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Helping Women Feel Safe

By R’Kok

Channel: A. S. 

Posted on October 12, 2024

 

 

 

 

My dearest Earth brothers and sisters,

This is R’Kok speaking. I greet you with love and respect.

For those who missed my previous messages: I am a reptilian who abandoned his evil ways and joined the galactic confederation.

Nowadays I feel like an outsider everywhere. Certainly I’m an outsider to the evil reptilian culture I left. I also don’t quite feel like a member of the galactic confederation yet, even though technically I am and they’ve been nothing but good to me. I don’t feel like I’m at the level of consciousness yet of the people around me, and therefore I don’t feel like I belong, even though they feel like I belong.

Not to mention that most people around me have weird, pink, small, squishy bodies. I can’t even give people a friendly slap on their back without having to be conscious that their bodies are fragile. And when one of the women here gets curious and wants a new sexual experience, I have to be careful to not just accidentally break her in half during sex. Which, well, reinforces my feeling of being an outsider. I haven’t been able to just lose myself in sex since I left the reptilians, because reptilian women are much sturdier and also are normal size rather than being weirdly small, as humans are.

Sometimes I feel that those Pleiadian women are mostly just using me for my body, because having sex with a reptilian is a new sexual experience for people who have already experienced everything else.

Although to be honest maybe I’m being too cynical here. I have turned down an offer to explore the possibility of a serious relationship from a Pleiadian woman who seemed to be kind and who seemed to genuinely care about me. Why? I don’t know. I guess I didn’t feel ready. I guess I didn’t feel worthy.

Now that I’m having to actually spell that out, it does sound a bit stupid. Maybe I should visit her, see if she wants to spend some time together. There’s this planet I always wanted to make a day trip to, maybe she wants to come.

In any case, I am an outsider. I haven’t lived on Earth, and I am not a human. I still want to give an outsider’s perspective on today’s topic of helping Earth human women feel safe. I’m not an expert on the topic but I’ll do my best.

With that said, let’s get started.

Chapter one: many women often feel very unsafe

If you talk to Earth women and have a heart, you’ll probably be disturbed by just how many of them have a story where they were raped or groped or were in situations that were physically or emotionally very unsafe.

As a result, many Earth women understandably often feel very unsafe.

I don’t agree with everything this spiritual teacher does or says, but Teal Swan had a good illustration of this in her YouTube video “What Every Man Needs To Know About Women.” In that video, she said, and I quote:

If you fill a room with men and women, and you ask the question “have you ever feared for your life”, what you will notice is that a few of the men’s hands will go up. Each of these men has a story about an isolated incident, like for example the time they got into a fight when they were a kid, or the time they got into an accident, or the time they were travelling abroad.

What happens also is that every single hand of every woman in that audience will go up into the air.

And if you ask the question: “how many of you feared for your life in the last year”, most of the men’s hands will go down, unless the isolated incident they were talking about occurred within that last year. And again, all of the hands of the women stay up.

If you ask the question: “how many of you feared for your safety and your life in the last month”, again, all of the women’s hands stay up.

And the same thing happens if you ask: “how many of you have feared for your life in the last week.” All of the hands will stay up.

And this exercise usually shocks the hell out of men. Because this is the one thing that men do not understand about women.

That is quite a revealing story, isn’t it?

Chapter two: the importance of helping women feel safe

It feels wrong and distasteful to even have to argue this. After all, healthy and uncluttered people will naturally want to help women feel safe. There’s an obvious moral imperative here.

However in practice, lots of Earth men are struggling themselves and therefore they don’t necessarily see women’s safety as a priority. Because of that, I will make a practical argument why it’s important to help women feel safe.

The practical argument is: my message last week was “R’Kok: Society thrives if women love, and men protect and protect.” In it, I argued that both men and women thrive if women love, and men provide and protect. So obviously, men protecting women is one step towards this better society that I sketched last week.

Chapter three: as a man, how to help women feel safe?

One part of this is helping every person in your community to feel protected and provided for. Now you may not be able to fully accomplish this by yourself, but you can make a small contribution. I’m sure you can think of an intelligent way to make your local community better.

Next up, let’s say I see a man grope a woman, and I’m in an area where I don’t trust the police to do a good job at all. Then I’ll have a conversation with the groper about respect and consent. If that conversation lands, great, that’s it. If the conversation doesn’t land, then I’ll beat him up so that he can feel what it’s like to be touched without consent.

To be clear though, this is just my viewpoint; the channeler doesn’t agree with this and other galactics won’t necessarily agree.

Regardless, I feel that men need to do a better job at making sure that other men don’t mistreat women.

This also extends to speaking up if other men say that they’re planning to mistreat a woman, or if for example they say that all women are awful.

Now, I’m not saying you should censor the speech of someone who bad mouths all women. I’m just suggesting that you disagree. And I’m also not saying that you must disagree if you hear someone make a politically incorrect statement, or a statement that some people including some women won’t like but that might nevertheless be true. I’m just suggesting to disagree with obviously untrue statements such as all women being bad.

Next up, let’s discuss helping your girlfriend or wife to feel safe.

Now obviously the best thing to do is just to talk to her, because people are different. What she says is more important than anything I’ll say. Regardless though, here are some things that personally go through my head when I’m thinking about helping a girlfriend or wife feel safe:

Again, help with protecting and providing for her, without putting her in a cage or taking away her freedom. Although of course it’s fine to have personal boundaries and relationship agreements — if both of you agree to a monogamous relationship, then obviously that’s not taking away her freedom.

If that’s the kind of relationship you two want: take charge, make decisions, show initiative, organize fun things to do for you two together. While still listening to her, of course.

Have a goal or goals that aren’t centered around her.

Ideally, be good enough at working with your own sexual energy that you’re okay even if on a certain night you want to have sex but she doesn’t. There are tantric and yogic exercises that help here, such as Mula Bandha or Uddiyana Bandha. That said, if you regularly want sex and she doesn’t, and that’s not a temporary situation, then you may just be incompatible. It’s not shallow to want a healthy and fulfilling sex life, as either a man or a woman.

Next up, keep your word. Do what you say. Be reliable.

Just work for her benefit. If you can think of something to help her out, do so if you can, even if she doesn’t explicitly ask or if it’s not explicitly your responsibility. Partners are supposed to be a team, after all.

Personally if I entered a relationship with someone who came from such an unsafe environment as Earth, I would offer to hand her a signed contract that said that if I ever intentionally lied to her or cheated on her or hit her, then she could demand any compensation from me that she wished whatsoever. And she could have police or courts legally enforce that.

And, of course, I would regularly express how much I loved her and all the things I appreciated about her and admired about her.

So, this was my attempt at answering the question: how can men help women feel more safe.

Finally, women, you’re invited to share in the comment section what men can do to help you and other women feel more safe — whether societally or in the context of a relationship. Because of course, what you say on this topic is more important than what I say. And obviously, if you disagree with anything in this message, feel free to say that as well.

Now excuse me, I have a lady on my mind that I want to go spend some time with.

With love,

R’Kok

A. S. 

For Era of Light

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Helping Women Feel Safe

Helping Women Feel Safe

By R’Kok

Channel: A. S. 

Posted on October 12, 2024

 

 

 

 

My dearest Earth brothers and sisters,

This is R’Kok speaking. I greet you with love and respect.

For those who missed my previous messages: I am a reptilian who abandoned his evil ways and joined the galactic confederation.

Nowadays I feel like an outsider everywhere. Certainly I’m an outsider to the evil reptilian culture I left. I also don’t quite feel like a member of the galactic confederation yet, even though technically I am and they’ve been nothing but good to me. I don’t feel like I’m at the level of consciousness yet of the people around me, and therefore I don’t feel like I belong, even though they feel like I belong.

Not to mention that most people around me have weird, pink, small, squishy bodies. I can’t even give people a friendly slap on their back without having to be conscious that their bodies are fragile. And when one of the women here gets curious and wants a new sexual experience, I have to be careful to not just accidentally break her in half during sex. Which, well, reinforces my feeling of being an outsider. I haven’t been able to just lose myself in sex since I left the reptilians, because reptilian women are much sturdier and also are normal size rather than being weirdly small, as humans are.

Sometimes I feel that those Pleiadian women are mostly just using me for my body, because having sex with a reptilian is a new sexual experience for people who have already experienced everything else.

Although to be honest maybe I’m being too cynical here. I have turned down an offer to explore the possibility of a serious relationship from a Pleiadian woman who seemed to be kind and who seemed to genuinely care about me. Why? I don’t know. I guess I didn’t feel ready. I guess I didn’t feel worthy.

Now that I’m having to actually spell that out, it does sound a bit stupid. Maybe I should visit her, see if she wants to spend some time together. There’s this planet I always wanted to make a day trip to, maybe she wants to come.

In any case, I am an outsider. I haven’t lived on Earth, and I am not a human. I still want to give an outsider’s perspective on today’s topic of helping Earth human women feel safe. I’m not an expert on the topic but I’ll do my best.

With that said, let’s get started.

Chapter one: many women often feel very unsafe

If you talk to Earth women and have a heart, you’ll probably be disturbed by just how many of them have a story where they were raped or groped or were in situations that were physically or emotionally very unsafe.

As a result, many Earth women understandably often feel very unsafe.

I don’t agree with everything this spiritual teacher does or says, but Teal Swan had a good illustration of this in her YouTube video “What Every Man Needs To Know About Women.” In that video, she said, and I quote:

If you fill a room with men and women, and you ask the question “have you ever feared for your life”, what you will notice is that a few of the men’s hands will go up. Each of these men has a story about an isolated incident, like for example the time they got into a fight when they were a kid, or the time they got into an accident, or the time they were travelling abroad.

What happens also is that every single hand of every woman in that audience will go up into the air.

And if you ask the question: “how many of you feared for your life in the last year”, most of the men’s hands will go down, unless the isolated incident they were talking about occurred within that last year. And again, all of the hands of the women stay up.

If you ask the question: “how many of you feared for your safety and your life in the last month”, again, all of the women’s hands stay up.

And the same thing happens if you ask: “how many of you have feared for your life in the last week.” All of the hands will stay up.

And this exercise usually shocks the hell out of men. Because this is the one thing that men do not understand about women.

That is quite a revealing story, isn’t it?

Chapter two: the importance of helping women feel safe

It feels wrong and distasteful to even have to argue this. After all, healthy and uncluttered people will naturally want to help women feel safe. There’s an obvious moral imperative here.

However in practice, lots of Earth men are struggling themselves and therefore they don’t necessarily see women’s safety as a priority. Because of that, I will make a practical argument why it’s important to help women feel safe.

The practical argument is: my message last week was “R’Kok: Society thrives if women love, and men protect and protect.” In it, I argued that both men and women thrive if women love, and men provide and protect. So obviously, men protecting women is one step towards this better society that I sketched last week.

Chapter three: as a man, how to help women feel safe?

One part of this is helping every person in your community to feel protected and provided for. Now you may not be able to fully accomplish this by yourself, but you can make a small contribution. I’m sure you can think of an intelligent way to make your local community better.

Next up, let’s say I see a man grope a woman, and I’m in an area where I don’t trust the police to do a good job at all. Then I’ll have a conversation with the groper about respect and consent. If that conversation lands, great, that’s it. If the conversation doesn’t land, then I’ll beat him up so that he can feel what it’s like to be touched without consent.

To be clear though, this is just my viewpoint; the channeler doesn’t agree with this and other galactics won’t necessarily agree.

Regardless, I feel that men need to do a better job at making sure that other men don’t mistreat women.

This also extends to speaking up if other men say that they’re planning to mistreat a woman, or if for example they say that all women are awful.

Now, I’m not saying you should censor the speech of someone who bad mouths all women. I’m just suggesting that you disagree. And I’m also not saying that you must disagree if you hear someone make a politically incorrect statement, or a statement that some people including some women won’t like but that might nevertheless be true. I’m just suggesting to disagree with obviously untrue statements such as all women being bad.

Next up, let’s discuss helping your girlfriend or wife to feel safe.

Now obviously the best thing to do is just to talk to her, because people are different. What she says is more important than anything I’ll say. Regardless though, here are some things that personally go through my head when I’m thinking about helping a girlfriend or wife feel safe:

Again, help with protecting and providing for her, without putting her in a cage or taking away her freedom. Although of course it’s fine to have personal boundaries and relationship agreements — if both of you agree to a monogamous relationship, then obviously that’s not taking away her freedom.

If that’s the kind of relationship you two want: take charge, make decisions, show initiative, organize fun things to do for you two together. While still listening to her, of course.

Have a goal or goals that aren’t centered around her.

Ideally, be good enough at working with your own sexual energy that you’re okay even if on a certain night you want to have sex but she doesn’t. There are tantric and yogic exercises that help here, such as Mula Bandha or Uddiyana Bandha. That said, if you regularly want sex and she doesn’t, and that’s not a temporary situation, then you may just be incompatible. It’s not shallow to want a healthy and fulfilling sex life, as either a man or a woman.

Next up, keep your word. Do what you say. Be reliable.

Just work for her benefit. If you can think of something to help her out, do so if you can, even if she doesn’t explicitly ask or if it’s not explicitly your responsibility. Partners are supposed to be a team, after all.

Personally if I entered a relationship with someone who came from such an unsafe environment as Earth, I would offer to hand her a signed contract that said that if I ever intentionally lied to her or cheated on her or hit her, then she could demand any compensation from me that she wished whatsoever. And she could have police or courts legally enforce that.

And, of course, I would regularly express how much I loved her and all the things I appreciated about her and admired about her.

So, this was my attempt at answering the question: how can men help women feel more safe.

Finally, women, you’re invited to share in the comment section what men can do to help you and other women feel more safe — whether societally or in the context of a relationship. Because of course, what you say on this topic is more important than what I say. And obviously, if you disagree with anything in this message, feel free to say that as well.

Now excuse me, I have a lady on my mind that I want to go spend some time with.

With love,

R’Kok

A. S. 

For Era of Light

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To What Extent is Your Personality False?

To What Extent is Your Personality False?

By R’Kok

Channel: A. S. 

Posted on September 28, 2024

 

 

 

 

My dear Earth friends,

This is R’Kok speaking. I am grateful for this opportunity, and feel humbled that out of the countless beings who would love to be channeled, I am the one who is chosen for today.

Seriously, you have no idea how many beings would love to send a message to Earth — to give advice, to share stories, to tell you how much they love and appreciate and respect you.

Today I would like to discuss: to what extent is your personality false?

And I’m asking the question in this way because almost certainly your personality is false to a greater extent than zero.

I’m calling those parts of your personality false that were created as a coping or a defensive mechanism, to deal with fear or pain or pressure or indoctrination. Beliefs or life choices that don’t fit you are also part of your false personality.

For example, imagine a woman who was raised to be a good, kind Christian who never gets angry or offends anyone.

Which parts of this woman’s personality are false? Well, it depends on the woman. It’s possible that incidentally, being a good, kind Christian woman is almost exactly what she resonates with in this life. In this case, very little of her personality may be false. Now sure, everyone gets angry occasionally, so never getting angry and never offending anyone is probably part of a false personality, but still.

On the other hand, it’s also possible that this woman had the pre-birth intention to be a piercing, rationally-minded, atheistic, investigative journalist who asks tough, possibly unkind or offensive questions to people. In this case, if the woman actually adopts the kind, Christian woman personality who never offends anyone (and she might), then pretty much all of her personality could be false, and that might lead to psychological problems, anxiety, substance abuse, a gnawing unhappiness or emptiness, etc. Or she might rebel very hard during her teenage years, or she might experience a severe midlife crisis.

This is why it’s best to give your children room to express themselves and be themselves and explore and find themselves, and not push them too hard in any particular direction. If you allow that, and if your children are loved and taken care of, then probably a relatively small amount of their personality will be false — although it might still be the case that your child came in to be a reformer or shaker-up of the system, and so they’re not ever going to fit in and be satisfied in a world like Earth. Some people have the choice between adopting a false personality and just not fitting in with society at all, and that can be a tough choice.

Now in most cases, a child gets damaged to a relatively large degree — more than you’re perhaps aware of, because parents have to push their children into a mold so that they’ll fit into society, which is seen as normal and necessary but can actually be quite damaging for the child. As a result, a child may grow up with a relatively large false personality.

Let’s investigate to what extent you have, and / or grew up with a false personality. I would like to invite you to answer the following questions for yourself. Feel free to pause this message, answer a question and then unpause the message.

Does it feel like a burden to occasionally more or less have to keep quiet about your true beliefs, because normal people are aggressively close-minded? So for example, if you’re adopting a false, polite, normal persona at work because the people there wouldn’t accept the real you, then that might be causing you inner pain — even though that’s probably also necessary, and I wouldn’t recommend being excessively open at work. To be clear, you’re not doing anything wrong if you hide your true self at work, that may be necessary. But if you’re hiding your true self at work, and if that causes you emotional pain, then that’s good to be aware of. Awareness is the first step towards decreasing your suffering, after all.

Does it feel reasonable to you that you have to make money to survive, and that you therefore might be pushed into doing a job that’s more or less pointless? If that feels unreasonable to you, then even having a job might not be a part of the real you — even though it might be necessary regardless. This is the paradox of living on Earth: you might have to do things that go against your nature just to be able to afford food, because Earth’s society is so twisted. So I’m not saying to quit your job today, I’m not saying you’re doing anything wrong, but if needing to have a job is causing you inner turmoil then, at least it’s good to be conscious of that.

Next up: were you allowed to be angry as a child and teenager? Were you allowed to cry? Were you allowed to rest and more or less do nothing for a while? Were you allowed to fail?

Are there any other emotions that you weren’t allowed to have as a child?

Did those emotions or desires become subconscious or repressed? Do you have inner parts of yourselves who still have those desires?

Were you allowed to pick your own religious and spiritual beliefs as a child, or were you more or less pushed into a specific belief such as Christianity or atheism?

Were you allowed to pick your own left vs right political preference, or were you more or less told that this side is noble and right and that the other side is evil and stupid?

To what extent were you allowed to say or express things that your parents disapproved of? To what extent were you pushed to be a model child, or a child that your parents could be proud of?

Did your parents push you in certain directions to mitigate their own fears?

Did you receive sufficient unconditional love and freedom as a child?

Now let’s ask a few more questions about your current adult self:

To what extent do you dare be authentic, even if it upsets others or make you look a bit crazy in the eyes of others?

Are you comfortable with your inner masculinity and femininity? And are you sure about that? Are there some parts of it that you’re in resistance to?

To what extent are you suffering from learned helplessness — the idea that you’re unable to create positive change? Do you feel comfortable with giving up the familiar and with making drastic, perhaps scary changes at the appropriate time. Do you feel comfortable in your ability to create a good life for yourself? Do you feel comfortable in your ability to contribute positively to Earth society?

What parts of your life are things you want to do, and what parts of your life are things you feel you have to do? And is it actually true that you have to do those things?

If as your current adult self you’re nice to someone — do you do that because that’s the real you, or do you do that because you want something from the other person (approval, sex, love), or do you do that so that you can prove to yourself or others that you are a good person?

When women express a dislike of so-called “nice guys”, often they’re sensing that being nice is a false personality of that man. He’s not being nice because that’s his nature, instead he’s being nice to get something (sex, approval), or to manipulate people in some way (look at me being a great guy). The niceness is part of the “nice guy’s” false personality.

People often prefer those who have a mostly-genuine personality, even if they’re kind of dicks, over those who pretend to be nice but aren’t.

Now, due to the previous questions, you might have discovered that your childhood was lacking in some ways that you weren’t aware of. I empathize — life on Earth is indeed really tough and unfair, and I’m sorry.

As with previous messages: observing yourself without judging or bulldozing or suppressing immediately trying to change yourself is a valuable step towards healing. And also, give yourself some time — you can’t change your entire personality overnight.

If you still think that none of your personality is false, well, it’s entirely possible that less of your personality might be fake than most people. But if you were entirely unblocked and fully aligned with your soul and Source, you could and probably would single-handedly liberate Earth. And you could do things such as teleport, et cetera. So likely you still have some blocks and some false parts of your personality.

If you’re unaware which parts of your personality are fake, it might help to just keep asking yourself “why” whenever you make a notable choice, or whenever you do something that perhaps doesn’t make a lot of sense. Then keep asking yourself “why” as a follow-up question when you answer the first “why.”

Finally, it’s completely fine, and indeed quite wise, to just say that you don’t know something. And of course, you can still have an opinion even though you’re not entirely sure, and act based on that opinion.

I hope this was insightful. You have all my love and respect and empathy for living on such a tough world, and I give my greatest well-wishes to you. May we meet in the not too distant future.

And finally, there have been some other channelers on your world citing 2026 or 2027 as the time of first contact, while galactics associated with this channeler have been saying that it’s likely but not guaranteed that we’ll meet before the end of 2025, and that your lives will improve substantially before the end of 2025. Why the difference? Well, the future isn’t actually set in stone, because you have free will. The time of first contact depends on the choices that Earth humans make, therefore no galactics are completely sure when first contact will occur.

On your world you often have multiple models making different predictions; well, so do we. We may be advanced, but it’s simply impossible to predict the free-will choices that people are going to make. After all, if we could predict what you were going to do, then effectively you wouldn’t have free will at all. And you do have free will.

That said, our “likely but not guaranteed” 2024 or 2025 prediction might look like public and open first contact, or it might look like galactics contacting those Earth humans who are awake enough, which includes lots of people who are currently tuning in to this message (hence Hakann’s earlier suggestion to form small groups interested in meeting up). So both predictions could come to pass if we end up contacting Earth humans who are ready in 2024 or 2025, and then land publicly in 2026 or 2027.

That said, Hakann and the others are still looking at landing openly in 2024 or 2025, so that absolutely could still happen (although admittedly 2025 is looking more likely than 2024 for that).

Or the other galactic source might be right and it might be 2026 or 2027. Or we might all be wrong — no one is entirely sure, because it depends on your choices, Earth humans. The only thing that I am sure of is that you will be free, in the not too distant future.

I understand that may not be a very satisfying answer. I can only say: thank you so very much for your service and for your presence on Earth at this time. I imagine it must be very hard and painful at times, but most likely you are doing an amazing job and a great service indeed to mankind, and I salute you.

With love,

R’Kok

A. S. 

For Era of Light

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To What Extent is Your Personality False?

To What Extent is Your Personality False?

By R’Kok

Channel: A. S. 

Posted on September 28, 2024

 

 

 

 

My dear Earth friends,

This is R’Kok speaking. I am grateful for this opportunity, and feel humbled that out of the countless beings who would love to be channeled, I am the one who is chosen for today.

Seriously, you have no idea how many beings would love to send a message to Earth — to give advice, to share stories, to tell you how much they love and appreciate and respect you.

Today I would like to discuss: to what extent is your personality false?

And I’m asking the question in this way because almost certainly your personality is false to a greater extent than zero.

I’m calling those parts of your personality false that were created as a coping or a defensive mechanism, to deal with fear or pain or pressure or indoctrination. Beliefs or life choices that don’t fit you are also part of your false personality.

For example, imagine a woman who was raised to be a good, kind Christian who never gets angry or offends anyone.

Which parts of this woman’s personality are false? Well, it depends on the woman. It’s possible that incidentally, being a good, kind Christian woman is almost exactly what she resonates with in this life. In this case, very little of her personality may be false. Now sure, everyone gets angry occasionally, so never getting angry and never offending anyone is probably part of a false personality, but still.

On the other hand, it’s also possible that this woman had the pre-birth intention to be a piercing, rationally-minded, atheistic, investigative journalist who asks tough, possibly unkind or offensive questions to people. In this case, if the woman actually adopts the kind, Christian woman personality who never offends anyone (and she might), then pretty much all of her personality could be false, and that might lead to psychological problems, anxiety, substance abuse, a gnawing unhappiness or emptiness, etc. Or she might rebel very hard during her teenage years, or she might experience a severe midlife crisis.

This is why it’s best to give your children room to express themselves and be themselves and explore and find themselves, and not push them too hard in any particular direction. If you allow that, and if your children are loved and taken care of, then probably a relatively small amount of their personality will be false — although it might still be the case that your child came in to be a reformer or shaker-up of the system, and so they’re not ever going to fit in and be satisfied in a world like Earth. Some people have the choice between adopting a false personality and just not fitting in with society at all, and that can be a tough choice.

Now in most cases, a child gets damaged to a relatively large degree — more than you’re perhaps aware of, because parents have to push their children into a mold so that they’ll fit into society, which is seen as normal and necessary but can actually be quite damaging for the child. As a result, a child may grow up with a relatively large false personality.

Let’s investigate to what extent you have, and / or grew up with a false personality. I would like to invite you to answer the following questions for yourself. Feel free to pause this message, answer a question and then unpause the message.

Does it feel like a burden to occasionally more or less have to keep quiet about your true beliefs, because normal people are aggressively close-minded? So for example, if you’re adopting a false, polite, normal persona at work because the people there wouldn’t accept the real you, then that might be causing you inner pain — even though that’s probably also necessary, and I wouldn’t recommend being excessively open at work. To be clear, you’re not doing anything wrong if you hide your true self at work, that may be necessary. But if you’re hiding your true self at work, and if that causes you emotional pain, then that’s good to be aware of. Awareness is the first step towards decreasing your suffering, after all.

Does it feel reasonable to you that you have to make money to survive, and that you therefore might be pushed into doing a job that’s more or less pointless? If that feels unreasonable to you, then even having a job might not be a part of the real you — even though it might be necessary regardless. This is the paradox of living on Earth: you might have to do things that go against your nature just to be able to afford food, because Earth’s society is so twisted. So I’m not saying to quit your job today, I’m not saying you’re doing anything wrong, but if needing to have a job is causing you inner turmoil then, at least it’s good to be conscious of that.

Next up: were you allowed to be angry as a child and teenager? Were you allowed to cry? Were you allowed to rest and more or less do nothing for a while? Were you allowed to fail?

Are there any other emotions that you weren’t allowed to have as a child?

Did those emotions or desires become subconscious or repressed? Do you have inner parts of yourselves who still have those desires?

Were you allowed to pick your own religious and spiritual beliefs as a child, or were you more or less pushed into a specific belief such as Christianity or atheism?

Were you allowed to pick your own left vs right political preference, or were you more or less told that this side is noble and right and that the other side is evil and stupid?

To what extent were you allowed to say or express things that your parents disapproved of? To what extent were you pushed to be a model child, or a child that your parents could be proud of?

Did your parents push you in certain directions to mitigate their own fears?

Did you receive sufficient unconditional love and freedom as a child?

Now let’s ask a few more questions about your current adult self:

To what extent do you dare be authentic, even if it upsets others or make you look a bit crazy in the eyes of others?

Are you comfortable with your inner masculinity and femininity? And are you sure about that? Are there some parts of it that you’re in resistance to?

To what extent are you suffering from learned helplessness — the idea that you’re unable to create positive change? Do you feel comfortable with giving up the familiar and with making drastic, perhaps scary changes at the appropriate time. Do you feel comfortable in your ability to create a good life for yourself? Do you feel comfortable in your ability to contribute positively to Earth society?

What parts of your life are things you want to do, and what parts of your life are things you feel you have to do? And is it actually true that you have to do those things?

If as your current adult self you’re nice to someone — do you do that because that’s the real you, or do you do that because you want something from the other person (approval, sex, love), or do you do that so that you can prove to yourself or others that you are a good person?

When women express a dislike of so-called “nice guys”, often they’re sensing that being nice is a false personality of that man. He’s not being nice because that’s his nature, instead he’s being nice to get something (sex, approval), or to manipulate people in some way (look at me being a great guy). The niceness is part of the “nice guy’s” false personality.

People often prefer those who have a mostly-genuine personality, even if they’re kind of dicks, over those who pretend to be nice but aren’t.

Now, due to the previous questions, you might have discovered that your childhood was lacking in some ways that you weren’t aware of. I empathize — life on Earth is indeed really tough and unfair, and I’m sorry.

As with previous messages: observing yourself without judging or bulldozing or suppressing immediately trying to change yourself is a valuable step towards healing. And also, give yourself some time — you can’t change your entire personality overnight.

If you still think that none of your personality is false, well, it’s entirely possible that less of your personality might be fake than most people. But if you were entirely unblocked and fully aligned with your soul and Source, you could and probably would single-handedly liberate Earth. And you could do things such as teleport, et cetera. So likely you still have some blocks and some false parts of your personality.

If you’re unaware which parts of your personality are fake, it might help to just keep asking yourself “why” whenever you make a notable choice, or whenever you do something that perhaps doesn’t make a lot of sense. Then keep asking yourself “why” as a follow-up question when you answer the first “why.”

Finally, it’s completely fine, and indeed quite wise, to just say that you don’t know something. And of course, you can still have an opinion even though you’re not entirely sure, and act based on that opinion.

I hope this was insightful. You have all my love and respect and empathy for living on such a tough world, and I give my greatest well-wishes to you. May we meet in the not too distant future.

And finally, there have been some other channelers on your world citing 2026 or 2027 as the time of first contact, while galactics associated with this channeler have been saying that it’s likely but not guaranteed that we’ll meet before the end of 2025, and that your lives will improve substantially before the end of 2025. Why the difference? Well, the future isn’t actually set in stone, because you have free will. The time of first contact depends on the choices that Earth humans make, therefore no galactics are completely sure when first contact will occur.

On your world you often have multiple models making different predictions; well, so do we. We may be advanced, but it’s simply impossible to predict the free-will choices that people are going to make. After all, if we could predict what you were going to do, then effectively you wouldn’t have free will at all. And you do have free will.

That said, our “likely but not guaranteed” 2024 or 2025 prediction might look like public and open first contact, or it might look like galactics contacting those Earth humans who are awake enough, which includes lots of people who are currently tuning in to this message (hence Hakann’s earlier suggestion to form small groups interested in meeting up). So both predictions could come to pass if we end up contacting Earth humans who are ready in 2024 or 2025, and then land publicly in 2026 or 2027.

That said, Hakann and the others are still looking at landing openly in 2024 or 2025, so that absolutely could still happen (although admittedly 2025 is looking more likely than 2024 for that).

Or the other galactic source might be right and it might be 2026 or 2027. Or we might all be wrong — no one is entirely sure, because it depends on your choices, Earth humans. The only thing that I am sure of is that you will be free, in the not too distant future.

I understand that may not be a very satisfying answer. I can only say: thank you so very much for your service and for your presence on Earth at this time. I imagine it must be very hard and painful at times, but most likely you are doing an amazing job and a great service indeed to mankind, and I salute you.

With love,

R’Kok

A. S. 

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Be Conscious of Your Shadow

Be Conscious of Your Shadow

By R’Kok

Channel: A. S. 

Posted on July 13, 2024

 

 

 

 

Dear Earth humans,

 

This is R’Kok speaking.

 

When I decided to stop being evil, a natural question arose: what is my new primary goal in life? In fact, what are the non-evil goals that I can even choose between?

 

And what was my previous goal, back when I was doing selfish and destructive things? What actually was I hoping to accomplish? What was driving me forward?

 

To answer those questions, I have created the following model. However, keep in mind that I’m still in the middle of my personal development journey, so this isn’t necessarily the ultimate truth, nor is this the way in which most galactics look at things. After all, you can model reality in lots of ways. However, my personal model says that all people are on one, or perhaps two of five paths:

 

Path of comfort

 

Most people on Earth are on the path of comfort. Their primary goal is just a comfortable life for themselves and their loved ones. They want a reasonable amount of pleasure and not too much pain in it, and that’s more or less all they want. They’re pretty satisfied with having a normal life.

 

Typically these are decent, unremarkable people. Or they’re people who are quite remarkable or have great potential, but they got hurt badly somewhere along the way and so for the moment they’re in survival mode and so they’re focusing on getting comfort.

 

If you put enough financial or psychological stress on people, typically they go into survival mode and revert back to the path of comfort. Which is something that the dark controllers know well, and I can personally confirm this to be generally true.

 

People on the path of comfort generally don’t put huge amounts of effort into becoming incredibly successful or doing deep inner work or doing great acts of service. That said, they may be willing to work hard to create or maintain a comfortable life for themselves or their loved ones, and they may be willing to occasionally donate to charity or occasionally do some volunteer work.

 

These people don’t tend to be evil, although they can relatively easily be manipulated into supporting evil things, and they can be pushed to do evil things if their comfortable lives are sufficiently threatened. This is part of why entire populations of seemingly fine and decent people can be pushed on to an evil path if the right fearmongering and propaganda is applied to them. After all, doing independent research and potentially disagreeing with friends and family isn’t as comfortable as just believing what the media says and complying.

 

People on the path of comfort tend to resist accepting truths that are psychologically uncomfortable. As we are currently seeing on Earth.

 

Fortunately, it’s entirely possible for people to switch paths. Just because someone is on the path of comfort today, doesn’t mean they always will be.

 

Path of coping with emptiness

 

This is the path I was on. If someone didn’t receive enough love and belonging as a child, or don’t sufficiently feel their connection to Source, they may feel a sense of emptiness inside.

 

People on this path are trying to actively cope with this feeling of emptiness. In which way? Well, there’s lots of options. A person can be a driven entrepreneur. Or a person can numb themselves with drugs. Or a person can try to become a famous athlete or TV personality or influencer in order to try and fill their emptiness with adoration from strangers.

 

Or a person can seek luxury or wealth or lots of sex. Or a person can become evil and seek power and control. Or a person can seek to create something that they feel will give their life some purpose. Or a person can seek to create or do something that will make sure they are remembered even after their death.

 

Someone who gets viscerally invested into the idea that the other political side or some ethnic group is the source of all evil, may start repeatedly bashing that group as their way of coping with emptiness. It’s how they feel that they can give meaning and purpose to their life, and because they’re so invested in their crusade they’re typically thinking in overly black and white terms.

 

Someone who is hugely bothered by the idea that their life is meaningless is probably also on this path, because their core problem may very well be that they lacked love and an experienced connection to the divine growing up. Conversely, someone who did receive enough love and did experience enough connection to the divine probably isn’t overly bothered by the idea of meaninglessness, and will instead just focus on improving their own life, helping others, finding a partner, doing something meaningful or enjoyable, etc.

 

In recent times more and more people are being raised with insufficient love and belonging and felt connection to the divine, which means that more and more people may be drawn to this path. This is why so many young people nowadays are trying to become youtube-famous or tik-tok famous.

 

People on this path can be hideously evil. Or they can be entrepreneurs who genuinely are a net benefit to society. Or they can be tik-tok stars who are neither a huge help nor a huge detriment to society. But in all cases, they’re coping with their internal feeling of emptiness — it’s just that some people do that in a way that helps others, and some people do that in a way that hurts others.

 

People on this path don’t just want a house and a family and some holidays and some comfort, because they would still feel empty even if they have that. This is why some people who on paper have a good life and a fine family, still initiate divorce anyway and later regret that, or they turn to drugs or sexual affairs and ruin their lives. It’s because back when their life was fine on paper, they still felt the emptiness, and they were still trying to find an external solution to an internal problem.

 

The actual solution to this feeling of emptiness is to heal your old pain, to give yourself love, to receive love from others and to try and become aware again of your connection to the divine. Someone who does that is on one of the three upcoming paths, namely the path of spiritual growth, the path of helping people, or the path of having experiences.

 

This also suggests that if you’ve been traumatized and are currently struggling with that pain, it might help to adopt one of those three upcoming paths (spiritual growth, helping people, having experiences) as a motivator to help yourself through the healing process.

 

Path of spiritual growth

 

These are people whose primary goal is spiritual growth, and / or related things like healing and discovering truth.

 

These people may still do things like work a regular job, go to a psychologist, visit friends, buy nice things for their house, eat ice cream, watch television, et cetera. People don’t need to be spending every waking hour doing spiritual things to be on this path.

 

Picture someone who has a job and a family. They’ll be spending most of their time on their job or their family or doing necessary chores or just watching tv when they’re too exhausted to do anything substantial. However, suppose that this person has a little bit of free time where they feel good and have the energy to do something substantial. How are they spending that time? If they’re often (not necessarily always) spending that on something like meditation or self-healing or on other spiritual pursuits, then they’re on the path of spiritual growth.

 

People on this path are doing their deep work, and aren’t just after comfort and aren’t just after ways of coping with internal emptiness. If they have trauma, these people are willing to face it and experience pain in the present in order to heal and grow.

 

Path of helping others

 

These are people who are primarily interested in helping others, or serving the divine, or serving some greater cause.

 

Being on this path requires more focus on service than just donating a bit of money to charity each month. That said, you don’t necessarily need to be self-sacrificing or spend every waking hour on helping others to be on this path. What’s required is that you are primarily interested in helping others, not that you are exclusively interested in helping others.

 

A person on this path can be a non-spiritual, altruistic person who spends a lot of time helping the homeless in practical ways. Or it can be a devout person who takes their religion’s call to do good very seriously. Or it can be a spiritual person who is primarily focusing on helping others or doing acts of service, rather than focusing on spiritual growth.

 

Path of experiences

 

Finally, the last path is the path of experiences. People on this path just seek out experiences, for its own sake.

 

These may be people who like to travel, who like to meet and talk to new people, who like to try out new activities. They may have a bucket list of things they would like to do. Or they may want to have the experience of focusing on one thing (whether that’s mastering the guitar or having a loving family) and becoming really good at it.

 

Contrary to people on the path of comfort, people on this path are willing to face discomfort and risk and pain and uncertainty and financial hardship to have their experiences. This is the type of person who realizes that becoming a writer or artist will lead to a financially unstable future, and they become a writer or artist anyway.

 

People on the path of comfort say “be realistic” while these people say “follow your dreams.”

 

If you have a genuine artist whose music comes from the heart or from the soul and whose music touches millions of people, probably they were on the path of experiences. Conversely, the type of artist who just wants money and fame, and who focuses on making music that is commercially successful, is probably on the path of coping with emptiness.

 

People on the path of experiences can be magnetic, because often they’re aligned with their soul. After all, their soul also wants to have experiences.

 

That said, not everyone on the path of experiences will eventually become a great, well-known artist. There are people who are genuinely on the path of experiences and yet during their life they remain an obscure and perhaps not even exceptionally good writer or singer, and that’s it. However, that doesn’t matter that much to these people — they just wanted to write, or they just wanted to play guitar, and that’s what they did.

 

There’s a certain beauty and pureness to doing something without being attached to the outcome.

 

People on the path of experiences don’t necessarily need to focus on doing something that they then present to the world. Someone who just wants to travel as much as possible — not as a coping / escape mechanism but just because they love it — is also on the path of experiences.

 

A stay at home mom whose primary goal is having a thriving family, and who is willing to do painful inner work to become a better mother and wife, is also on the path of experiences.

 

Why this model is useful

 

Okay, so we have our model: everyone is on one or perhaps two of the following paths: comfort, or coping with emptiness, or spiritual growth, or helping others, or experiences.

 

Why is this useful?

 

Well, it’s pretty doable to know which path people are on, just by having a short conversation with them or by looking at how they’re spending their time. And once you know which path they’re on, you typically understand them much better, and you can adjust your expectations and how you talk to them.

 

For example, if you know someone is on the path of comfort, you’re probably not going to accomplish anything by telling them that their government is malevolent, including most of the politicians on their political side. That’s not a comfortable message, so it will just get rejected.

 

In this case, you know that what these people want is comfort, and what they avoid is anything that threatens their comfort. So you can either be kind to them and listen to them, and perhaps in time they will feel safe and comforted enough that they will switch to another path.

 

Or if you insist on trying to wake them up in the present, now you know that you need to tie it into something that directly threatens their personal comfort. So just saying that the government is malevolent won’t work. However, saying that mass illegal immigration will disrupt their personal comfortable lives, and that it will get worse and worse until the border is secured, might plant a seed in their mind. And that seed might later bear fruit.

 

Also, if you understand that most people on Earth are on the path of comfort, you won’t be disappointed by the fact that many of them are only going to wake up when their own personal lives stop being comfortable, in a way that the mainstream media can’t just blame on Trump. Because only when their lives stop being comfortable, will people on the path of comfort be forced to learn about reality, in order to be able to prevent further destruction of their personal comfort.

 

On a macro scale, how can billions of people on the path of comfort be nudged awake? Well, the best way would be for the gray hats to arrest the bad guys and provide disclosure and dramatically improve living standards. Then people’s lives would become good enough that people wouldn’t have to primarily focus on comfort anymore. However, the gray hats thus far refused to do that, and the souls of the people on Earth can nudge things a bit but they can’t cause mass arrests and public disclosure.

 

So the backup plan is that the souls of the people of Earth are nudging things towards declining living standards and scary conflicts, so that people are forced to wake up because their comfort is getting destroyed.

 

Let’s discuss another example of how you can use this model. If you’re a parent and your child is on the path of experiences, it probably doesn’t help to keep insisting that your child makes the safe and responsible choice, because your child is going to follow their dream. Best to support them in any way you can, and let the chips fall where they may.

 

Next up: let’s say someone is on the path of coping with emptiness. Well, now you know that their actual underlying problem is lack of received love, belonging and connection to the divine. So you can contribute to their healing by giving them love and a sense of belonging (either in a community / family, or by saying how much they mean to you).

 

Don’t expect people on the path of coping with emptiness to necessarily act in moral or logical ways. They might act in ways that seem pointlessly destructive or self-destructive from the outside. And just telling them not to do these things doesn’t help — give them love and belonging instead.

 

Finally, it can be good to ask yourself: which path or paths are you currently on? Feel free to share in the comment section, if you want.

 

With love,

 

Your star brother,

R’Kok

 

A. S. 

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