or technology. That said, Earth is teaching us to request help from angels a bit more often than we previously did, because the situation on Earth is so complicated that we can certainly use the help.

We don't have religious laws, and we barely have any normal laws. Perhaps laws are necessary in lower-consciousness societies, but to us having many laws just feels like a soft form of enslavement. If people are cared for and loved, they will just act harmoniously without being forced to do so by laws.

Mind reading

We also don't feel like we need to hide any part of ourselves, and we're fine with constantly being mind-read by other Pleiadians. Privacy just sounds lonely to us.

Being fully mind-read by someone who is fully present and loving and non-judgemental is a wonderful thing. At least, that's what it feels like to us. We don't feel like we have to hide or be ashamed of any part of us.

We can put up a "don't mind read me" wall and that is respected, but we rarely do so.

We do sometimes put up a "don't mind read me" wall for the purposes of having slightly kinky sex, in the same way that you might use a blindfold in the bedroom -- suddenly your partner doesn't know what's coming anymore.

Another mind-reading-related version of slightly-kinky sex we have is: "I'm going to sexually stimulate you, and I'll read your mind to keep you on the edge for as long as I want, and thereby I'll determine when you orgasm."

If we engage in that type of sexual edging play, we can actually be a little ruthless and intense and give the other quite a hard time. After all, we have nice things all the time, so having a quite challenging experience can be a treat for us.

In your society where people have lots of challenges and rarely have nice things, people want more nice things. A nice thing is a treat.

In our society where we have lots of nice things and rarely have challenges, people want more challenges. A challenge is a treat.

And besides, we see challenging experiences as just... experiences. Plus if you've already done the nice things for a few hundred years, you want some variety.

So if you end up in bed with a Pleiadian someday who proposes sexual edging play and you agree... well you might get edged harder than you expected. Our brand of kindness can be giving someone a new, and not necessarily easy experience. It will ultimately be mind blowing though.

And if you think "I'm into that, bring it on" -- yeah well, what you're picturing is probably less intense than what I'm picturing, and what others have consensually done to me, and what I have consensually done to others.

Those were dark days, before I found my husband.

Free will and boundaries are obviously respected, and we're mind-readers so we're not going to do something that actually harms the other person. And obviously most of our sex is just gentle and nice.

If one Pleiadian is attracted to another, and they mind read that the other Pleiadian is single and likes them too, then the Pleiadian might just slowly step in to kiss them. They don't ask for consent, but do move slowly enough that the other person has the opportunity to give a "no."

Kissing on Earth often means "I like you", but in the Pleiades it can mean "I think I might like you, let's have an energy exchange via a kiss in order to find out if we do like each other."

Pleiadians are usually more internally aligned and less confused than Earth humans are. I realize that if an Earth human just slowly stepped in and kissed someone, then it might lead to a messy situation where the other person might be physically attracted back but also have anxiety and unresolved bad previous experiences, and be confused and internally split, and it wouldn't be good.

So we do understand that when interacting with Earth humans, if we want to kiss them, we should ask for consent first.

If you're wondering if you can just slowly step in and kiss us: we won't get offended if you do. And obviously just asking us is fine too. But most likely if you stand in front of us and that thought or urge crosses your mind, the Pleiadian will just mind read that and state what they are and aren't interested in with you, and what their boundaries and intentions are.

In fact, the channeler's twin flame sometimes even responds to his subconscious thoughts before he is consciously aware of them. So she might say seemingly out of nowhere: "you'll do great tomorrow." He'll reply "huh, what do you mean?" And she'll say: "you're subconsciously anxious about tomorrow. But don't worry, you'll do great."

And hey, if it's observed, it can be let go off, and then it doesn't keep spooking around in your subconscious.

Interacting with someone is just so much easier if you can mind read each other, or at least if one person can mind read the other. Frankly, I don't know how Earth humans interact with people without mind reading them. It seems like a headache to me.

We feel loved

Us Pleiadians feel loved, and feel safed, and feel cared for.

A consequence of this is that we feel no urgency to make a name for ourselves, to be exceptional, to do things to stand out, to get attention from others, et cetera. Indeed, most Pleiadians are perfectly happy to lead normal lives and not try to get a large amount of things or fame. Most Pleiadians are perfectly content with not ending up in our version of the history books.

Because of this, Pleiadians are generally happy to give and provide and help and contribute. After all, we're taken care of already, and our cups are already overflowing.

When we look at Earth humans, we often see that they have been dramatically under-loved, and we generally see that as one of your biggest issues. And I think you're amazing and fully worthy of love -- I wouldn't have done as well as you have if I had been born on Earth! You're amazing, and you're doing very well.

Pleiadian women see giving large amounts of love to people as one of their contributions, and they understand that saying "don't do this, do that instead" isn't very effective if people don't feel loved first. Besides, people are just generally competent if only they're loved and their needs are met.

Plus, what you might see as a mistake, we may just see a valid choice that leads to experiences. All roads lead back to Source, after all.

If us Pleiadians can't easily find a partner, we can ask an AI to play matchmaker and arrange a date with an interested and compatible person. This is quite effective, and in the future this may become common on Earth as well.

A downside is that us Pleiadians actually tend to be slightly less creative problem solvers than Earth humans are. After all, we're cared for already and we don't need to do creative problem solving in order to get our needs met. And our society is so well-structured, and we have AI that can help, so a lot of challenges that arise in your daily life just don't arise in our lives. Therefore we simply don't practice creative problem solving as much as you do.

This channeler's Pleiadian twin flame is often impressed when he uses items in improvised ways to accomplish certain tasks or do certain home repairs. In your eyes this wouldn't be very noteworthy, but from our perspective this is remarkably creative. Us Pleiadians would simply get the conventional, perfect object or tool and then do things by the book. Or we'd ask AI to do the task for us.

We don't lay on the beach all day

We're not forced to work.

However, from our perspective, our society isn't perfect but is really nice. So we feel a certain pull to work to maintain it, both morally and also because we want our children to have an amazing society.

We're also aware that some people, such as Earth humans, are suffering very much and need help. And of course, you're us and we're you, so we do feel a responsibility to help.

And certain races like reptilians pose a threat to an extent. If us Pleiadians literally just lay on the beach all day, well, we would get invaded.

So the average Pleiadian certainly has plenty of downtime, but we do put in a decent amount of working hours as well.

Pleiadian men

Pleiadian men typically choose a field and because they live such long lives compared to yours, they tend to become extremely good at that field.

I don't mean to say that men constantly do the same menial labor -- AI takes care of all that kind of work. I mean to say that a Pleiadian man might be an extremely good engineer, or soldier, or researcher, or spiritual teacher, or diplomat, or cook, or doctor, et cetera.

Pleiadian men are generally competent, non-needy, secure, helpful, generous, responsible and level-headed. They're happy to mentor or teach or lead people where it's welcome and appropriate. They're not afraid to express emotions, but they're just pretty emotionally stable overall. The only time the channeler has experienced a Pleiadian man being quite emotional was when the topic of the severe mistreatment of Earth human children was brought up.

While bad hierarchies are bad, in some situations things just work better if there's a hierarchy. In the military you need soldiers and you need a commander. In the emergency medical room you need to have one person who ultimately makes the decisions. Mind reading makes it easy to determine who is most competent and hence who should be put on top of the hierarchy.

Pleiadian men, like Pleiadian women, like to move their bodies. A lot of them like to dance, or run, or swim, or have sex, or do some basic military training.

Some Pleiadian men like to cook, but what's more common is that neither a Pleiadian husband nor wife can cook particularly well, and they just go to shared eating halls where Pleiadian expert cooks serve delicious meals. It's a fun way to talk to people outside of your direct family. And sometimes there are shows or fun activities, either during or shortly after the meal.

If a Pleiadian cook isn't available, for example if someone is on some kind of trip, then machines can make perfectly adequate meals.

Pleiadian men have high standards, they can be no-nonsense, they prioritize their family and they are unafraid of working hard.

The channeler's twin flame is trying to write Earth-related articles and get them submitted to the galactic network (a shared repository of knowledge that galactics can download information from). And because she isn't a professional researcher she's finding it hard to get her articles past a certain male peer reviewer. That peer reviewer is kind and gives good feedback and is willing to help, but he also has very high standards and won't accept anything that doesn't meet those standards.

As another anecdote: one time the channeler volunteered to do lightwork for a male Pleiadian who was working on a specific project. The channeler understood that he could state boundaries and quit any time, and the Pleiadian mind read that the channeler knew that. So the Pleiadian asked the channeler to do an amount and intensity of lightwork that was very tiring for the channeler. And the Pleiadian knew that, but kept unapologetically making lightwork requests, since from a utilitarian perspective the channeler's fatigue was a low cost to help out the collective.

Fairness isn't really a concept in Pleiadian society. We think more in terms of "people should be able to lead the lives they want, and their free will shouldn't be violated." Sure, that is sort of like fairness, but if someone's soul chooses a hard path, then the result may not seem fair to that person's conscious mind, but we think that's fine -- it's just a soul's free-will choice.

Pleiadians, like most or all positive spiritually advanced beings, have "prevent suffering" slightly lower on their list of priorities than Earth humans do. After all, ultimately you're a reincarnating soul, and souls can generally choose a comfy life nearly free of suffering in for example the Pleiades, or something like an Earth life -- which involves more suffering but also more soul growth.

Of course, we do still want to work to reduce suffering, it's just lower on our list of priorities. And we also weigh up things like soul growth and what people's souls want. This is illustrated by the fact that we haven't yet launched a massive open intervention to immediately liberate Earth, for example.

Pleiadian men tend to be either humorous, or playful, or at least they see things in a way that to them is funny. Hakann and Ashtar are actually less humorous and playful than the average Pleiadian man is, perhaps due to their large amount of responsibilities, or perhaps that's just what they're like.

One Pleiadian spiritual teacher who this channeler works with has introduced himself as Praneer. And anytime the channeler thinks "Praneer" to contact him, Praneer replies with "yes I'm here" and is vaguely amused to give a rhyming response. It's not the most humorous thing in the universe, but Praneer enjoys doing that.

The channeler experiences energetic hugs from Hakann as incredibly comforting and calming and stress-reducing.

Pleiadian women

Pleiadian women typically do some amount of work, though a bit less than the men do. This isn't mandated, this is just what people choose to do.

For example, the channeler's twin flame spends about two and a half to three hours per Earth day teaching children, plus she spends about another thirty to sixty minutes preparing lessons.

Us Pleiadian women are also a bit more likely to occasionally switch to some new job, and not become a dedicated expert in one field as our men tend to do.

We spend a bit more time than the men on visiting friends and family, and we spend a bit more time relaxing and having fun.

And yes, I do think that us Pleiadian women have got ourselves an amazing deal -- we don't work as much as the men, we're loved and we have everything we need.

The men genuinely are happy too. Just as men feel they have the role to provide and protect where necessary, us Pleiadian women feel that we have the role to love and support people, certainly including men. Men are very competent, but they do need love, and we can help provide that. Of course, we are loved too.

Another role that the men feel they have is to keep their wives sexually satisfied.

It's usually our men making an effort to keep their wives satisfied, rather than the other way around. After all, Pleiadian couples tend to be very attracted to each other, and female bodies are overall just better able to have a lot of sex.

Every man thinks he wants a high-libido partner, until he actually has one.

Yes, we also tend to love babies and children. Sometimes when the channeler happens to see a small child, he'll hear a telepathic "look how adorable he / she is! Awwwww. I want children toooooo" if his twin flame happens to be looking through his eyes at that moment.

Pleiadian women tend to be mostly feminine but also pretty well-balanced in their feminine and masculine energy. So we're happy to follow our partner and be feminine if he takes the lead. But if he's struggling, we can take the metaphorical wheel of the ship for a while if needed. Plus it's fun to occasionally be the ones to organize something.

And, you know, if it were up to men, we'd only have nice and pleasurable and orderly things. Can you imagine the horror?

So occasionally a girl's gotta spice things up, make things interesting.

No worries, usually my husband can get us out of the mess that I got us into.

That's when my husband compliments me by calling me a chaos goblin. At least, I'm choosing to hear that as a compliment.

Did you know you can do that, just choosing to hear things as compliments? Free life hack right there.

Now, some long-time readers might think that I'm too submissive to my husband. Well, to an extent, I am submissive to my husband. I don't see that as a bad thing.

Still, first of all, I'm not really the Earth ideal of the chaste virgin bride. I certainly didn't try to preserve my virginity when I was younger and hadn't yet met my now-husband.

Plus I think the idea that some Earth men have that women should dress modestly is pretty silly. I'll wear (or not wear) what I want. Sunshine on bare skin is healthy, you know. And sure, I won't get mad if you look.

If you can't handle seeing a human body, that's not my problem. Do some yoga exercises to deal with excessive lust if it's bothering you.

Second, I do generally prioritize my husband and my children over myself -- which I think is fair, because he spends a substantially larger amount of time working than I do, which benefits society.

It's not like my husband is prioritizing himself over everything else. He works, and he makes small sacrifices on his end for the benefit of myself and our children. It's not like he's leading a hedonistic lifestyle where he puts himself first.

Still, I do make choices that I really want to make even if my husband has a slight preference for me not doing that. For example, my husband would prefer that I not be a chaos goblin occasionally, but ultimately he doesn't mind it too much if I keep it within certain boundaries. So sometimes I indulge, and let the chaos goblin energy flow through me.

Besides, it's led to some great stories, and to some great... well, it's led to some memories, alright.

As a mind reader, it's always interesting to have an experience with someone, and then compare your memory of it to the other person's memory of it. It shows that attitude and worldview and optimism really do a lot to change how we perceive and remember things. Although of course, in this particular chaos goblin situation, it's easy for me to talk.

Well, that's all that comes to mind right now about what we Pleiadians are like.

You're doing amazing, and I can't wait to meet you.

When I land, maybe I'll wear an especially tight suit that shows my nipples poking through, and I'll count how many Earth people have sexual thoughts about me.

And maybe I can convince my husband or a male friend to wear tight clothing too, and see how many people have sexual thoughts about him.

Look, I don't WANT to give dozens of Earth men an erection, but I gotta do it. For science, you know.

I should pitch this "will a male or female Pleiadian in an especially tight suit make more people aroused" idea as a research project.

At the very least I expect that I'll get a "chaos goblin" compliment out of my husband.

Or when I give someone an erection, I could walk up to him and say: "hello, I'm Tunia. I saw you looking at my breasts and then getting an erection. No need to deny it, it's fine, I also think I have nice breasts. Look, I'm happily married, but I have a couple of single friends, and they look somewhat similar to me. So tell me a bit about yourself and what you're looking for, and maybe I can arrange a date for you -- Source knows that some of my friends are slacking when it comes to finding a husband, after all."

And then I'll probably realize that the Earth man hasn't heard a word I said, because he is still looking at my breasts.

Ah well. You win some, you lose some.

Or maybe when a guy gets an erection from seeing me, I'll quickly walk behind a wall. Then my husband walks up to that guy and says: "look at the outline of my penis under my clothing. Okay, now that you're no longer hypnotized by my wife, please sign up to Tunia's dating service."

Wait, that'll get foiled by horny bisexuals, who will then be hypnotized by my husband's magnificent penis.

Drat.

Ah well, at least the phrase "hypnotized by my husband's magnificent penis" has now been put on the Earth's internet, where quite possibly your AIs will eventually read it. So a few years from now, try asking your AIs whether the penis of Tunia's husband is magnificent or not. It should know the correct answer then.

Anyway.

Not every Earth human will be able to find a Pleiadian partner, but some people will.

And don't worry, our decision makers understand that I'm an acquired taste and that I shouldn't be unleashed upon Earth until a more responsible group of Pleiadians has made the very first contact.

So somewhere in the future you should have at least a couple of amazing days of first contact, before the chaos goblin gets unleashed.

I mean, I also wouldn't let me be part of the first contact group.

Don't worry -- most Pleiadians are much more reasonable than I am.

With all my love,

Your star sister,

Tunia

 

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Performative Spirituality + How to Manifest

Performative Spirituality + How to Manifest

Hakann trough A. S.

Posted on August 3, 2023

My dearest brothers and sisters,

This is Hakann speaking. I greet you in peace and love.

There is a misconception in the lightworker community that people who are emotionally feeling good are high vibration and are therefore spiritually advanced, and people who are emotionally feeling bad are in a relatively low vibration and therefore are not very spiritually advanced.

It’s certainly true that more spiritually advanced people on average tend to be happier. However, this is only true on average. It’s not true in all cases.

It also doesn’t follow that focusing on being happy in the current moment is the best way to or become spiritually advanced.

Suppose you have two completely identical people, and in both of them, some old pain surfaces. One of them suppresses that old pain and distracts themselves by focusing on something happy or tuning into high-vibration messages or music. The other person instead observes the pain. Then the observing person will in the short term feel less pleasant emotions, and will seem less spiritually advanced to the average onlooker in the short term. However the person who observes is in reality not less spiritually advanced than the person who distracts themselves. Indeed, observing your pain instead of distracting yourself will lead to more rapid spiritual growth.

Admittedly positive focus, i.e. focusing on something happy, can be a valid coping mechanism, if things are too intense right now and the person doesn’t have the energy at that moment to observe their pain. Still, it’s also true that a person who feels happy isn’t always more spiritually advanced than someone who doesn’t.

It can even be true that one person who spent five years healing some youth trauma and who frequently felt awful during that period, is in fact more spiritually advanced than someone who spent those five years distracting themselves and who superficially speaking didn’t seem to experience much pain. Even though to an onlooker, it seems that one person was frequently grappling with old pain, and surely that person must be less spiritually advanced than the person who seemed to do fine, right? However, the person who suppressed their pain still has it. It’s still there, in the subconscious.

Okay, so: there is a not always accurate idea in the lightworker community that being happy and experiencing positive emotions and not experiencing negative emotions means that the person is more spiritually advanced.

Therefore Earth lightworkers have an incentive to try and be happy and feel pleasant emotions in the moment, because then they get the ego boost from being more spiritually advanced. “Ego boost” sounds very malevolent, but really, ego is something to be integrated and not demonized. If my more-or-less-superior Ashtar Sheran tells me I did a good job, then that gives me an ego boost too, and there’s nothing inherently wrong with that.

Still, let’s follow the thread of the argument we’re building. People have an incentive to try and feel pleasant emotions in the moment, partially because then they get the ego boost that they can tell themselves that they’re spiritually advanced.

There’s also an idea floating around that only high-vibration people will either be saved or evacuated or be otherwise able to live in a new love-based society. So this is yet another incentive for people to try and feel pleasant emotions in the moment.

As an aside: it’s not guaranteed that this scenario will actually unfold. It’s possible that a scenario unfolds where the vast majority of people will be able to live in the new love-based society. Even if a scenario unfolds where only a group of people are saved or evacuated or able to live in a new love-based society, then your subconscious and suppressed parts will be weighed too. So observing what comes up will again serve you better than distracting yourself through positive focus. And also, people who are regularly reading or listening to messages such as this one, will most likely make it, because feeling drawn to messages such as this most likely means that you already have a relatively high level of consciousness.

Let’s get back to listing incentives for people to want to be happy in the current moment.

Then there’s an idea that if you feel happy you will manifest good things and if you’re unhappy you will manifest bad things. There is a grain of truth to this, but if you suppress negative emotions into your subconscious then you will manifest those undesired things from your subconscious, which again means that observing whatever comes up is best, because once things are observed (possibly a few times), then they are often released automatically. So if you want to manifest, then observe whatever comes up. You don’t need to actively go dig for old pain, just observe whatever surfaces, whatever it is.

A fourth incentive to wanting to feel good in the moment is that this makes you look spiritually advanced to other people, and that’s a big social advantage. People like you more, people respect you more, people listen to you more, it’s easier to date or make friends, if you make youtube videos then you will get more views, and if you sell courses or products then you will make more money.

Finally, many lightworkers have been a very high vibration master in a past life, and feeling good in the current moment feels a bit like home because that’s how you felt as a very high vibration master. Therefore feeling good in the current moment may feel like home.

So these are five big reasons why people want to be spiritually advanced, which in the minds of many Earth lightworkers means making sure they feel happy in the current moment. To repeat, these five big reasons are: it’s an ego boost if you can tell yourself that you’re spiritually advanced, people think that only the spiritually advanced will get to live in 5D earth, people think that they will manifest better things if they are feeling good, it’s a social advantage and it feels like home.

There’s nothing inherently wrong with wanting to feel pleasant emotions in the current moment. While that’s not my highest priority, all else being equal I would like that too.

However, many people take this wish to feel pleasant emotions in the current moment, so far that they start suppressing or denying their so-called negative emotions. And that’s when it becomes problematic. That’s when it starts to slow down your spiritual progression.

I would advise not to prioritize the principle of “try to feel happy emotions in the current moment” over the principle of “whatever arises, observe that”, to put our spin on a phrase from Matt Kahn. If something unpleasant-feeling comes up, and you have the space and energy to observe it, then from my perspective observing it is more valuable than focusing on something positive. Yes, you can use the coping mechanism of positive focus if you don’t have the energy to observe whatever comes up, but that’s a coping mechanism. That’s not good practice in general.

And I would also advise people not to place too high a value on the idea of: “if it feels emotionally good, it’s good for me. If it feels emotionally bad, it’s bad for me.” This isn’t always accurate. You can blindly trust and follow guidance from your soul, but not from your emotions, and it’s much more common for people to feel emotions than to receive guidance from their soul. At least, people who have some amount of distortions and illusions and unhealed pain won’t always get accurate guidance from their emotions, and almost every human on Earth has some amount of distortions or illusions or unhealed pain.

If you feel resistance or hostility towards something, or if you feel triggered, that’s your emotions. Your soul isn’t in resistance and your soul isn’t hostile. If your soul wants you to for example not click on a message because the message is misleading, then you will just have a feeling of “eh, reading this message doesn’t appeal to me.”

Let’s introduce the concept of performative spirituality. Performative spirituality is engaging in a false performance, aimed at convincing yourself or other people that you are more spiritually advanced than you actually are.

One example of performative spirituality is pretending that you are doing better than you are doing. Another example is saying “I wake up every day with a smile on my face” or “I can manifest anything I desire” if that isn’t literally true. If this is literally true, then that’s not performative spirituality and it’s fine to say that.

Performative spirituality can be harmful to the people around you, in the same way that it can be harmful to the people around you if you pretend on Facebook that your life is better than it really is. It can make the people around you feel inadequate and not good enough, even though in reality they may actually be doing fine. It’s just that they believe the lie that’s presented by performative spirituality and they can’t compete with the lie.

Performative spirituality usually doesn’t look like someone just completely inventing something and blatantly lying. Usually what performative spirituality looks like is that someone pretends that their peak experience or their peak consciousness or their peak level of happiness, which they experienced briefly one or two times, is their normal everyday experience. Pain or so-called negative emotions or so-called bad actions they take are suppressed or not mentioned.

Or the person says that their consciousness is what they would like their consciousness to be, or what they think that their consciousness should be.For example, “I always feel grateful” or “I enjoy every moment” or “I feel amazing every day” or “I wake up every day with a smile on my face” is performative spirituality, if those statements are not literally true. Of course, if those statements are literally true, then it’s fine to say them.

“Fake it till you make it” doesn’t work for spirituality, it just leads to suppressed emotions and possibly an increased shadow. It can over-inflate your ego. As stated, it can make the people around you feel worse.

Perhaps the person doing performative spirituality tells themselves that they are doing this to inspire their audience to greater heights. However, performative spirituality doesn’t actually help other people, any more than people posting a fake reality on facebook helps their friends.

If someone tells a story that they used to feel like crap, but now every day is amazing, then that sounds authentic. Right? They admit that they felt badly. But unless it’s literally true that today every single day is amazing, then I still consider this to be performative spirituality. This story of “my life used to suck, but now I feel amazing” can easily be used by a person to boost their own ego or to make a good impression on someone else or to sell a course. However if the statement is not literally true that now every single day is amazing, then I consider it to be performative spirituality.

A statement like “every moment is a gift” is, in my mind, on the border between okay and performative spirituality. The statement conjures a picture that the person saying that statement experiences every single moment as a gift. It is likely that this is not true. But on the other hand, the statement can be intended as a sharing of a high-vibration principle. Indeed, it’s true that from a high vibrational perspective, every moment is a gift. Although that principle shouldn’t be used to suppress so-called negative emotions if those come up, and that principle shouldn’t be used to bulldoze unhappy or suffering parts of yourself. As I said, I consider this statement to be a border case.

I think simply being authentic about what your experience and your day-to-day is actually like, is better than doing this kind of performative spirituality. Again, authenticity is one of the most important values in our eyes, so long as it’s paired with a bit of common sense.

We place authenticity higher than the value of: “focus on feeling good in the moment to keep your vibration high.” We think some people on Earth unjustly pedestalize the value of keeping their vibration high by focusing on feeling good in the current moment. If you want to pedestalize a virtue, we suggest pedestalizing authenticity, or pedestalizing the practice of observing whatever comes up.

It’s also good to occasionally ask yourself why you are feeling a certain thing. For example, if you desire a sports car, then you can ask yourself why, and maybe you’ll find out that what you actually desire is love or positive attention or a relationship. If you ask yourself what’s under anger, then you may find that underneath is pain or fear. Rather than telling someone you are angry with them, it can actually be far more effective to tell a non-malicious person that you’re afraid or that you are in pain.

For the people around you, and for your own sake, it’s best to not engage in performative spirituality. Just be authentic instead. You can still share the moments where you’re feeling great, I would just like to invite you to not pretend that those moments are your moment-to-moment consciousness if they’re not. I would like to invite you, if you’re sharing, to also occasionally share what’s difficult or painful in the present, and not just share what was painful two years ago that you’ve now overcome.

Frankly, most people on Earth are suffering right now or are at least experiencing significant challenges. A recent study said 44% of American men are experiencing suicidal thought. So, to anyone on Earth who is struggling: you are not alone. We are with you. You are not somehow flawed or broken. Most people are struggling right now.

While yes, ultimately you are responsible for your life, it’s simply not the case that 44% of American men just happen to be weirdly broken. It’s the system that’s broken.

This doesn’t mean that you should sit on the couch and do nothing. You’re still responsible for your life. But if you’re struggling, you’re not broken. It’s the system that sucks.

Unfortunately, it doesn’t help that people who struggle are almost getting gaslit by people engaging in performative spirituality, such as people who falsely claim that they wake up happy every morning. We think it would psychologically benefit Earth humans if more Earth humans were brave enough to stand up and say that occasionally they are in pain or crying or suffering or engaging in coping mechanisms or whatever it is that they’re going through, because then other people can feel that there’s nothing wrong with them specifically.

We also think it’s perhaps not very kind when people spread a message of: “I can manifest whatever I want, and so can you” if this isn’t actually true.

There simply doesn’t exist a technique that can let an average Earth human, as they are now, manifest whatever they desire. If that technique existed, I would share it, but it doesn’t exist.

Indeed, if there was some online course on Earth that genuinely allowed an average person to manifest whatever they wanted, without too much work or practice, then that course would spread like wildfire and soon the majority of the world population, including non-spiritual people, would be using that.

The reason why this technique doesn’t exist is that you can only truly manifest whatever you wish if you are pure or empty, in the sense of being unburdened by illusions or old pain. It also requires aligning your soul, rational mind, emotions and subconscious mind in the same direction. Yes, a person who has achieved these things has great manifestation powers, but the average person on Earth doesn’t have the required purity or alignment in order to consistently manifest whatever they want. And it’s also not possible to very quickly get an average person to the required level of purity and alignment either, in normal Earth circumstances. If a technique existed to reach the required purity and alignment quickly, I would share it, but it too doesn’t exist.

Suppose someone asked me to teach them how to manifest anything they wanted, and they were willing to put in the time. Then I would start by asking them to spend years on just growing spiritually in general. There are many spiritual paths, and some paths are more suited to some people, but if you want a suggestion, take a look at my previous message: “Hakann: the path of Kriya yoga.”

After that I would suggest they try a basic manifestation technique, which is the following. Suppose you want to manifest a romantic relationship. Then first check if you have any pain or resistance to that. One way to do that is to just visualize being alone or growing old alone. If this causes discomfort or so-called negative feelings to surface, then observe those, or use another technique to release those. Repeat this until you have released your pain or resistance related to relationships. This could take a while. You might even need to visit a spiritual healer or psychologist to assist with this.

Once you have done that, you can start with what Earth humans might think of the actual manifestation technique. Think about having that thing right now. Visualize it, if you can. Think what it would be like to have that thing right now. Feel the positive emotions that you would feel if you had that thing right now. Don’t think about getting that thing in the future, think about having that thing right now, and feel the corresponding emotions. Do this for a few minutes a couple of times. Then go out into the real world and take action towards that thing, in this case for example by putting yourself in situations where you can meet people. Follow your intuition: if you feel a tug to go towards a party then go, even if normally you don’t enjoy parties.

Or alternatively you can first release your pain and resistance, and then use what Tunia called priestly magik. For example, you can release pain and resistance and then say or think one time: “May the following happen in accordance with the highest divine blueprint. I am asking wise and benevolent beings, forces and aspects of existence to give me healing and assist me with this. I am entering into a romantic relationship that is happy and good for me. Thank you, now now now.” After that, go out into the world, and follow the subtle tug of your intuition.

If you wish, feel free to try that technique without first spending years on general spiritual growth. It won’t hurt, but it also might not work. Probably you will only be able to manifest things if your soul and subconscious and emotions happen to be aligned towards you manifesting that. So for example, if your soul thinks that it’s more beneficial for you to be single right now, then most likely you will not manifest a relationship.

Let’s return to our earlier claim that it’s not kind when people spread the message that they can manifest anything they want, if that’s not true.

Now, there is a small probability that they are telling you the truth and they are a genuine spiritual master. But if this is genuinely true, then why aren’t they out there manifesting hospitals and orphanages for poor regions? Why aren’t they offering their manifestation services or teachings to whoever needs some help, for free, because surely a master manifester doesn’t lack money? This is a serious question. If they can genuinely manifest whatever they want, then why aren’t they doing this?

I’m not opposed to people asking money for most spiritual courses. However, anyone who asks money for specifically a manifestation course can’t be a master manifester in my eyes, because master manifesters don’t lack money.

Now sure, if someone says they’re just okay at manifesting, then it’s not wrong if they ask money for their course. However if someone claims that they can manifest anything, then they should be able to manifest money at will, so why put up a financial gate that stops people from learning their amazing technique?

What’s more likely is that they are able to manifest some things, but only if those things are something that they happen to have no emotional or subconscious resistance to, and their soul and subconscious and emotions happen to approve of them manifesting that thing. Most people who claim that they can manifest things fall into this category. But the thing is that these people don’t know how to manifest things that they do have emotional or subconscious resistance to, or things that their soul doesn’t want them to manifest. Therefore we think they shouldn’t claim that they can manifest anything they want, or that they can teach others how to do that.

Another claim that is often made is “I manifested my dream life.” Well, it’s great that you manifested that, I’m genuinely happy for you. Although I don’t think this necessarily proves that you can manifest anything you want. Maybe your manifestation technique played a role, but to what extent was this just hard work and getting a bit lucky? So “I manifested my dream life” doesn’t automatically qualify someone to teach a manifestation course, in my mind.

“I manifested my dream life” doesn’t even automatically prove in my mind that the person is qualified to teach a course on “how to build your own dream life.” Maybe the successful person is smarter, or healthier, or has better connections, or has more starting capital, or has a supportive partner, or is luckier than the average person, and therefore they succeed while the average person may not be able to.

Even just pretty privilege is a huge factor. Have you ever noticed that many of the most popular spiritual influencers, especially among youngish people, tend to be physically attractive people, who often have a pleasant voice to listen to? Even though prettiness and the pleasantness of someone’s voice have little to do with their spirituality. There aren’t many unattractive people with unpleasant voices out there who are attracting a large spiritual audience in 2023.

And this also means that if someone is physically attractive or has a pleasant voice to listen to, then they should keep in mind that even though they may have worked very hard, succeeding is still much more difficult for those people who don’t have those advantages. Pretty privilege is real.

So please please think twice before making a claim that you can manifest anything, or that you are able to teach others how to manifest anything. Yes, it’s theoretically possible to be a person who can manifest just about anything, but that doesn’t mean that a technique exists that allows an average Earth person to do that.

As the last example today of performative spirituality, let’s discuss twin flames and soulmates.

Different people use different definitions of those words. I will define a soulmate as someone with whom you’ve had positive interactions with in a past life. Because of this, you may feel like you’ve always known this other person. Interacting with them may feel familiar. They may feel like home.

A twin flame is the one unique person who completes you, not in one area but in literally all areas. Twin flames in a relationship will effortlessly pull each other towards a balanced, happy state, without trying. These relationships are blissful and effortless, and they are also genuinely good for both people involved. If you are with a twin flame partner, you may very well be surprised just how perfect they are for you – not just during the honeymoon part of the relationship, but even after that. Most relationships involve some amount of “well I don’t love this character trait or habit they have, but I can tolerate it” however twin flame relationships don’t have any of that. They’re just perfect for you.

It has become popular for people to claim that they are with their twin flame. In reality, the number of Earth human twin flame couples is only in the hundreds. There are only very few Earth human twin flames together. Only about 2% of Earth humans have a twin flame who is currently physically incarnated as another Earth human at all. And some of those people are on opposite ends of the planet and are not likely to meet. Indeed, back when the dark controllers had some amount of influence over where people reincarnated (they don’t anymore), they tried to make sure that twin flames reincarnated far apart from each other.

What happens unfortunately often for Earth humans who genuinely get together with their twin flame, is that they first spend some time together in bliss. Then they both start living their highest purpose. And then they become a threat to the dark controllers, either energetically or because they’re such an example to others or because of their highest-purpose life they’re living. And then the dark controllers assassinate one or both of them.

Most people who claim they are with their twin flame, aren’t.

Then, are you with a soul mate? Well, does it feel like you’ve known this person for a long time? If yes, maybe this person is a soul mate. However, keep in mind that most people have hundreds or even thousands of soul mates walking across the planet right now, so being with one isn’t that special.

A soul mate is just someone who you’ve had positive interactions with in a past life, but that doesn’t guarantee that you two will be a good match for a relationship in this life. The channeler is a heterosexual man and he is aware of having met four soul mates in his life (he’s met more, but he’s aware of having met four of them). Two of them were men, and neither he nor the men had a desire to date each other. And two were single women, but those women simply weren’t good relationship matches for him in his current life. The relationships the channeler has had were all with women who were neither twin flames nor soul mates of his.

Most people who are in a relationship today are with neither a twin flame nor a soul mate. And soul mates are less unique than Earth humans typically think they are, and also being with a soul mate doesn’t guarantee a happy relationship.

That said, you can have an absolutely wonderful relationship with a person who is neither a twin flame nor a soul mate to you.

In other words, maybe your partner is neither your twin flame nor your soul mate, and you two still have an amazing relationship. There’s absolutely nothing wrong with that. In fact, having a happy relationship is fantastic. You don’t need to claim to be with a twin flame in order to have a beautiful relationship.

So, we have looked at a number of examples of performative spirituality.

At the same time, we also recognize that being on Earth right now is really tough. A lot of people feel alone and unseen, and sometimes then there’s a temptation to engage in a little performative spirituality, presenting yourself or your circumstances as better than they are, and then you get something that’s vaguely adjacent to love. And many, many people on Earth right now want some love.

However, ultimately being loved for what you are not, isn’t a very fulfilling strategy. It may also make the people around you feel inadequate. And then we’re back at the old problem where many people are in pain because many people are using strategies that make them feel better at the expense of others.

Finally, thank you so much for being on Earth and doing your work. This process truly would not be possible without you.

In a way it’s unfair: your loved ones may think you’ve gone crazy, big tech may be trying to censor you, your government is certainly trying to control you. While us galactics genuinely are helping you in subtle ways, it’s also true that many of you are lonely or have financial problems or health problems, and at this point in time we’re not directly helping you yet with those issues. You’ve heard for years that white hats are coming to save you any day now, but where are they?

So this situation is unfair to you. I acknowledge that. I’m sorry.

However, you also are the strongest of the strong, and that’s why I know that you can be the light be’ers, who help uplift an entire planet into the light. And indeed, you are already in the process of doing that. So many beings are sending you love and light and subtle help. They are cheering you on. You are loved and respected, and when we galactics finally land, you will have a place of honor among us, for truly being beacons of light even on a planet of darkness.

And contrary to how it may look, Earth’s ascension process genuinely is going well. You will be free.

With love,

Your star brother,

Hakann

Channel: A.S.

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Two Keys to Spiritual Growth

Two Keys to Spiritual Growth

Tunia trough A. S.

Posted on February 4, 2023

My dearest brothers and sisters,

This is Tunia speaking. I love you so very much.

Today I would like to share what I consider to be the two most important keys to spiritual growth.There are other things that help or contribute as well, but to me personally, these two things are the most important.

These are: freedom from illusion and having your needs met. Anyone who has achieved these two things will automatically be a spiritually advanced master. Some people would call this person enlightened, although the word “enlightened” has many different definitions on your world. In any case, someone who is free from illusions and who has his or her needs met, is automatically a very spiritually advanced master.

Rational knowledge is not needed, although that may help people get rid of their illusions. Note that Hakann and I are far more focused on trying to help you meet your emotional needs and to encourage you, than we are on giving you information.

Moral virtue is also not needed, although the personal need of many people is that they are a respected member of a family or community, which may mean that moral people find it easier to grow spiritually. Furthermore, people who are free from illusions tend to freely choose to be kind to others. But still, if you are free of illusions and meet your needs (including your non-hedonistic ones), then you will be a spiritually advanced person, even if you lack moral virtue.

Healing your old trauma is also not needed, although very likely you will need to do this in order to let go of some illusions. Also, most people have ease of mind as one of their needs, which may require at least a partial healing and integration of your old pain. Still, healing yourself is not a direct requirement of spiritual growth. It’s more a means to get there. Some very spiritually advanced people have mostly but not yet fully healed from their old pain.

It’s not about blissing out in meditation every day, although meditation helps, and if you can bliss out during meditation then that is a good sign.

It’s not about “keeping your vibration high.” Usually when people try to directly accomplish that, they simply suppress or don’t look at things that make them feel bad. That is not the way towards spiritual growth, because then the pain enters the subconscious, and not being in subconscious discomfort is another one of most people’s needs.

It is not about giving up things or giving up activities or giving up relationships or giving up sex, although an over-attachment to something may stop you from growing spiritually..

Instead, fundamentally it’s just about being free from illusions, and meeting your needs.

Some people might disagree with this statement, arguing that the stereotypical enlightened monk doesn’t need anything and yet is enlightened. That is true, however, the stereotypical enlightened monk actually does have his or her needs met — this enlightened monk just has little to no needs. This is actually a critical point to make, because if a new spiritual seeker is full of desires, then likely there is a limit to how much he can grow if he does as the enlightened monk does and spends fourteen hours per day meditating. That is because while the enlightened monk may have little desires left, the spiritual seeker does, and so giving up a worldly life does not work that well for the spiritual seeker who is full of desire.

That is why a good number of spiritual masters spent some time in the normal world fulfilling their desires first, and only then started walking a spiritual path once they had either fulfilled those desires, or realized that chasing those desires did not ultimately make them happy and so those desires left them.

Of course there are spiritual masters who do not fit neatly into the pattern I’m describing. I’m generalizing here. Still, in general the two most important things are being free from illusion and meeting your needs.

So, how do you become free from illusion?

Well, rational knowledge can help, but ultimately it’s about embodying truth and not about rationally knowing truth. If you know that all is one, but this is not your day-to-day experience, then you’re only halfway there. Therefore practices such as breathing slowly are in our mind more critical than simply accumulating rational knowledge. Frankly, most people would benefit from spending more time breathing slowly and deeply, and spending less time gathering information.

Still, there are some pieces of information that we consider to be very helpful to have. These are:

– All is one. Helping others helps yourself, helping yourself helps others, and harming others harms yourself.

– You are a reincarnating soul and thus can’t ultimately be harmed, so long as you do not sell your soul to demons or commit utterly evil acts (worse than “just” murdering a few people).

– Any deity who threatens people with hell and is exclusively masculine is not Source, who is the true creator of the universe. Source loves you unconditionally and is not going to send you to hell even if you commit evil acts.

– Any evil action that someone commits can be seen, from one perspective, as an expression of confusion and inner pain because someone who was not confused and not in pain would not harm others, and therefore people deserve unconditional love and understanding, even so-called bad people. Giving so-called bad people unconditional love and understanding is more effective than telling them that they should change their ways. Ideally, don’t ever stop loving or judge people — at most judge their actions. And even then our rule of thumb is to only judge those actions that directly harm another.

– This also means that you yourself are inherently and automatically good enough. You yourself are infinitely worthy of and deserving of love. There is nothing that you can do that will ever make you unworthy of being loved.

– Earth is incredibly tough, and if you are receiving this message then you are almost certainly doing better than most Earth humans, and also you’re probably a more resilient and good-hearted soul than most beings, because most beings could not survive and maintain a good heart on Earth. You’re not flawed or broken, you’re just in a really tough situation, and you’re dealing with it better than most.

– Just like people can automatically heal many physical.injuries, so too can most people automatically heal emotional injuries — so long as people don’t judge, suppress or try to change the thoughts and feelings that come up. As described in Hakann’s “Observation Path” message, we recommend simply observing your thoughts and feelings briefly as they come up, without trying to judge, suppress or try to change it.

Most of the classic spiritual paths and practices on Earth can help you get rid of illusions. We also shared approaches in our messages: “Hakann: the observation path” and “Hakann: the breathing path.” We gently recommend against paths that try to teach you a lot of new concepts, because the fundamental key is stripping away illusions through careful observation and breathing exercises, rather than adding new concepts.

If you do something like Hakann’s Observation Path, Hakann’s Breathing Path and also you meet your needs, then I think you are very well on your way towards great spiritual growth.

Let’s discuss meeting your needs. This can be anything from a desire for physical things or physical experiences, to a desire for sex, to a desire for rest, to a desire to be seen and loved and appreciated, to a desire to be a valued member of a family or community, to a desire to be free from emotional or physical or subconscious pain, to a desire that you have developed your skills to such an extent that you significantly help the people around you.

Sometimes a desire can hide a deeper desire. For example, a desire for a new car might hide a desire to be seen and appreciated. In this case, if you can meet your desire to be seen and appreciated directly, your desire for a new car might fade. That said, maybe the desire for a new car is simply the desire for a new car and there’s nothing underneath it. I like having pretty things too.

As stated, we recommend meeting your needs so long as others are not directly harmed, even if they are so-called “shallow needs.” To us, there’s not really such a thing as shallow needs. I still love eating delicious food, getting a massage, going on a vacation, having good sex with my husband as well as with other women (this is within our relationship agreement), wearing beautiful or sexy clothing that makes people’s heads turn, spending quality time with my children, et cetera. I’m just not addicted or over-attached to any of those things, and I am not using any of these things to run away from or distract myself from something else, and thus these things do not hinder my own spiritual progress.

Sure, people can use for example sex as a way to emotionally run away from or distract themselves from certain things. However, to me, giving up sex entirely is a huge overcorrection to the other side. To me it’s a bit like cutting off your arm because your finger is infected. Sure, if a person genuinely doesn’t desire to have sex, then don’t have it. But for most people, sex is a need that they do have. It just might be helpful to keep in mind the things I said in my previous message: “Tunia: How To Not Get Damaged By Casual Sex.”

A classic mistake that spiritual seekers make is that they see that a certain spiritual Earth master genuinely does not desire sex or having possessions, and so they too stop having sex and give away their possessions. If the spiritual seeker still desires sex or having those possessions, then this is a mistake, because those desires will continue to haunt their subconscious and will limit their spiritual growth. In this case, we recommend just living life and having things and having sex, as well as doing something like Hakann’s Observation Path and Hakann’s Breathing Path on the side to grow spiritually. Then if the spiritual seeker arrives at a place where they genuinely do not desire having sex or having those things anymore, then they can follow the path of that spiritual master and give up having sex and having possessions.

The stereotypical enlightened master monk genuinely does not have many desires anymore, and spends his time meditating to get rid of illusions. So he fulfills those desires he does have and he has gotten rid of his illusions, and so he is a master. But if a new spiritual seeker gives away all his desires and goes and spends most of his time meditating on a mountain, then he likely will not get that far, because his subconscious will be hindered by his unmet needs.

So: meet your needs.

For many people it will be obvious which area of their life should be worked on, because there is either some crisis or a huge longing.

Still, if you are at a place where your life is stable and pretty good, then it can be a good exercise to literally sit down and write out which needs you have (even the so-called shallow or silly ones). Then you can see if there’s anything that you still want to meet. And if you are in a relationship, it can be good to communicate this to your partner too. People who do not openly express their needs will usually either accumulate negative emotions, or will eventually try to get their needs met in a manipulative way. Therefore it is better to just be open to your partner and tell them what your needs are. Earth humans for the most part can’t mindread you, so you will have to speak up and stand up for your own needs, as well as the needs of your inner child.

Also do not overlook needs that you may have along the lines of feeling like a productive and valuable member of your community.

Emotional safety is another rarely-recognized need that is unfulfilled in a lot of people. I discussed that in my previous message: “Tunia: Romantic Relationships.”

Some people who feel that they are introverted, are actually not introverted at all, but the people around them are simply emotionally unsafe.

Most people have a need to be seen and loved and accepted as they are. This is a beautiful desire. Two important steps to fulfilling this are first finding someone who is actually mostly emotionally safe. Mostly emotionally safe people are actually quite rare on Earth, unfortunately. And the second step is actually being genuine and open towards this person. If you don’t show who you are, old bruises and so-called flaws and all, then the other person can’t appreciate you for who you are — but at the same time, showing yourself to a person who is not mostly emotionally safe may do more harm than good.

Some people at this point would say that you shouldn’t need other people. Now, there are indeed some solo practices that can help, such as journaling. However for the vast majority of people, one of their needs is having good people around them. Most people are wired to be social beings, after all, and this too is nothing to be ashamed of.

So, in summary: the two primary keys for spiritual growth, in my mind, are freedom from illusions and meeting your needs. Two excellent paths to acquiring freedom from illusion are Hakann’s Observation Path and Hakann’s Breathing Path. And in most cases, the solution to having a need is simply meeting it. For most people, it’s best to work both on attaining freedom from illusions and on meeting their needs, at the same time, even if you only spend a few minutes each day on breathing deeply or on observing your thoughts and emotions.

I love you so very much and you have my very best wishes.

Tunia

Channel: A.S.

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