Showing posts with label not alone. Show all posts
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Wednesday, September 3, 2025

A Better Person



A Better Person

The Creator Writings

Through Jennifer Farley

Post on September 3, 2025


Is it one of those days, my beautiful child, when even someone saying to you, “Yes, I understand” makes you want to scream, “No, you don’t! You’re not me!” 

You are not alone! When the not so good stuff comes up, let it. Yes, it can be challenging. No, it might not feel all that good. But, once it is up and out it is not coming back. 

Always remember; you are in the process of becoming a better person every moment of every day. Keep releasing!

The Creator
 
Jennifer Farley  

Saturday, August 16, 2025

You're not alone, most people are struggling

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You're not alone, most people are struggling

By A. S.

Posted on August 16, 2025

 

Hello my dear brothers and sisters,

This is the Earth human A.S. speaking. I'm the channeler of these messages, but this week I wanted to write a non-channeled message. Next week there'll be a channeled message again.

I think a source of suffering in some people is the belief that most other spiritual people are doing relatively well. And also, that peace of mind and happiness are relatively quick to achieve for many other spiritual people.

If you believe this, but you yourself aren't doing well and can't seem to reach peace of mind and happiness, then it's easy to feel that you are just broken somehow. Or that you just somehow can't seem to figure out what everyone else is succeeding at, and there must be something wrong with you.

I think the reality is that the majority of people aren't doing particularly well at present, and usually aren't at a place of peace of mind and happiness.

It's just that people aren't talking about that, while they are sharing their peak moments. It's the facebook effect where people feel bad about themselves because everyone is mostly just sharing their peak moments, and are mostly quiet about their struggles.

So, today I would like to communicate to you: most people are struggling, so probably there's nothing wrong with you. It's just that life on Earth is incredibly harsh, and healing and spiritual growth are long paths that take many years.

If you haven't managed to become happy after a certain number of years: well certainly it's good to continue your practices, but also, it's good to realize that you're not alone. There are many other people out there who have also spent years trying to heal and progress, and they too haven't necessarily reached happiness or peace. In fact you've undoubtedly made more progress than some of them.

What's also not helping is that it's easy to think that the group of channelers / spiritual writers / teachers / facilitators have amazing and blissful lives. Because after all, they have abilities and peak experiences and perhaps lifestyles that many people would like to have.

What's a bit toxic is that this group of professional spiritualists often aren't open about their own struggles, because that could cost them part of their audience and income. They might say that they used to have an issue, but they'll insist that it's since been resolved. They'll often only talk about issues and imperfections of theirs that are in the past, and never mention present-day issues that they're struggling with.

Of course this doesn't apply to all professional spiritualists, but in my experience it applies to a lot of them.

So it's easy to think that this group has these amazing and bliss-filled and near-perfect lives. And that may be true for a few of them, but in a lot of cases they just don't want to talk about their pain and humanness, in order to not lose part of their audience and income.

So as a channeler myself, let me do my part to combat that. Let me share some of my own struggles and imperfections, with the goal of illustrating that you're not alone, you're not uniquely flawed; other people have their flaws and issues too.

I had a painful childhood, and I haven't fully healed from that. I'm actively working on that, but I'm also still engaging in coping behaviors. Namely, I play more video games than is healthy, and I move my body less often than is healthy.

When I'm particularly stressed out, I eat unhealthy food as a coping mechanism.

As a result, I'm overweight and have some teeth problems.

Sometimes I don't like how I look, or feel ashamed about my weight. When I notice that, I can work with those thoughts and emotions, but regardless they still come up at times.

I don't own a home. I don't have a girlfriend (well, I have a Pleiadian twin flame, but she's not physically here). I don't have much of a social life.

I look up to certain people. However I have a more negative opinion about the average person than is warranted.

I know rationally speaking that everyone is an aspect of the divine.

I know rationally speaking that most people mean well and do their best, they've just been hurt and been brought up in a toxic society.

Still, my default way of looking at average people is a judgemental one. I usually (not always but usually) treat people reasonably well, but inside I look at them in a judgemental way. I have to make an active effort to see the higher perspective.

I recognize this is a distortion on my end that's been caused by pain and disappointment in my life. After all, Pleiadians talk with compassion about average Earth humans, but that's not how I feel about them most of the time.

I haven't yet been able to fully release that pain and disappointment and therefore that distortion of mine. Though I'm working on it.

I don't express love as often as I should.

Contact with my family used to be very bad, and has improved lately but is still difficult.

I am continuing with my self-healing and observation practices and I'm doing better and better over time.

Still, in the past there has been a period of years where I would have preferred being dead. I no longer feel that way, but right now my life just feels okay. Not amazing -- just okay.

My life does feel incredibly meaningful and satisfying and there are some beautiful moments. But on the other hand my average day isn't particularly fun. And it's a huge amount of effort to juggle my day job, channelings, lightwork to benefit the collective and self-work.

Currently I feel exhausted.

There's still old pain coming up.

That said, I do feel very blessed that I have certain talents and abilities, and that I'm in telepathic contact with Pleiadians. That's been amazing, and I know a lot of people would love to have that themselves.

I know a lot of people are in worse situations than myself and were born in less favorable situations than myself. The economic situation in my country (The Netherlands) is also substantially easier than the economic situation in many other countries and regions.

So I'm grateful for all of that. I recognize that I have a lot of blessings. I recognize that some people are in far worse situations, or have far worse problems than myself. I have it better than a whole lot of people, I'm lucky in certain ways, I'm not complaining.

Still, in case you were picturing in your mind that I'm feeling at peace all the time, or that I'm experiencing my life as a 10/10 paradise, or that I'm a near-perfect person who has no vices or anything like that: that's just not true.

And I know for a fact that a lot of other channelers, teachers, et cetera don't have a super desirable life or a peace-filled mind either. Maybe their life is a bit better than average, but some of them are depressed, exhausted, unhappy, struggling with health problems, struggling financially, et cetera.

They often just don't talk about that in public in order to keep up appearances and maintain their income. But if you talk to them privately as another channeler, then they'll readily admit it.

So, hopefully this dispels the facebook effect a bit. And hopefully this illustrates that a whole lot of people are struggling. If you're struggling too, then you are not alone.

Absolutely continue doing your personal work -- it's a long road, but it does pay off.

Still, at the same time, there's no need to judge yourself against an unrealistically high standard. Even just keeping your head above water is hard enough at the moment.

If you're looking up to someone, then it's entirely possible that he or she has their own struggles and imperfections too. They might just not be open about them.

If you want to, feel free to do your own sharing in the comment section. It can be about anything you want to talk about.

With love,

A. S.
 
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Wednesday, April 16, 2025

You Are Not Alone

You Are Not Alone

The Creator Writings

Channel: Jennifer Farley

Posted on April 16, 2025





There may be times, my beloved child, when you will want to go back to a simpler, easier time. You will long for the connections of your past and wonder why things have changed.

It may be challenging to continue moving forward out of your zone because the new space you are in feels foreign, lonely and downright uncomfortable.

Please remember that those moments will not last forever and new connections will come in and take the place of the old.

As you exist in this in-between space know that you are not alone… you are loved beyond measure.


The Creator
 

Thursday, January 23, 2025

To Those Who Feel Alone

To Those Who Feel Alone

The Blue Avians

Channel: Octavia Vasile

Posted on January 23, 2025



Dear brother or sister,

We feel your heart, and we want you to know—you’re not alone. Even when it feels like the world is quiet and no one really sees you, we do. We always have. You are part of something so much bigger than you might realize right now, and we’re here, right by your side.

We get it. Feeling alone can be heavy. It’s easy to believe the emptiness will last forever. But it won’t. Sometimes, these quiet moments are like the pause before the music starts—a chance for your soul to breathe, reflect, and grow.

When the loneliness feels overwhelming, here are some things to try that might help:

Listen to Your Heart

Put your hand on your chest and feel your heartbeat. It’s proof that you’re alive, connected, and part of everything around you. Whisper to yourself, “I’m here, I’m loved, I belong.” You do.

Reach Out—We’re Listening

Even if you can’t see us, we’re here. Close your eyes, picture us wrapping you in a big, warm, glowing hug, and just talk to us. Say what’s on your mind, or just sit with the feeling of love we’re sending you.

Find the Small Connections

Step outside if you can. Look at the sky, listen to the birds, feel the earth under your feet. All of this is alive, just like you, and it’s part of you. You’re woven into the same big, beautiful web of life.

Let Your Light Shine

It might not feel like it, but your energy—your presence—matters. Do something small that brings you joy, or share a kind word with someone else. Even little ripples create waves of connection.

Trust This Moment Has Meaning

It might not feel great right now, but these quiet times often lead to something amazing. They help you see what really matters and make space for new things to come into your life.

You’re not broken, and there’s nothing wrong with you. You’re just in a chapter that’s helping you grow. And while you’re walking through it, know this: we’re walking with you.

Close your eyes for a moment, and imagine us smiling at you, full of love and pride for the amazing being you are. We’re holding space for you, always. You’re loved, you’re seen, and you’re never, ever alone.

With all our love,

Your cosmic friends,

The Blue Avians


Octavia Vasile


Wednesday, July 24, 2024

Universal Energy

Universal Energy

The Group of Nine

Channel: Steve Rother

Posted on July 24, 2024

 

 

 

Greetings from Home, dear ones.

We welcome you this beautiful day. Your energy has already set something into motion and the magic has begun on planet Earth. You’re moving to a different vibrational level. Although the move itself can be difficult, the reality is that all of humanity is more than ready for this. So, let us explain a little bit of what is directly in front of you and how you can anchor the energy in different ways. First of all, know that you are not alone. There are many beings around you right now who are visiting planet Earth, through these portals that we’ve talked about. They’re mostly here to help your planet and to work with her. Some of the big shifts Earth has made bring new possibilities for humanity to experience in the near future.

Harmonics

Let us explain how harmonics works and the new energies that you’ll be experiencing. As you raise vibration, which is happening for all of humanity right now, you become harmonically entwined with other things. If you’re vibrating at a certain rate, there are many things throughout your vibrational range. And when you find one that vibrates at your rate, you connect to it. Yes, you make this vibrational connection all the time.

As with any vibration, you must go through a substrate or a carrier. Everything on your side of the veil travels in waves. But what does it travel through? As we speak, it puts vibrational waves into the air that are picked up by the microphone. It is then turned into an electrical signal and put back into waves through your speakers, where you can hear it. In this example, air is the carrier or substrate.

There are many different areas that you’re not aware of that are starting to change on your planet. In the 1920s they discovered quantum physics and quantum mechanics, such a fascinating way to look at life. You’re actually learning more of the secrets that were discovered in quantum physics in your daily lives today, for magical things are happening. As you are raising your vibration, you’re falling into harmony with other things that you haven’t been aware of.

Dark Matter, Dark Energy

As you look out into the night sky, you can see distant galaxies and stars that are all around. But for the most part, dear ones, you do not see everything that is going on. You cannot see many of the planets that are there, or even many of the other dimensions that work with you all the time. Your sciences are trying to discover what is called dark matter and dark energy. Dark matter is the space that you see with seemingly nothing in it. But the fascinating part is that it actually does have matter. This dark matter, as you call it, is what fills up 70 percent of all mass in the universe.

It also has rules, which keeps everything together. That’s why galaxies are formed the way they are, because of dark matter. Although that’s the term science uses for it, it’s also called dark energy. Dark simply means that they don’t know what it is, the wisdom has not been completely filled in on those yet. But we tell you, dear ones, that the darkness is being enlightened. So, let us explain about dark energy. You’ve been working under the concept of the Big Bang. In other words, an origin place where things started expanding really rapidly. But that is also challenging, because many of your energies are working in different ways that you cannot always perceive.

Now they are starting to move in different directions entirely. As you talk about all these stars and galaxies expanding at incredible rates because of the Big Bang, it’s a good starting point for you to understand.

But normally in an explosion of that nature, as you start to reach the outer bands it slows down after meeting resistance. Well, the reality is that all of the planets in your galaxy are speeding up, they’re going faster not slower. Part of that is because of the shape of the universe, which is actually in the shape of a torus. To measure the distance of how far something is away from you, it must include a space curve.

Everything Is Speeding Up

Because everything is speeding up, it means there’s an energy that is making that happen. And your scientists have simply called it dark energy. Now that we’ve explained it from that perspective, let us share with you our view of the same thing. We see dark energy and dark matter as the same essence, and it can carry waves of high vibration. That means it is also a substrate or carrier, which can carry vibrations. But humanity has not used those vibrational ranges before. Why? Well, that goes back to your vibrational levels, which were lower compared to where you are now.

So, you were not in a harmonic resonance to be able to use that before. Now that is changing humanity and vibrations are starting to rise. Ah yes, we know there are all sorts of challenges and difficulties. There is finger pointing and division on your planet. But that is a normal process when things are evolving at the rate they are now. As you do that, you come into contact with some of these other aspects that you’ve never used before.

Harmonizing With the Universal Energy

We have been calling it Universal energy, and you can tap into it like never before. As humanity is raising to this level it’s not only possible, but it is also right in front of you. You have opportunities to change every part of this right now. So, how does one do that? Well, you’ve been sending energy out into the universe in many different ways. We told you a couple of months ago about the incredible energy that your smile has. We call that smile your way Home. Your vagus nerve lights up when you smile, it goes all the way through your body sending out waves into this light energy.

And that can be felt not only by other humans, but by many of the beings in the universe that you cannot see. So, there are now possibilities for you to connect in new ways. How does one actually integrate this and get the process moving? Well, your meditations and sacred time are part of it, when you are fully centered in your own energetic bubble.

It’s quite magical the way you send out these normal vibrations into the universe. Until recently they only went a short distance, but that is changing. The universe is actually in the shape of a torus, but you also have a personal torus around your physical body. That toroidal shape is what sends out vibrations into the light energy. And when you are able to put energy consciously into the torus, that is what sends out universal energy. That is how we describe this, it is universal energy because it’s everywhere. And it’s also a vibrational range which humans can now start to use.

A New Vibrational Range

The universal energy itself is part of your world, your galaxy and the universe. You’re starting to be able to use it consciously, which is new. And this is a perfect time, because it can break down the disharmony and confusion that your planet is filled with right now. There is all this politics going on, stories are being told to try and convince you to move in one direction or the other. But we tell you, dear ones, your heart knows the way Home. And that’s more important than any decision you will make about all this, because your energy is here and your love is growing.

So, what happens to your torus when you are experiencing love? It grows, expands, and moves more quickly to bring more of the energy through you. Once you know how it works, you can change the energy by changing the pace of your torus. You can also change the direction that it moves in. There are two directions that you can take, bringing it in from the top and out through the bottom or moving sideways.

What if you were some place where you couldn’t quite fit in? Could you consciously move it in the other direction? Yes, you can but it takes a little practice. Humans are not accustomed to doing this yet, but you will be. You’ll see many more of the opportunities to extend your light, just through the simple energy of smiling.

Re-member Your Magic

The magic that you hold is so great, and yet you rarely get to see it yourself. That’s part of the veil that you are not supposed to re-member, your magic. Here it is starting to unfold a little bit more every day. Claim parts of this, use it and anchor it into your reality, so it will become part of your daily work. The magic is part of who you always were, for we cannot teach you how to be magical, dear ones. We can only help you re-member that you are. You read books about all the beautiful, magical things that take place on your planet. They are real, dear ones, that is why you’re so fascinated with them. To have powers beyond the physical energies alone and to see things in the future, those are done through the universal energy. You’re all connected through the universal energies.

Your Magic Is Growing

When humans are experiencing something very difficult, they often shut down and try to hide from the world. But everyone else can feel it, dear ones, so sometimes it is better just to own who you are and let yourself be felt. Sometimes it’s better just to say, “I am hurting. I am not okay, something is wrong.”That’s when you gather all the energy from other healers on planet Earth. And they are waiting to connect with you more than you can possibly know. Many of you are those healers waiting to jump into action to see the next level.

The universal energy is becoming more important, because it will be felt in your world. You will feel vibrations coming through the universal energy. It’s the same way that you hear things when they are spoken, and the same way you feel things. But most of the feelings now are blocked compared to what you’re about to experience. You’re actually returning to carry some of the attributes of Home on your planet as you walk around in density, pretending to be separate from the whole. You are pretending to be separate from each other. You’re magical beings and the magic is starting to grow.

How Do I Use This?

It’s very simple, start sending energy out consciously. Most of the time your energy is about how you feel. In other words, if you’re walking down the street and suddenly you become aware of something, you check into how your body is feeling. How is your stomach, your head? How are your legs feeling as you’re walking down the street?

It is common to be focused inside the torus, because that’s where all your action has been. But in the near future, you will also be focusing outside the torus to see the effect that your energy has in the planet. Now, that is an incredible opportunity. In the beginning it will be misunderstood, and there will be those who try to use it incorrectly or selfishly. Of course, there are many bad actors on your planet. But the reality is, it doesn’t make any difference. As you start using this, humans will learn how to put their best foot forward.

A Time of No More Secrets

They’ll learn how to create the path in front of them before they step out the door. That’s the highest potential of walking in the light, for you are magical beings, each and every one of you. And you are reaching a new level of magic with the universal energy. We also told you a while back that you are entering the time of no more secrets.

Well, that time is already here and you can see it in many different ways. You see into other people’s hearts. You will feel things that you haven’t been able to before, for that is this harmonic level you’re reaching. That is exactly what this process is about, so use it and play with it. Smile and know it opens the door to where you are going. It opens the possibilities for the highest potential, creating the path of least resistance right in front of you. You are magical beings, dear ones. You are the greatest angels that have ever lived. And here you are in place for the next miracle that is about to take place.

We’ve told you many times that these magical things sort of happen behind the scenes. Most humans are not even aware of them, like when the timeline crossed or the recent Stargate opening. But that doesn’t have as much to do with humans as it have to do with the Earth. The planet is changing very rapidly and trying to adjust, to be able to support all 8 billion spirits that are now there. Earth is trying to work with you in different ways and doing quite well with it, for she is getting help.

There are great possibilities with Earth that were not there only a short time ago. We also tell you that all of your energies working with the Earth are amplified greatly during these times. If we had to use a number, we would say it’s amplified almost 56 times. In other words, every piece of trash that you pick up is amplified 56 times. Every time you decide to walk somewhere instead of drive, that savings is amplified 56 times. And it works in both directions, because if you do something that has a harmful effect on the Earth it is also amplified 56 times. But you have the ability to change all of that.

Enjoy this journey, dear ones. Your energy is vibrating out into the universe and it is being felt by more beings than you ever thought possible. All eyes are on planet Earth during these times. And we have the perfect people in place, for there you are. Know that you’re in the perfect place at the perfect time. You are claiming your magic more every day. It is with the greatest of honor that we ask you to treat each other with the highest respect. Open the doors for each other. Nurture one another and play well together, as you play these beautiful new games.

We are magical ourselves, but nothing compared to your magic. It is our job to hold the mirror in front of you, only to help you re-member who you truly are and why you came here. You’re right on schedule, well done, dear ones.

We are the group of nine.

Espavo.

Steve Rother

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Friday, September 22, 2023

Ascension Thoughts Update

Ascension Thoughts Update

By Sierra NZ

Posted on September 6, 2023





I am devoting most of this post to reflecting on our current situation as awake Light Warriors in an increasingly surreal nutty world. It has been a while since I wrote an Ascension Update post.

I remind myself of two things several times a day. One: I am not crazy. Two: I am not alone. Those two thoughts sustain me when I feel the world start to spin crazily. I am sure you will relate to it.

Being outside in nature is calming and soothing so I usually take two walks a day by the seashore. Thank goodness for my lovely environment. Weeding the garden is grounding too.

The word ‘discombobulated’ often comes to mind. I have always liked the word – it is quirky and has an impressive six syllables which makes it fun to say. Previously it was not relevant to my life but now it is my ‘go to’ word to describe what I am feeling. Collins Concise Dictionary definition of discombobulate: ‘To throw into confusion..’ Being thrown into confusion is an almost constant state these days for Light Warriors.

Talking to Light Warrior friends is always a delightful relief. We don’t have to go to great lengths to describe how we are feeling – we know we are BOTH feeling the same way.

I haven’t discussed Ascension symptoms for a while so here is an update…Weird dreams…hungry in late evening…thirsty throughout day…craving carbs…sudden bursts of energy interspersed with times of deep weariness…loud ear-ringing…sudden aversion to certain foods…friendships either rapidly falling apart or strengthening…loss of interest in activities that were always enjoyed before.

No wonder we are feeling discombobulated in a surreal nutty world.

It really helps to trust the Divine Plan. If you have not read the previous post of the One Who Serves channeling, I recommend that you do. He confirms that many arrests have already happened behind the scenes.

Thanks to Kat for this compilation confirming the amount of activity taking place behind the scenes.

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Finally, there are rays of glorious Light bursting through the madness. Check out this video of Pennsylvania students marching in protest over boys using the girls bathrooms. We The People are not taking the BS anymore – our young Light Warriors are leading the way (30″ video).

Hang in there, Light Warriors. We are the bravest of the brave, the strongest of the strong. We have already weathered so many storms in the last few years and now the finish line is finally upon us. Nothing Can Stop What Is Coming.

WE’VE GOT THIS.

Thank you for reading this post. You are welcome to share it as long as you re-post it in its entirety, including the link to my blog site.

Where We Go One We Go All.

Love and Light

Sierra

https://stargatenewsletter.blogspot.com/2023/09/ascension-thoughts-update.html



Saturday, February 4, 2023

UFO Disclosure is Happening…What it Means

UFO Disclosure is Happening…What it Means

The Arcturian Council

Channeled by Daniel Scranton

Posted on February 4, 2023


ufo disclosure is happening - what it means - the 9d arcturian council - channeled by daniel scranton

Greetings. We are the Arcturian Council. We are pleased to connect with all of you.

We are as happy as many of you are about the disclosure that is taking place at this time on the topic of UFOs. This disclosure has been happening for quite some time, and every time that something else is disclosed, you get a bit more confirmation of what you already knew to be true. So what does this then signify for humanity? What does it mean when a country’s military announces publicly that they have seen objects in the sky that they could not account for? 

We want to stop those of you who are going to see this as an intentional distraction from going there, and instead, we want you to open yourselves up to the possibility that this means more humans are ready to understand that you are not alone in the universe. From where we are sitting, that is the takeaway. Now, many of you will get very excited about sharing this with members of your family and with friends who have thought your beliefs were quite bizarre for a while now, and certainly you can take some satisfaction in knowing that you were validated.

But the much bigger picture here is how these disclosure events keep getting bigger and bigger, because that indicates that something big is going to happen there on Earth. What will happen will be much bigger than people feeling validated about their beliefs. Many people have wondered when contact with e.t.s would be openly discussed by high-ranking government officials from powerful countries. You are coming into that time now, and you can rest assured that this all means that more is coming, and more and more. 

And someday you will have e.t.s walking amongst you, openly. You will be able to ride on their ships and go to faraway places, and they will share their technology with everyone. This is happening, and it’s a part of the shift in consciousness. Now, you might wonder what the relationship is between UFOs, e.t.s, and your ascension. It is quite simple, really. You need to know that you are much more than just physical bodies with brains who are living out a lifespan in a single lifetime on a single planet. You need to know that there is a bigger story to who you are, where you came from, and even how you were created to be the way you are right now as a human race.

The answers to those questions will expand consciousness there on your world. People will start to think differently, and it is okay to have something happen that then causes people to think differently. It is perfectly fine that it’s not just coming because a person meditated for twelve hours a day for twelve days straight. It is reasonable that it is happening through e.t. contact, rather than through some other spiritual practice that led to someone’s enlightenment. That is one way; that is one experience, but you don’t have to earn the expansion of your consciousness. It’s very natural for it to occur, and it is occurring, and this is a reflection to you of that.

And you can all breathe a sigh of relief because this is hard evidence that more is coming and that the more that is coming is what you have wanted for a very long time. Relax, smile, and take a deep breath, because you have made a tremendous stride forward yet again there on planet Earth.

We are the Arcturian Council, and we have enjoyed connecting with you.

Daniel Scranton