Showing posts with label listening. Show all posts
Showing posts with label listening. Show all posts

Tuesday, July 1, 2025

Time Of Changes

Time Of Changes

The Creator Writings

Channel: Jennifer Farley

Posted on July 1, 2025





This amazing time of changes has arrived, dear one! Some will be expected, others will not and some may take you completely by surprise. Regardless of what it and the following weeks bring, it is all part of the grand plan of awakening your world to the Unconditional Love of The Universe.

The sleepers will sit up, rub their eyes and start seeing/listening of what you have known all along. It may not be any easy process for some so take a deep breath, be patient, and know that all will be well.


The Creator
 
Jennifer Farley  


Tuesday, April 29, 2025

Inner Divinity

Inner Divinity

The Beloved Is The Teacher

Message received by Lytske

Posted on April 29, 2025 

 
 

Urantia, March 18, 2008

The Beloved: “Come and join Me in the Stillness of your heart so I can help you grow into a greater conscious awareness of Me. These are very valuable moments that you give not only to yourself but also to Me. Your slowly increasing clarity and focus on listening shows Me your seriousness and dedication as you attempt to reinforce our connection from your end as a little growing mortal.

And even though you have learned that I am always here and waiting for you, to make ours an active co-creative partnership, it is expedient that  you keep your end of this precious communication channel open. It is for Me far easier to influence your thinking for your highest and best spiritual good when I have your wholehearted cooperation.

Over time you will notice and feel an increasing spiritual equilibrium as you move onto greater, more solid footing with your Spiritual counterpart, your divine Partner. You are pretty much a continuous question mark even though you are not always conscious of what it is that you would like to know. Life itself presents many baffling questions that your hungry mind desires an answer to.

Those answers are not readily available in the world at large, because they pertain to the private inner world of each individual. You have been given a searching spirit on purpose, for this urge entices you to look below the veneer of people's behavior, to discover their spiritual selfhood. It is this ongoing search that has propelled humans into all sorts of forays into the occult and strange isms, which over time have become established as some sort of religion.

It is first and foremost the most important work to turn within and connect with your Fragment from the eternal Creator God. This inner Divinity joins with you in an eternal co-partner and creatorship, so you can fulfill your divine blueprint which is lodged in your unchangeable eternal personality. Only your character needs improvement, and this is what you have set out to do in this mortal estate.”


Edited by Linda Abell. 

 

© The 11:11 Progress Group.
I am the satisfaction of your Soul – The Beloved One.

www.1111AkashicConstruct.com 

 

Friday, April 11, 2025

Multitudes Are Listening

Multitudes Are Listening

The Creator Writings

Channel: Jennifer Farley

Posted on April 11, 2025




During your healing process it is important to find your voice.  It may be challenging, awkward and sometimes painful to speak after so many years of being silent.  

But, when you voice what you have endured, others will hear and gather strength to speak as well, beginning their own healing journey.  

You may feel as if you are only one, however, multitudes are listening.  


The Creator
 

Thursday, January 23, 2025

To Those Who Feel Alone

To Those Who Feel Alone

The Blue Avians

Channel: Octavia Vasile

Posted on January 23, 2025



Dear brother or sister,

We feel your heart, and we want you to know—you’re not alone. Even when it feels like the world is quiet and no one really sees you, we do. We always have. You are part of something so much bigger than you might realize right now, and we’re here, right by your side.

We get it. Feeling alone can be heavy. It’s easy to believe the emptiness will last forever. But it won’t. Sometimes, these quiet moments are like the pause before the music starts—a chance for your soul to breathe, reflect, and grow.

When the loneliness feels overwhelming, here are some things to try that might help:

Listen to Your Heart

Put your hand on your chest and feel your heartbeat. It’s proof that you’re alive, connected, and part of everything around you. Whisper to yourself, “I’m here, I’m loved, I belong.” You do.

Reach Out—We’re Listening

Even if you can’t see us, we’re here. Close your eyes, picture us wrapping you in a big, warm, glowing hug, and just talk to us. Say what’s on your mind, or just sit with the feeling of love we’re sending you.

Find the Small Connections

Step outside if you can. Look at the sky, listen to the birds, feel the earth under your feet. All of this is alive, just like you, and it’s part of you. You’re woven into the same big, beautiful web of life.

Let Your Light Shine

It might not feel like it, but your energy—your presence—matters. Do something small that brings you joy, or share a kind word with someone else. Even little ripples create waves of connection.

Trust This Moment Has Meaning

It might not feel great right now, but these quiet times often lead to something amazing. They help you see what really matters and make space for new things to come into your life.

You’re not broken, and there’s nothing wrong with you. You’re just in a chapter that’s helping you grow. And while you’re walking through it, know this: we’re walking with you.

Close your eyes for a moment, and imagine us smiling at you, full of love and pride for the amazing being you are. We’re holding space for you, always. You’re loved, you’re seen, and you’re never, ever alone.

With all our love,

Your cosmic friends,

The Blue Avians


Octavia Vasile


Tuesday, January 21, 2025

It's Time ✨

It's Time ✨

Love Notes

Brynne E. Dippell, Ph.D.

Posted January 21, 2025



Hello! The new year has officially launched. :)

How has it been for you so far?

I have spent the first few weeks integrating all the events of last year, engaging in deeper lessons in listening and surrender, and opening to the new light codes and energies that are now available. I am entering into this new chapter stronger and more connected to the light than ever before, and I am grateful. ✨

Although it will express itself in different ways, this is true for everyone. There is so much more available to us now that we have entered 2025. It’s time to harness the energies, and through your focused attention, actively call in your dreams.

A dear member of my soul tribe has taken this on wholeheartedly. He has packed up all his belongings, given up his home, and is planning to spend the next six months traveling and pursuing his heart’s deepest desire: writing. It is a courageous act, indeed, and although it is hard to see him go, I can only respect and honor his following the call of his soul.

The other day, I sat down to write a card of farewell and encouragement for his journey. Spirit came through immediately, instead, with a message of their own. It was a call to action, a fervent appeal to him to confront without fear all those parts of himself that are in need of healing now, so he may open into love and in greater service to the whole.

I wrote of opening to love here, a few months ago, and I thank all of you who responded. Your heartfelt messages about what you were ready to let go of were received and instantly released. And, the call for engaged action continues…

So much light and magic and possibility became available to us with the advent of the new year. It remains a priority to ensure that we are open to doing the emotional work necessary to prepare for the riches that are about to unfold.

Below I would like to share excerpts from the letter Spirit wrote to my friend. If it resonates for you, please read this as if it was written for you.

Dear One,

Over the weekend, Spirit told me to tell you, “Do the work.”

Do the work of writing, yes, but even more so, do the deep inner work that has been yearning to be given the time and space and attention to unfold.

You have greatness ahead.

You know this.

It’s in your DNA.

And yet... Yours is the pathway of the heart, and you cannot write what you came here to write with a closed heart.

The Divine Intelligence, The All That Is, invites you to open your heart, right here, right now.

You don’t need to drive across the country to find love. It is abundant now, and your capacity to love has never been greater.

Open your heart.

Release the sense of separation and difference, release all the protective mechanisms that have kept you safe for so many years, and know that it is this quality - the open heart - that will make your writing great.

Do the work.

All of it.

Spirit stepped back, and I added: “You may be tested at times, and I want you to know that I’m here. And that I offer a welcome sanctuary for you at any time.”

I offer this sense of sanctuary to you, reading this now, as well.

You may already have an open heart, you may not yearn to write, but what part of you does need attention? What part remains afraid of your immense light, of fully living into life? Spirit gives me the image now of kneeling down, of being humble in the face of your true essence and what is possible for you, and with the same urgency asks you to acknowledge fearlessly and lovingly what is there, what still needs tending.

As we transition fully into this new year, take this moment to reflect on how you wish to move forward. For many, January has been a month of quiet turning inward, while others took off like little skyrockets, already bright and sparkly and rushing ahead.

As for my soul family member, a few days into the journey, he is delighted, at times ecstatic, a little disoriented, and already touching into the rhythm that will make possible the writing he so deeply desires.

Little does he know what is to come when he says yes. :)

It is time indeed to release all parts, all habitual patterns and ways of being that no longer serve. It's strong work, of course, but it is essential work in these critical times. Rest in the knowing there is more support both earthly and celestial than ever before to see each of us through into the beauty that waits on the other side.

Let’s do the work - all of it - together. :)

Much love to you,

Brynne






Wednesday, July 24, 2024

Does He Know How to Listen?

Does He Know How to Listen?

By Steve Beckow

Posted on July 24, 2024


Does he know how to listen? Credit: Coursera

I was talking to a young friend the other day who may be entering a new relationship.

I imagined her asking me what she should look for in a relationship.

I had no problem answering that question. From my personal perspective?

Does he know how to listen?

If he knows how to listen, and you do as well, you have a chance to escape the cycle of conflict, which most relationships fall into at some point. (1)

How does listening work? Let me focus on what decades ago I used to call “restorative” listening because that’s the crucial type of listening, in my view, in a relationship.

We’re wanting to escape the cycle of conflict and it calls for a more intensive form of listening than ordinarily.

First thing is you don’t listen for what you want to hear. You listen for what he wants to tell you. He speaks because he wants you to hear and understand something. What is it?

Listening is not about you. It’s not about you reviewing what you just said to see how you did, when he’s speaking.

It’s not about you planning what you’ll say next. It’s not a pit stop where you change your tires while you get your next thought.

And it certainly isn’t about you interrupting his train of thought or walking away with the microphone. It takes work and concentration on our part to be the listener.

If anything it’s blue-sky stillness of mind into which is gathered all he says and spread out on the table – for him to see.

Second, moderate feedback is good.  It shows you’re listening. “You seem to feel sad. I hear the urgency of it. It sounds disturbing.” And then let it go.

Exception: It may further the process for you, at some point, to offer just a short insight about yourself (“I do that too”) to show you have an ante in the game. Be brief and then yield the microphone.

Third, listening is about you getting the real message that the speaker wants you to get. Sometimes that message – well, often, I think – is conveyed in or modified by gestures, inflection, mannerisms, etc.

The words may be different accompanied by different inflections. You need to “hear” everything to understand what the speaker is wanting you to get.

Fourth, treat everything he says as a chapter heading and unfold it. Don’t be surprised if he repeats the telling. The first time is for the story. The second time is for how he feels, now having seen the full story.

***

What’s the overall objective of listening of the kind I’m describing? It’s to give him the opportunity to put everything on the table and see what he’s doing and what barriers he’s meeting.

At some point he should have an “Aha!” and whatever troubled him will vanish. The truth will have set him free. (2)

This kind of listening should keep us out of the cycle of conflict if used lovingly, without judgment, and without undue interruption or redirection. It defuses. It satisfies. But it’s rare in our society.

It works provided the issues that are being discussed are solvable and the two people want a solution.

I always assume that the speaker knows what he needs. He just hasn’t been able to find anyone who will help by purely listening.

***

After G/NESARA (3) the remnants of a paradigm of a woman needing to rely on a man for her financial wellbeing will disappear. Poof! Women will have a guaranteed means of survival.

Then relationships may reflect the person’s pure interests and last as long as the two remain interested. There won’t be a need for marriage. They do not marry in heaven, remember? (4)

There’s no need for it. (5)

Footnotes

(1) See:

Cycle of Conflict:

We go around and around this cycle, our feelings for the other eroding a little more as we go, until we drop or leave. In a word? “Listening” is what’s missing. Oh, and love.

(2) And you can use the truth to guide you. If he is getting freer and freer of tension, the truth is being spoken. Barring venting, which is a good thing, if he’s getting more and more ornery, chances are there’s something not being said here.

Use the truth and his release as your guide in knowing what to listen to and what to gently inquire into (if it’s appropriate; don’t shanghai his share).

(2)  The Global/National Economic Security and Reformation Act, mandating a new economic order based on fairness, compassion, and universality.

See What’s Next?
 Vol. 5: G/NESARA at https://goldenageofgaia.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/Whats-Next-5-2.pdf

(3) For when they shall rise from the dead [i.e., ascend]
they neither marry
nor are given in marriage;
but are as the angels
which are in heaven.
(Mark 12:25.)

(4) There are no reasons for marriage in the higher dimensions. There are no threats for which we need to bind together and bond. One doesn’t face a poverty-stricken old age.

I used to know about child-rearing on the higher planes, but I’ve forgotten and haven’t written on it.

People come together and part as they please, for as long as it rewards them. What makes all this possible is the love which we’ll also experience one day soon. If we felt  that love for a moment, all would make sense.

Everything about family, sexuality, etc., is different in the higher dimensions.

There’s a book waiting to be written. The closest I’ve come to it is New Maps of Heaven at https://goldengaiadb.com/index.php?title=New_Maps_of_Heaven


Steve Beckow

Sunday, March 31, 2024

There is No Greater Gift than Listening -4 Sharing and Listening

There is No Greater Gift than Listening 

Vol. 4 Sharing and Listening

By Steve Beckow

Posted on March 31, 2024


This fourth and last volume in this series looks at what is most valuable to listen to – a share.

A “share,” as it was known in the growth movement, is a deeper self-revelation than ordinary conversation.  It aims at the person being known to others, at a deeper level than like/dislike.

Deep listening invites deep sharing and deep sharing is what unveils the truth that sets us free.

Here then is a chapter on how sharing equalizes us because, whether we’re a prince or a pauper, we feel the same feelings and probably have many of the same thoughts.


Download There is no Greater Gift than Listening V4 Sharing and Listening here: https://goldenageofgaia.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/03/There-is-no-Greater-Gift-than-Listening-V4-Sharing-and-Listening.pdf



All Shares Are Born Equal

March 6, 2009

A “share” happens when I tell the truth about myself. That truth may be a felt truth, a believed truth, a known truth, a perceived truth, etc. What one share holds in common with another is its relationship to the truth – my truth.

I use “shares” as the major tool of my emergence. I use my shares to strip off layer after layer of the onion of self-protection until what is left is nothing but transparency.

I retreat from sharing when I feel my survival, or the survival of anything with which I identify, seems at stake. The more I’m into survival, the less I share, unless I break through (i.e., emerge).

Usually when I haven’t shared, the reason is the same: I fear you. I fear what you will do to me. I fear giving you information about myself. I’m protecting myself from you.

A share is not a download of factual information. It is not a scientific assertion. It is not the “truth” about someone else. A share is the truth about me, from me, to you. Your share would be the truth about you, from you, to me.

My share is neither more nor less important than yours. As far as I’m concerned, all shares are born equal. Shares are the great equalizer. King or commoner, everyone has a truth to tell. I seldom tire of listening to your truth.

A share is only “verifiable by me.” I’m the expert on what I’m feeling inside this rental unit. You may know my habits, my acts, my opinions, but you’ll probably never know the truth for me.

And even if you think you do, whether or not that is actually the truth for me is something only I can say. Even if I lie, I remain the last word on what the truth really is for me.

Where I’m at with my life is where I’m at. It is neither better nor worse than where you’re at with yours. All of us go through the same steps from God to God. Some of us were released as sparks earlier than others. But all travel the same general road to the same specific Destination.

If I’m in Seattle and you’re in Chicago, if my time zone is Pacific Standard and yours is whatever it is, what difference? The same with shares.

Something shared is past. Release comes only from the next share. The value that I receive from sharing is not something I can put in a piggy bank. Yesterday’s share is gone.

Everything now rests on the share of this moment.

I know when I’ve shared the truth because I feel release. The truth has set me free. I know when I haven’t shared the truth because I feel stress. Moving away from the truth has further bound me.

My share, to be of any value, does not rip your face off. Since a share is about myself, staying with myself is one sure way to see that harmlessness prevails. Sharing maximizes harmlessness. If my sharing harms, there is no value to it.

Sharing takes me away from blame-based communication by centering my attention on me. I hear your share. I acknowledge it and mirror it back to you. Then I respond with how it is for me.

After a while, I no longer mind your business. The increasing release I feel from sharing captures my attention.

Hopefully you will no longer mind my business too, but the bigger gain is simply for me to keep on sharing no matter what you do.

Shares have their time and place. The traffic cop and the bus driver may not want to share with me. Air traffic controllers do not share with each other. I wouldn’t want a medic to collapse in tears at the sight of suffering, sharing how it is for him or her.

The President may, on occasion, not want to be transparent for the good of the nation. Not all the world’s business can be conducted through sharing, although an increase in sharing probably wouldn’t hurt.

Emergence is the name of the game for me. Your emergence is what I’m here for (mine too). I am a space to receive your share and in which the truth of mine arises.

https://goldenageofgaia.com/spirituality/communication-sharing-and-listening/all-shares-are-born-equal/


Download There is no Greater Gift than Listening V4 Sharing and Listening here: https://goldenageofgaia.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/03/There-is-no-Greater-Gift-than-Listening-V4-Sharing-and-Listening.pdf

Steve Beckow

 
 

Saturday, March 30, 2024

Leaving the Cycle of Conflict

There is No Greater Gift than Listening 

Vol. 3 Leaving the Cycle of Conflict

By Steve Beckow

Posted on March 30, 2024


Credit: verywell.com


I’m reissuing Leaving the Cycle of Conflict as a volume in the There is No Greater Gift than Listening series.

Let me post one of my favorite chapters from that book.

I have to say that the cycle of conflict, in my estimation, is the greatest affliction of relationship that I’m aware of and it’s a hidden killer because very few people see what they’re doing.

Bringing this pattern of behavior to public attention fulfills a childhood promise to myself. I wanted the world to know about the domestic abuse happening in my home. And now it does.

And here’s the solution – in this and the other books on listening. The parts I haven’t covered I know others will.

Notice when you read it:  how people rejoice when a couple gets back together again but no one focuses on what’s causing the splits; how we “become” our parents; and how we never seem to learn and nothing seems to change.

 

I was talking yesterday about the cycle of conflict and breaking free from it. Let me pick up there again and start with some background.

Carousel of Tears

I spent my first fourteen formative years on this carousel of tears I call a cycle of conflict.

It was a never-ending loop which usually ended in divorce. I’ve seen very few people trapped in the cycle of conflict who emerged with their relationship intact. And they don’t know why because they “always got back together again.”

Back then, we not only had no insights into how to end the conflict; we couldn’t even see its cyclical nature.

Becoming Our Parents

Having seen the cost to my family of the cycle of conflict, I made myself a promise that I would stop the family inheritance, the intergenerational transfer that Michael once called “legacy behavior.”

But I mentioned to you earlier that the legacy behavior was the only movie I had in my head.

When we “become our Father,” what really is happening is that we’re reaching back into our memory banks and bringing forward as our mode of behavior the only movie all of us have – what our Dad or Mom did.

And we don’t see what we’re doing for the same reason we may not pay attention to what’s happening in our world. We’re busy doing other things.

That’s how we become our parent.

Just that one matter alone – not becoming our parents – takes a high degree of awareness and an unwillingness to respond automatically in order to break the pattern. And, no, I’m still down here in the trenches on these matters, working away with everyone else.

Never Seem to Learn and Nothing Changes

Another feature of the cycle of conflict is that we never seem to learn. Instead, we seem to focus on and congratulate ourselves for getting back together again.

For me, getting back together again is a significant event but it’s not the significant event.

The significant event is recognizing that we’re caught in a cycle of conflict that only ever brings heartache and resolving to exit it.

So long as we fool ourselves that reconciliation is the big win, we may not do the work to break the cycle.

Everyone promises not to do it again and off we go, not communicating or communicating unproductively. The same issues arise. The frustration begins and is worse because we thought we had the issue handled. All it takes is a spark.

Is this not the theme of countless Hollywood movies?


Download No Greater Gift than Listening V3 Leaving the Cycle of Conflict here: https://goldenageofgaia.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/03/There-is-No-Greater-Gift-than-Listening-V3-Leaving-the-Cycle-of-Conflict-R3.pdf


“Right/Wrong Not a Way Out,” Aug. 19, 2023, at https://goldenageofgaia.com/2023/08/19/347152/

Steve Beckow