The Inner Voice Gide Us Into Strength and Self-Trust
Tuesday, July 1, 2025
Time Of Changes
Tuesday, April 29, 2025
Inner Divinity
Inner Divinity
The Beloved Is The Teacher
Message received by Lytske
Posted on April 29, 2025
© The 11:11 Progress Group.
I am the satisfaction of your Soul – The Beloved One.
Friday, April 11, 2025
Multitudes Are Listening
Multitudes Are Listening
The Creator Writings
Channel: Jennifer Farley
Thursday, January 23, 2025
To Those Who Feel Alone
To Those Who Feel Alone
The Blue Avians
Channel: Octavia Vasile
Posted on January 23, 2025
Dear brother or sister,
We feel your heart, and we want you to know—you’re not alone. Even when it feels like the world is quiet and no one really sees you, we do. We always have. You are part of something so much bigger than you might realize right now, and we’re here, right by your side.
We get it. Feeling alone can be heavy. It’s easy to believe the emptiness will last forever. But it won’t. Sometimes, these quiet moments are like the pause before the music starts—a chance for your soul to breathe, reflect, and grow.
When the loneliness feels overwhelming, here are some things to try that might help:
Listen to Your Heart
Put your hand on your chest and feel your heartbeat. It’s proof that you’re alive, connected, and part of everything around you. Whisper to yourself, “I’m here, I’m loved, I belong.” You do.
Reach Out—We’re Listening
Even if you can’t see us, we’re here. Close your eyes, picture us wrapping you in a big, warm, glowing hug, and just talk to us. Say what’s on your mind, or just sit with the feeling of love we’re sending you.
Find the Small Connections
Step outside if you can. Look at the sky, listen to the birds, feel the earth under your feet. All of this is alive, just like you, and it’s part of you. You’re woven into the same big, beautiful web of life.
Let Your Light Shine
It might not feel like it, but your energy—your presence—matters. Do something small that brings you joy, or share a kind word with someone else. Even little ripples create waves of connection.
Trust This Moment Has Meaning
It might not feel great right now, but these quiet times often lead to something amazing. They help you see what really matters and make space for new things to come into your life.
You’re not broken, and there’s nothing wrong with you. You’re just in a chapter that’s helping you grow. And while you’re walking through it, know this: we’re walking with you.
Close your eyes for a moment, and imagine us smiling at you, full of love and pride for the amazing being you are. We’re holding space for you, always. You’re loved, you’re seen, and you’re never, ever alone.
With all our love,
Your cosmic friends,
The Blue Avians
Octavia Vasile
Tuesday, January 21, 2025
It's Time ✨
It's Time ✨
Love Notes
Brynne E. Dippell, Ph.D.
Posted January 21, 2025
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Wednesday, July 24, 2024
Does He Know How to Listen?
Does He Know How to Listen?
By Steve Beckow
Posted on July 24, 2024

Does he know how to listen? Credit: Coursera
I was talking to a young friend the other day who may be entering a new relationship.
I imagined her asking me what she should look for in a relationship.
I had no problem answering that question. From my personal perspective?
Does he know how to listen?
If he knows how to listen, and you do as well, you have a chance to escape the cycle of conflict, which most relationships fall into at some point. (1)
How does listening work? Let me focus on what decades ago I used to call “restorative” listening because that’s the crucial type of listening, in my view, in a relationship.
We’re wanting to escape the cycle of conflict and it calls for a more intensive form of listening than ordinarily.
First thing is you don’t listen for what you want to hear. You listen for what he wants to tell you. He speaks because he wants you to hear and understand something. What is it?
Listening is not about you. It’s not about you reviewing what you just said to see how you did, when he’s speaking.
It’s not about you planning what you’ll say next. It’s not a pit stop where you change your tires while you get your next thought.
And it certainly isn’t about you interrupting his train of thought or walking away with the microphone. It takes work and concentration on our part to be the listener.
If anything it’s blue-sky stillness of mind into which is gathered all he says and spread out on the table – for him to see.
Second, moderate feedback is good. It shows you’re listening. “You seem to feel sad. I hear the urgency of it. It sounds disturbing.” And then let it go.
Exception: It may further the process for you, at some point, to offer just a short insight about yourself (“I do that too”) to show you have an ante in the game. Be brief and then yield the microphone.
Third, listening is about you getting the real message that the speaker wants you to get. Sometimes that message – well, often, I think – is conveyed in or modified by gestures, inflection, mannerisms, etc.
The words may be different accompanied by different inflections. You need to “hear” everything to understand what the speaker is wanting you to get.
Fourth, treat everything he says as a chapter heading and unfold it. Don’t be surprised if he repeats the telling. The first time is for the story. The second time is for how he feels, now having seen the full story.
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What’s the overall objective of listening of the kind I’m describing? It’s to give him the opportunity to put everything on the table and see what he’s doing and what barriers he’s meeting.
At some point he should have an “Aha!” and whatever troubled him will vanish. The truth will have set him free. (2)
This kind of listening should keep us out of the cycle of conflict if used lovingly, without judgment, and without undue interruption or redirection. It defuses. It satisfies. But it’s rare in our society.
It works provided the issues that are being discussed are solvable and the two people want a solution.
I always assume that the speaker knows what he needs. He just hasn’t been able to find anyone who will help by purely listening.
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After G/NESARA (3) the remnants of a paradigm of a woman needing to rely on a man for her financial wellbeing will disappear. Poof! Women will have a guaranteed means of survival.
Then relationships may reflect the person’s pure interests and last as long as the two remain interested. There won’t be a need for marriage. They do not marry in heaven, remember? (4)
There’s no need for it. (5)
Footnotes
(1) See:
- There is No Greater Gift than Listening Vol. 1. What Is Listening?
- There is No Greater Gift than Listening Vol. 2. How to Listen
- There is No Greater Gift than Listening Vol. 3. Leaving the Cycle of Conflict
Cycle of Conflict:
We go around and around this cycle, our feelings for the other eroding a little more as we go, until we drop or leave. In a word? “Listening” is what’s missing. Oh, and love.
(2) And you can use the truth to guide you. If he is getting freer and freer of tension, the truth is being spoken. Barring venting, which is a good thing, if he’s getting more and more ornery, chances are there’s something not being said here.
Use the truth and his release as your guide in knowing what to listen to and what to gently inquire into (if it’s appropriate; don’t shanghai his share).
(2) The Global/National Economic Security and Reformation Act, mandating a new economic order based on fairness, compassion, and universality.
See What’s Next? Vol. 5: G/NESARA at https://goldenageofgaia.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/Whats-Next-5-2.pdf
(3) For when they shall rise from the dead [i.e., ascend]
they neither marry
nor are given in marriage;
but are as the angels
which are in heaven.
(Mark 12:25.)
(4) There are no reasons for marriage in the higher dimensions. There are no threats for which we need to bind together and bond. One doesn’t face a poverty-stricken old age.
I used to know about child-rearing on the higher planes, but I’ve forgotten and haven’t written on it.
People come together and part as they please, for as long as it rewards them. What makes all this possible is the love which we’ll also experience one day soon. If we felt that love for a moment, all would make sense.
Everything about family, sexuality, etc., is different in the higher dimensions.
There’s a book waiting to be written. The closest I’ve come to it is New Maps of Heaven at https://goldengaiadb.com/index.php?title=New_Maps_of_Heaven
Steve Beckow
Sunday, March 31, 2024
There is No Greater Gift than Listening -4 Sharing and Listening
There is No Greater Gift than Listening
Vol. 4 Sharing and Listening
By Steve Beckow
Posted on March 31, 2024
This fourth and last volume in this series looks at what is most valuable to listen to – a share.
A “share,” as it was known in the growth movement, is a deeper self-revelation than ordinary conversation. It aims at the person being known to others, at a deeper level than like/dislike.
Deep listening invites deep sharing and deep sharing is what unveils the truth that sets us free.
Here then is a chapter on how sharing equalizes us because, whether we’re a prince or a pauper, we feel the same feelings and probably have many of the same thoughts.
Download There is no Greater Gift than Listening V4 Sharing and Listening here: https://goldenageofgaia.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/03/There-is-no-Greater-Gift-than-Listening-V4-Sharing-and-Listening.pdf
All Shares Are Born Equal
March 6, 2009
A “share” happens when I tell the truth about myself. That truth may be a felt truth, a believed truth, a known truth, a perceived truth, etc. What one share holds in common with another is its relationship to the truth – my truth.
I use “shares” as the major tool of my emergence. I use my shares to strip off layer after layer of the onion of self-protection until what is left is nothing but transparency.
I retreat from sharing when I feel my survival, or the survival of anything with which I identify, seems at stake. The more I’m into survival, the less I share, unless I break through (i.e., emerge).
Usually when I haven’t shared, the reason is the same: I fear you. I fear what you will do to me. I fear giving you information about myself. I’m protecting myself from you.
A share is not a download of factual information. It is not a scientific assertion. It is not the “truth” about someone else. A share is the truth about me, from me, to you. Your share would be the truth about you, from you, to me.
My share is neither more nor less important than yours. As far as I’m concerned, all shares are born equal. Shares are the great equalizer. King or commoner, everyone has a truth to tell. I seldom tire of listening to your truth.
A share is only “verifiable by me.” I’m the expert on what I’m feeling inside this rental unit. You may know my habits, my acts, my opinions, but you’ll probably never know the truth for me.
And even if you think you do, whether or not that is actually the truth for me is something only I can say. Even if I lie, I remain the last word on what the truth really is for me.
Where I’m at with my life is where I’m at. It is neither better nor worse than where you’re at with yours. All of us go through the same steps from God to God. Some of us were released as sparks earlier than others. But all travel the same general road to the same specific Destination.
If I’m in Seattle and you’re in Chicago, if my time zone is Pacific Standard and yours is whatever it is, what difference? The same with shares.
Something shared is past. Release comes only from the next share. The value that I receive from sharing is not something I can put in a piggy bank. Yesterday’s share is gone.
Everything now rests on the share of this moment.
I know when I’ve shared the truth because I feel release. The truth has set me free. I know when I haven’t shared the truth because I feel stress. Moving away from the truth has further bound me.
My share, to be of any value, does not rip your face off. Since a share is about myself, staying with myself is one sure way to see that harmlessness prevails. Sharing maximizes harmlessness. If my sharing harms, there is no value to it.
Sharing takes me away from blame-based communication by centering my attention on me. I hear your share. I acknowledge it and mirror it back to you. Then I respond with how it is for me.
After a while, I no longer mind your business. The increasing release I feel from sharing captures my attention.
Hopefully you will no longer mind my business too, but the bigger gain is simply for me to keep on sharing no matter what you do.
Shares have their time and place. The traffic cop and the bus driver may not want to share with me. Air traffic controllers do not share with each other. I wouldn’t want a medic to collapse in tears at the sight of suffering, sharing how it is for him or her.
The President may, on occasion, not want to be transparent for the good of the nation. Not all the world’s business can be conducted through sharing, although an increase in sharing probably wouldn’t hurt.
Emergence is the name of the game for me. Your emergence is what I’m here for (mine too). I am a space to receive your share and in which the truth of mine arises.
Download There is no Greater Gift than Listening V4 Sharing and Listening here: https://goldenageofgaia.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/03/There-is-no-Greater-Gift-than-Listening-V4-Sharing-and-Listening.pdf
Steve Beckow
Saturday, March 30, 2024
Leaving the Cycle of Conflict
There is No Greater Gift than Listening
Vol. 3 Leaving the Cycle of Conflict
By Steve Beckow
Posted on March 30, 2024
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I’m reissuing Leaving the Cycle of Conflict as a volume in the There is No Greater Gift than Listening series.
Let me post one of my favorite chapters from that book.
I have to say that the cycle of conflict, in my estimation, is the greatest affliction of relationship that I’m aware of and it’s a hidden killer because very few people see what they’re doing.
Bringing this pattern of behavior to public attention fulfills a childhood promise to myself. I wanted the world to know about the domestic abuse happening in my home. And now it does.
And here’s the solution – in this and the other books on listening. The parts I haven’t covered I know others will.
Notice when you read it: how people rejoice when a couple gets back together again but no one focuses on what’s causing the splits; how we “become” our parents; and how we never seem to learn and nothing seems to change.
I was talking yesterday about the cycle of conflict and breaking free from it. Let me pick up there again and start with some background.
Carousel of Tears
I spent my first fourteen formative years on this carousel of tears I call a cycle of conflict.
It was a never-ending loop which usually ended in divorce. I’ve seen very few people trapped in the cycle of conflict who emerged with their relationship intact. And they don’t know why because they “always got back together again.”
Back then, we not only had no insights into how to end the conflict; we couldn’t even see its cyclical nature.
Becoming Our Parents
Having seen the cost to my family of the cycle of conflict, I made myself a promise that I would stop the family inheritance, the intergenerational transfer that Michael once called “legacy behavior.”
But I mentioned to you earlier that the legacy behavior was the only movie I had in my head.
When we “become our Father,” what really is happening is that we’re reaching back into our memory banks and bringing forward as our mode of behavior the only movie all of us have – what our Dad or Mom did.
And we don’t see what we’re doing for the same reason we may not pay attention to what’s happening in our world. We’re busy doing other things.
That’s how we become our parent.
Just that one matter alone – not becoming our parents – takes a high degree of awareness and an unwillingness to respond automatically in order to break the pattern. And, no, I’m still down here in the trenches on these matters, working away with everyone else.
Never Seem to Learn and Nothing Changes
Another feature of the cycle of conflict is that we never seem to learn. Instead, we seem to focus on and congratulate ourselves for getting back together again.
For me, getting back together again is a significant event but it’s not the significant event.
The significant event is recognizing that we’re caught in a cycle of conflict that only ever brings heartache and resolving to exit it.
So long as we fool ourselves that reconciliation is the big win, we may not do the work to break the cycle.
Everyone promises not to do it again and off we go, not communicating or communicating unproductively. The same issues arise. The frustration begins and is worse because we thought we had the issue handled. All it takes is a spark.
Is this not the theme of countless Hollywood movies?
Download No Greater Gift than Listening V3 Leaving the Cycle of Conflict here: https://goldenageofgaia.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/03/There-is-No-Greater-Gift-than-Listening-V3-Leaving-the-Cycle-of-Conflict-R3.pdf
“Right/Wrong Not a Way Out,” Aug. 19, 2023, at https://goldenageofgaia.com/2023/08/19/347152/
Steve Beckow