We can’t speak about negotiations underway during this final act of eliminating darkness

We can’t speak about negotiations underway during this final act of eliminating darkness

By Matthew Ward (Matthew)

Channel: Suzanne Ward

Posted on September 4, 2024

Long-time lightworkers; Illuminati setbacks; G/NESARA, Saint Germain; Rockefeller faction; ET event: questions, facts; critical mass theory; choices, opposites, vibrations; telepathic communication: people, animals and plants

 

With loving greetings from all souls at this station, this is Matthew. Activity during the last quarter of this year is to be groundwork for reshaping your world, and it’s off to a good start! Action in Earth’s energy field of potential reflects what is happening on the ground, and amidst the tumultuousness, streamers with glowing attachments are achieving unstoppable momentum and increasing in numbers.

“I’ve been a Lightworker for over 50 years. I am tired and ready to pass the baton.” We add our respect, praise and gratitude to other light beings’ similar expressions of appreciation for that dear soul and all others who spent the past half century helping Gaia’s people and all her other life forms.

These lightworkers, the first volunteers to incarnate, had no external sources of illumination, yet even those who felt like strangers in a strange land intuitively knew they had come for a purpose. Later, from messages like ours and other messengers of the light, they learned that they are natural bulwarks of the love-light energy Earth’s slumbering souls needed so they could awaken and realize they had the power to change their world. And, without knowing who else may have come with the same purpose, each of those volunteers steadfastly radiated light all the while dealing with challenges and enduring times of despair and heartache.

In the Akashic tapestry of Earth’s deliverance from darkness, their valiant journey is alongside Gaia’s profound thankfulness to every soul who has helped blaze the trail that is leading her back home.

Dear brothers and sisters, whether you are of that first wave of helpers or one of its successors, you are honored, thanked and loved by all light beings. What happens anywhere affects everything else everywhere else, thus your service to our universal family on Earth benefits life throughout this universe.

“Why does all light forces’ action have to be ‘behind the scenes?’ I would like to see some progress and feel our light really is doing some good.” We understand your feeling. We experience the same when we live in third density to help the civilization change what they don’t like about their world. Many of you have been exceedingly patient for a long time, some of you for a very long time.

We can’t speak about negotiations underway or light forces’ activity during this final act of eliminating darkness. However, we can tell you the growing numbers of nations that are conducting business outside the old systems is cutting out the Illuminati’s lucrative profits. That development in international commerce and other recent setbacks are causing individuals in top ranks to defect.

Major changes are on the way with G/NESARA. The G was added for global, which more accurately describes the scope of the US legislation that provides legal footing for implementing a new global economic system. For the first time in the history of banking and commerce, those industries will function on stable, honest foundations and at last the financial playing field will be level for all people and all nations.

Have you ever wondered why Saint Germain, the principal architect of the National Economic Security and Reformation Act—it is no less than the blueprint for world transformation—chose to enact legislation in the United States?

He saw the Rockefeller faction of the Illuminati spread beyond that country’s west coast and keep going until they bumped up against the Rothschilds in the Mideast and continued their westward movement.  They have controlled that vastness from Washington, DC, where they have literally employed every presidential administration since their forebears stealthily established the United States Corporation more than two centuries ago. They manipulate all stock markets from Wall Street and set usurious interest rates via their privately owned Federal Reserve System, whose tentacles wrap around the globe.

The Act legally tears down that malicious worldwide empire.  It also ends the corporate status of the states and installs the republic form of governance the nation’s founders established in the constitution.

Dear ones, when beneficial changes on the horizon start reverberating around the world, your patience absolutely will be rewarded!

“In the ‘alternative news’ there is a lot of talk about a BIG E.T. EVENT predicted to happen soon.” The rest of the lengthy email is, in brief: Would that be ‘good’ ETs, ‘bad’ ETs or a Deep State fear tactic? We don’t know the source of that information or to what event it refers, so let us tell you what we do know.

Years ago engineers in the light forces erected a powerful light grid around Earth to prevent the entry of anything in low vibratory ranges. A group with nefarious intentions would emit low vibrations and could not even approach the grid. Dark entities in the population—human, reptilian or hybrid—have ancestry that goes back a long way on the planet.

For the past decade or two UFO sightings have been occasional and always without incident, so most people are not apprehensive—they logically assume the spacecraft are from a benevolent civilization. Actually, they are from a number of benevolent civilizations and thousands of ships are surrounding Earth. Some will land when safety is assured for the crews and crowds, and God will tell fleet commanders when that is.

Faking an alien invasion has been an option on the Illuminati agenda ever since Little Grays arrived in the 1950s. Since then they have been living in tunnels because they became trapped in third density and couldn’t return to their homeland. When they refused to participate in made-up invasion some years ago, the Illuminati came up with Plan B: creating one holographically.  In their weakened state it is doubtful they could manage that, but they are desperate and may still have minions with technological expertise who are willing to try. If so, ET crews will turn their efforts into a dazzling spectacle.

“Does Matthew know when we will reach critical mass and ascend?” That 144,000 awakened souls constitutes the critical mass that lets them physically ascend and live in eternity with Jesus and God is a belief in some quarters.

Some individuals who believed that would happen during their lifetime entered Nirvana so deeply disappointed that they chose to sleep rather than accept that their bodies died and critical mass is only a religious theory. Other believers are discouraged because they expected to ascend before now, and still others are optimistic that after a few more souls awaken, all of them will live eternally in a wondrous heaven.

The basis for Earth’s ascension is the amount of sustained light on the planet. The inpouring of light from distant civilizations and continuously radiated by lightworkers assures that Earth’s steady course into higher astral planes continues until she reaches her her destination in high fifth density. That abundance of light also has helped millions of awakened souls start on personal ascension pathways whereby they evolve by growing in spiritual and conscious awareness.

Interpretations of some holy book references are serious departures from universal realities. For instance, the serpent that tempted Eve to eat fruit from the forbidden tree is considered by some religious scholars to represent God’s opposite, the devil or Satan. There is no devil or Satan and God has no opposite.

Similarly, darkness isn’t the opposite of light, it is the absence of light; and hatred isn’t the opposite of love, it is the absence of love. There is only love-light, the energy that is cosmic consciousness and the most powerful force in the universe. Creator/Creation is the only source of that energy and the energy is the only “substance” from which anything has ever come and shall forevermore.

Creator gave all souls the freedom to choose what they want to do with Its energy. It is choices wherein there are opposites—kind and cruel, helpful and hurtful, honorable and deceitful, good and evil—and what makes them opposing forces is the difference in their vibrations.

Ranging from high to low in frequencies along a limitless electromagnetic bandwidth, vibrations emanate from every idea, word, action and circumstance; every sensation of joy, pain, comfort or sorrow—from everything that exists. All godly expressions in thoughts and deeds are in high vibratory ranges, their opposites are in the low, and the ultimate opposition is the universal battle between the light and the darkness that started in antiquity. On Earth the light forces are vanquishing the dark and bringing that battle to a close.

Now then, we didn’t speak about an important facet of telepathic communication in our last message because even without it, the message was considerably longer than usual. Conversing telepathically is not only the province of people—that ability is innate in every soul and all animals and plants are souls with varying levels of consciousness. The mineral kingdom isn’t “alive,” but crystals and rocks have consciousness and communication ability and so do water, air, fire and earth, the elements that are essential to life.

When God, Gaia and Sol co-created Terra, the planet now called Earth, telepathic communication was natural throughout the realm’s animal, plant and mineral kingdoms. Every soul and element knew its importance in the interconnectedness of All and every aspect of Terra thrived in a symbiotic friendship. The planet, then, was in its entirety the garden of Eden. Humans and animals in the food chain made a soul level agreement—in exchange for the latter providing sustenance to the human population, they would be nurtured lifelong and death would be merciful.

When darkness entered that idyllic state, puppets of the dark forces instilled ferocity in some animal species and instilled in the human population the desire to be cruel to each other and the animals. Humankind’s betrayal of their agreement and brutal treatment of all Earth’s animal species contributed heavily to such a severe loss of light that less than a century ago the planet was in death throes. Gaia cried out for help and many advanced civilizations responded by beaming the intense light that kept her planetary body and its residents alive on land and in the seas.

Now, the abundance of light on Earth is helping to restore the harmonious relationship between human and animal populations.  It is promising that “wild” animals are showing trust, interspecies friendliness and helpfulness are blooming, and growing numbers of individuals are preserving animals’ lives and habitats. Beloved family, your supportiveness and steadfastness in the light have inspired these heartwarming developments that are a paramount aspect of personal and collective soul evolution.

All light beings in this universe are cheering you ever onward and supporting you with the power of unconditional love.

 

Suzanne Ward

 

https://www.matthewbooks.com/

 

About Victimhood

About Victimhood

Hakann trough A. S.

Posted on August 26, 2023

My dearest brothers and sisters,

This is Hakann speaking. I greet you in peace and love.

Today I would like to talk to you about victimhood. This topic is very relevant today.

One hotly debated topic of victimhood is: are black people victims of slavery and discrimination, and should we strive for equality of outcomes via black-people quotas?

Of course Earth humans are free to form their own opinions and make their own choices, but from my personal perspective: yes the average black person is a victim in some ways, because he or she still experiences negative effects from the legacy of slavery and past and present-day discrimination. This is true.

However, victims should still take responsibility for their own lives. It’s also not a good idea to create a self-identity out of victimhood.

Yes, I understand that some people may want to receive love or sympathy or help. However creating a self-identity out of victimhood isn’t the way to achieve that.

Also, just because some black people are victims, doesn’t mean that it’s good to victimize other people to address that, for example through black-people quotas (which is discrimination against white people). Victimizing one group to help another victimized group doesn’t reduce the amount of unfairness in the world, it increases it.

Just because some trees are hurting, doesn’t mean that it’s good to sacrifice the meritocracy-ecosystem of the entire forest in order to help those trees.

White people may also become more racist if they have a harder time finding a job because of black-people quotas. Which is understandable — being a poor white person is a hard enough life even without being discriminated against due to the color of your skin, through black people quotas. The solution to this issue is not having black people quotas.

Furthermore, if you were in a hospital and you knew the hospital had black-people quotas for surgeons, would you want a white or a black surgeon to operate on you?

I think in that specific case, many people would want a white surgeon to operate on them, because they knew he got there on merit. Meanwhile the black surgeon might have gotten in because of the color of his skin. And people want their surgery to go well. (Obviously without quotas, the black surgeon is just as good as the white surgeon.)

So yes, blacks are victims in some sense. No, that doesn’t mean that black-people quotas are a good idea.

The identity politics people often engage in the fallacy that if outcomes aren’t equal, then that proves there must be discrimination. Well, they don’t apply this principle consistently, because if they did, then they would have to conclude that universities discriminate against men, because more women attend university. To be logically consistent, the identity politics people would have to demand male-only quotas for university. The counterargument “but men are privileged” doesn’t work here, because average men really aren’t privileged over women in the West in 2023. Tunia has argued that in detail in previous messages.

The fact that the identity politics people don’t advocate for male quotas suggests that they’re engaging in a “help the female / minority ingroup, attack the male / white outgroup” type of tribal politics. This isn’t enlightened, or even progressive for that matter. This “help the ingroup, hurt the outgroup” agenda is the same type of thinking that happened in caveman times. The only thing that’s different is that the ingroup is now women and minorities, and the outgroup is now men and white people. But that’s still tribalism. It’s just rainbow-colored tribalism.

If you are interested in why black people on average are having worse outcomes than white people, well, certainly the legacy of slavery and unfair government policies and discrimination play a part. However, another big piece of the puzzle was explained very well by Dr. Thomas Sowell, who is a black man himself. Dr. Sowell has published an excellent two hour long youtube video titled “The Origin of Black American Culture and Ebonics.”

The best thing to do in my opinion is to acknowledge that there was slavery and systemic injustice against blacks in the past and there are still individuals who discriminate against black people in the present. However I think Earth society should move forward with a policy of non-discrimination in the present (which also means not having hiring quotas for certain groups). And individual people should take responsibility for their own lives, even if they were victimized in some ways.

Also, when you read a news or political article, be careful that you may be getting manipulated if the article uses language to tell you what to think before it tells you what’s actually going on. For example, if the article uses language to indicate that this person victimized that poor black person, before the article even tells you what actually happened, then the article may be trying to manipulate you. Or as another example, the identity politics people often say J.K. Rowling is transphobic, but they usually don’t ever actually share the statements that Rowling made that allegedly were transphobic. Similarly, the right wing sometimes calls a person a communist or woke before even saying what that person did or said that was allegedly so bad. Be careful if before it’s even shared what happened or what the person said, the person is labeled as a communist, woke, transphobe, extreme right, alt right, nazi, fascist, conspiracy theorist, misinformation spreader, etc. If someone tells you what to think, or applies a label, before they tell you what happened or what was said, then that’s an attempt to get you to see the actual information through a particular lens. If labels must be applied, it’s better to share the facts first and do the editorializing second.

Okay, so we’ve covered one case of victimhood.

Let’s consider another case of victimhood: are lightworkers victims? After all, some lightworkers would argue or deep down believe that lightworkers or the awake or victims, due to the slowness with which the sleepers to wake up, or due to the failure of the gray hats or galactics to take more direct action, or due to the censoring of the awake by big tech. After all, it’s unfair that lightworkers and the awake have done their own inner work or research work, but they’re not being rewarded for that in any kind of tangible way.

Yes, lightworkers and the awake are victims, in a sense.

Some gray hats would argue that the people aren’t victims, in fact it’s the fault of the people that they haven’t engaged in more peaceful demonstrations or local politics. However, the sleepers obviously aren’t demonstrating because they’re sleepers. And the awake are in a sense getting trained into a learned helplessness worldview, because they know there’s injustice, but they’re also getting censored and mocked and not listened to, and the police and military who should take action aren’t doing nearly enough. So what do you expect the awake to do?

Still, even though lightworkers and the awake are victims, they’re still responsible for their own actions.

Just because someone is a victim doesn’t mean that they should just sit on the couch and wait for other people to do things. That’s not productive.

Most people are victims in some sense (not everyone is necessarily a victim to the same degree). If everyone waited on everyone else to change, then nothing would happen.

Yes, the situation that the lightworkers are in is in fact not fair to them. And yet, the best thing to do is to just keep moving forward.

I would also like you to consider the following perspective. You can think of this as alternate glasses that you can put on — this other perspective doesn’t invalidate the fact that this current situation is unfair to you. Just because I’m giving you a new pair of glasses, doesn’t mean that you won’t still have your old pair of glasses. And that old pair of glasses is still useful.

This other perspective is that soul growth or soul expansion is just about the most valuable thing in the universe. This current life is important, but is also just one journey of your soul, and you’ll retain the soul growth that you’ll be achieving here on Earth. And lightworkers are attaining a great deal of soul growth right now indeed.

When we galactics have landed, and also after this life, you will have more opportunities than the current sleepers do, because of the soul growth you’re achieving right now.

There are still many possible futures, many possible scenarios. No one knows exactly what future is going to unfold, because of the free will of Earth humans involved. In some scenarios, most of the current sleepers either transition (die), or they will keep living the rest of their lives in a harsh 3d reality while the awake people experience will go on with their lives in a pleasant love-based society.

Still, it’s also possible that the sleepers and the awake keep living in one society and that some of the sleepers die or keep living in denial, but most of the sleepers wake up. It’s possible that the following will happen. From the perspective of the sleepers, one day out of the blue they will experience something completely crazy and unexpected — whether that’s a mass landing of friendly ETs; or a mass arrest of leaders and a takeover of the media by the gray hats; or a solar flash event.

Then after a while, the current sleepers will experience a life that’s more pleasant and beautiful than they can imagine. Abundance and amazing new technologies will be released. After a while, they won’t have to work that much anymore. They’ll have access to physical and psychological healing. They may be able to visit beautiful other planets and interact with and possibly date extraterrestrials. They will have access to true and mind-blowing information.

They’ll have more freedom and health and abundance than they ever dreamed of. Do they wish to have a spa day? Do they wish to visit a mind blowingly beautiful other planet? Do they wish to study the history of the universe? Do they wish to discuss philosophy with Venusians, or learn spirituality from Arcturians, or learn psychic abilities from Sirians, or make music together with Andromedans? Do they wish to have an orgy with Tunia-like women, or men like myself? Do they wish to ask a galactic matchmaker for help to find their true love? Do they wish to finally see my famous dance moves?

It’s possible that the current sleepers will experience let’s say a century where every day is like this — because their life spans will quite possibly be extended too. And the current sleepers will love it.

And then, something will begin to gnaw at them.

It will be slow and easy to ignore at first. They’ll just push that unpleasant realization away. They’ll go on another holiday, or they’ll go study some topic, or they’ll go have more sex or eat more delicious food.

But it will keep gnawing. And gnawing. And gnawing.

Eventually they will face the realization that while this current life is heavenly, their soul feels that it hasn’t learned the 3d lessons yet.

And this former sleeper will say goodbye to their loved ones and voluntarily leave their body and leave this heavenly blissful existence. After a while, they will then begin another life in another harsh, painful 3d world.

Nobody will force this on them. They will choose this themselves.

Why? It’s because people’s souls are part of them, and the soul craves soul growth, and the soul understands that it needs to learn its 3d lessons first. Just blissing out in 5d feels hollow and sort of unearned to the soul if the 3d lessons haven’t been learned yet.

Meanwhile, you current lightworkers will quite possibly either have the option to keep living your 5d life for several centuries. Or if you do choose to leave your body, your soul probably won’t feel a need to have another 3d life, because it has already learned its 3d lessons during this current life.

So: yes, this current situation is unfair to you. However, you are attaining great soul growth right now, which will pay off hugely in the future. And many of you are being offered your final 3d lessons right now. So: do what you have to do. Say what you have to say. If things aren’t working out in your life or if you are dealing with trauma or pain, then heal or learn the lessons you still need to learn. Observe your emotions. Feel your feelings. Have that uncomfortable conversation. Try to treat other people as well as you can. If your heart wants to do something and it’s feasible, then go do it. And hang on — I know that some of you really can’t do more than just survive right now, and even just surviving is enough. Even just surviving by itself is giving you soul growth. And better times are coming.

When the time comes, you will be ready to step fully into 5d, without later feeling the need to go back to 3d. Because you will have learned your 3d lessons.

And when the time comes, I would love to offer my hand and help you step into 5d.

Your star brother,

Hakann

Channel: A.S.

 

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Do People Come into Your Life for a Reason? 9 Explanations

Do People Come into Your Life for a Reason? 9 Explanations

Anna LeMind, B.A.

Posted on April 8, 2023

There’s been a long debate about whether people come into your life for a reason or this is just a matter of coincidence.

Realists and pragmatic thinkers believe that there is no deeper reason behind meeting specific people in life. We just make a certain number of social connections throughout our lives, and that’s all. People come, people go. There is no hidden meaning behind that.

Someone with a more spiritual mindset would argue and say that every person comes into our life with some mission or lesson to teach us.

What do you believe?

If you ask me, I think that it’s true and people come into our lives for a reason. I’ve seen this happening to me and others so many times. I also don’t regard this belief as something purely metaphysical, having to do with karma and things like that—for me, it’s more about the wisdom of life.

So, let’s explore this belief further and ponder about the possible reasons people come into your life.

Do People Come into Your Life for a Reason? 9 Explanations of Why They Do

1. To teach you a lesson

The most obvious reason people come into your life is to teach you an important lesson you wouldn’t learn otherwise. Typically, it’s some painful experience, such as betrayal or loss. It breaks you into pieces, but then you come out of this situation as a much wiser person.

Sadly, we learn better from disappointments and adversities than from positive experiences. There is also a belief that life will send you the same challenges until you learn your lesson.

Therefore, if you realize that you attract a similar type of person all the time, maybe it’s not a coincidence. For example, you always end up dating narcissists or your circle is always full of fake and manipulative people.

Maybe they are sent to you with the one and only purpose – to teach you that lesson, no matter how hard it is.

2. To show you the person you want to be

Not all the reasons we meet someone have to be negative. Sometimes people come into your life to inspire you.

Maybe they have personal qualities you admire and would like to cultivate in yourself. Maybe they have accomplished something you dream about.

When you talk to such a person, you feel a boost of inspiration and motivation to pursue your goals. They no longer seem unrealistic! You realize that you can achieve what you dream about, just like they did.

Or you just watch how gracefully the other person deals with a situation where you would mess up. And you learn. Next time you face such a situation, you will keep this person’s approach in mind, and you will handle it differently.

In the end, the belief that people come into your life for a reason always boils down to learning and becoming a better person.

3. To show you the person you don’t want to be

This logic goes the opposite way too. Sometimes people come into our lives to show us our negative sides, so that we can change and become better individuals.

Have you ever met a person who had similar traits and behaviors to your own? It’s like you seeing yourself from a distance.

It’s difficult to spot faults in yourself, but they become evident when you see them in others. You may watch someone else being rude, needy, or uncaring, and you realize that you act exactly the same way, too.

Seeing your negative behaviors in others is a powerful wake-up call. This is when you make a decision to change and work on your character flaws.

4. To push you toward your life purpose

Some people come into your life and change its course. They are the ones who help you discover your true purpose.

It may not be obvious in the beginning, but just the presence of this person in your life slowly pushes you toward your mission. It may be the passions or the values this person has, so one conversation after another is getting you closer to who you are supposed to become in life.

For example, you may share the same hobby, but they will show you the way to turning it into a job. Or they may push you toward an idea you haven’t considered before.

5. To teach you to recognize and handle abusive and unhealthy situations

Getting involved with abusers and manipulators is one of the most wearing experiences you could have. But there is still a meaning and a reason behind letting such people into your life.

You learn to recognize toxic personalities and unhealthy situations in relationships. When you meet such type of person again, you already know what’s going on, so it saves you time and emotional resources.

This has happened to my best friend. A few years ago, she was in a relationship with an abusive guy who was suffering from pathological jealousy. Of course, it didn’t work out, and they broke up.

Now she is dating someone who is somehow clingy and jealous. But she approaches the relationship in a totally different way because she has learned how to deal with a jealous partner and set boundaries.

6. To see yourself from a new angle

We don’t always see ourselves realistically. We tend to underestimate our strong qualities, as well as overlook our flaws. That’s why we often need other people to show us that we are pretty different from what we thought.

Whether it’s about positive or negative qualities, someone may come into your life to help you see yourself from a new angle. Maybe this will give you the opportunity to know yourself better. Maybe this will also motivate you to transform and grow as a person.

One result will be certain—you won’t be the same person you were before meeting them. And that’s the reason they came into your life in the first place.

7. To challenge you and make you step out of your comfort zone

Some people we meet seem to be from a different planet. They have totally different interests and their lives are nothing like ours.

When you meet a person like this, it could be that they are meant to shake you up and encourage you to leave your comfort zone. They don’t exactly give you inspiration or set an example. But they open your eyes to a new side of life.

They motivate you to explore it and live it to the fullest. And maybe this is exactly what you need.

8. To break your illusions

Disappointments are painful, but in the end, they help us learn to see the world in a more realistic way. We all have certain illusions about life, people, and ourselves. That’s why sometimes people who come into our life are meant to break those illusions.

Still, this doesn’t have to happen through disappointment or betrayal. Sometimes just hanging out with a realistic person who has a totally different viewpoint can help you see the flaws in your thinking.

Meeting a person who challenges your views and opinions can be annoying first, but in the end, you will thank life for that. Later you will realize there was a reason people like that come into your life. They make you view the world from a totally different angle and learn things you didn’t even know existed.

9. To change each other’s lives for the better

Just as other people’s presence affects us, so does ours. We inevitably affect and transform each other, especially if we talk about romantic relationships and close friendships.

That’s why one of the main reasons people come into your life is to change and enhance it. And you come into their lives for the same reason.

In the end, this is what matters—to be surrounded by people who make you happy and put a smile on your face.

People Come Into Your Life for a Reason, a Season, or a Lifetime – Is This True?

There is also a popular belief that people come into your life for 3 reasons:

A reason

A season

A lifetime

You may have stumbled upon this saying on the web and wondered what it meant. Is it true and what exactly does it mean? I think this is a pretty clever saying that sums it all up.

People come into your life for a reason when…

…they are meant to teach you a lesson. Typically, this includes negative experiences, such as dysfunctional relationships, manipulative friendships, and all kinds of disappointments. Without meeting this person, you would never learn the lesson life wants to teach you.

You may come out of this relationship broken and defeated, but in the end, you become a wiser person. This disappointment may also bring you to the right track.

This also includes all the other reasons we listed above.

People come into your life for a season when…

…they are not meant to transform or affect you. Their presence in your life is fleeting, and there is no deeper meaning in it.

Yes, it’s true that not everyone we meet is meant to be here for a reason. Some people are just passers-by in your life. You hang out with them as long as you work in the same job or go to the same college.

This is also called “situational friendships”. When a shared situation is over, this person disappears from your life, too.

In fact, most of our connections are just that — situational friends. They are not meant to last or bring something new and profound into your life.

People come into your life for a lifetime when…

…they are meant to stick by your side. These people will be your lifetime friends or companions. They don’t just transform you, but also bring quality into your life, and you do the same for them.

This is among those instances when you meet your “soulmate” or forever friend. There are deeper things that connect you—not just common hobbies or a shared workplace. It’s something bigger, such as similar values and views on life. You could have the same mission as well.

When you meet such a person, your life will transform in so many ways. And it will certainly change for the better.

So, what are your thoughts? Do people come into your life for a reason or not? I’d love to hear your opinions! Feel free to share them in the comment box below!

Anna LeMind

Anna LeMind, B.A.

Founder & Lead Editor at Learning Mind

Anna LeMind is a psychology enthusiast who holds a bachelor's degree in social sciences. She is a deep thinking introvert who writes about human behavior and personality, the nature of introversion, the concept of belonging, and social anxiety, hoping to help those who struggle with similar issues as she does. Anna is the author of The Power of Misfits: How to Find Your Place in a World You Don’t Fit In, a book that aims to help all introverts, socially anxious people, and loners find their path in this loud, extroverted world.

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