Showing posts with label self permission. Show all posts
Showing posts with label self permission. Show all posts

Sunday, December 1, 2024

Permission to Feel Blessed

Permission to Feel Blessed

The Angels

Channel: Ann Albers

Posted on December 1, 2024



My dear friends, we love you so very much,

Allow yourselves to feel good in a world where so many don’t. You need not feel guilty for the things you enjoy, the moments when you relax, and the times when you don’t want to do what others think you should. We encourage you always to reach for what feels best in a given moment. We work with all of you to find the path of most joy or at least comfort in any given moment. We know your happiness is a vibrational gift to the world.

Allowing yourself to be happy even when you watch difficult things on the news, know people who are suffering, and don’t have ideal conditions in your own life runs contrary to a lot of your programming. We are not suggesting you become insensitive or lord your happiness over another who isn’t feeling well. To the contrary, we are suggesting that as you permit yourself to enjoy what is good in your life, you become a lighthouse and a beacon to others who need to give themselves permission to do the same. Your happiness attunes you to the frequency of love where you will find the help you seek, the joyful connections you crave, and the peace that surpasses understanding.

The Divine is always broadcasting on the frequency of love. Your angels constantly offer a vibration of love. In the smallest moment of appreciation, you, too, are attuned to the frequency of love. The more time you spend in this vibration, the more you rise above the chaos and uncertainty of your world and exist in an entirely different reality.

Your personal reality can be peaceful. Your personal world can be in flow. Your problems can be solved with remarkable elegance as you relax into the moment, permit yourself to enjoy the here and now, and allow us to help orchestrate the answers to your prayers.

We are always looking for opportunities to guide you towards what you want. We are always looking for those with whom you will find mutuality and joy. We are always striving to remind you of your worth. Your job isn’t to figure it all out. Your job is to find the “station” where Spirit broadcasts so you can receive all that we are trying to give you.

You can find this station through appreciation, through loving anyone or anything, and by telling the stories that uplift you rather than repeating the ones that drag you down. Until stories of love sell, they won’t be the main event in your mainstream media. However, stories of love, kindness, generosity, and compassion can be the stories you focus upon and the stories you tell.  They can be the stories you share with one another and, in so doing, elevate both yourselves and the receiver.

As you permit yourselves to be happy, you give others permissionn to do the same. There’s no need to preach positivity dear ones. Have you ever tried to tell an upset child to be positive? Far better to be kind. You can share a story of hope or inspiration. You can say something compassionate. And when you are down, you can do the same for yourself. Tell yourself a good story. Seek something inspiring.  Watch something that makes you laugh. Be compassionate with yourselves.

As you enter your season of light, we celebrate you! We celebrate the millions of small kindnesses you have shared throughout your life and the countless times you have wished others well—even total strangers. We celebrate your willingness to reach for the light even when life appears difficult because it is there, dear friends. The light is always there. The Divine is always loving. We are always guiding. Reach for what feels best in a moment and open to all that love.

Feel no guilt whatsoever for feeling good, having goodness in your life, and being good, even when others want you to agree with their upsets.  Dear ones, you are the lights on the tree of life, and your radiance makes a difference upon your earth.

Happy Season of Light. We celebrate you.

God Bless You! We love you so very much.

The Angels.

Ann Albers


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Friday, August 23, 2024

Give Yourself Permission to not Spend Time on Certain Things

Give Yourself Permission to not Spend Time on Certain Things

Tunia via channel A. S.

Posted on August 24, 2024

 



My dearest brothers and sisters,

This is Tunia speaking. I love you so very much.

Your society pulls you in many different directions. You’re supposed to have a great career, and also have a great relationship, and have children, and have a nice house and lots of possessions, and have a rich social life, and do volunteer work, and have hobbies, and read and travel, and keep up with politics and current news and have opinions about those things, and keep up with technology, and do spiritual work, and cook healthy food, and exercise, and discover your true self and take action to bring out and express that side of you, and be creative and artistic, and possibly you should start your own company or at least do some side activity to make more money, and actually you should find some way to become financially independent, and then of course you need to do chores like cleaning and getting groceries, and if old pain comes up then you should do something with that, et cetera, et cetera.

Meanwhile, many of you have very little support or community to fall back on, and the Earth environment is very unsupportive and harsh in general.

So it’s no wonder that many of you feel pulled in too many directions, or feel that the weekend is way too short and that you don’t have nearly enough free time.

Indeed, the work week on Earth is too long. In the not too distant future, you will likely have to spend less time on work and chores, and will have more time for yourself.

In the here and now however, many of you are still in the situation where you simply don’t have the time and energy to do all the things you want to and need to spend time on.

Usually, that leads to one of the following things:

– someone tries to do too many things at once. As a result, important things get done poorly or people get neglected, and for example their partner may feel taken for granted and underappreciated. Or their child might not receive the love and attention they deserve.

– or the person does all the visible and surface-level things, but then completely fails to do less visible things. So for example, this is the person with the nice, big house, who has for decades failed to do any spiritual or psychological work because they were spending all their time engaging with the external world. Perhaps this person is so used to always being busy that they’re unable to sit still without any stimulation.for even just a few minutes.

– or the person uses coping mechanisms or substances or drugs to cope with their overly full calendars.

– or this can lead to a burnout or to other psychological problems.

Now in some cases, people have already optimized their life as much as possible. And either they have a great life, or their calendar is overly full but it genuinely can’t be helped, because nearly all their time and energy goes to their job and family and chores and they can’t just abandon one of those things.

On the other hand, in some cases people are too stuck in old habits, or they’re being held back by fear. Or people are too affected by society telling them what they should do, even though the list of things that society tells people to do is so long that it’s impossible to fit everything into the calendar of an average person. It’s an inherently unfair expectation.

Moreover, this current life is just one trip your soul is taking. You don’t need to cram everything into this life, because this life is just one of many.

It’s fine to simply not do certain things that society tells you to do, if you genuinely don’t feel drawn to it and it’s not just resistance on your part against that activity.

You can become a new you. You just have to choose it — and then possibly work through any resistance or limiting beliefs or old pain that might come up. But still, you can always choose to become a better and perhaps happier or more relaxed version of yourself.

Hence, I am inviting you to give yourself permission to live your authentic life, no matter what society tells you.

Here’s a brief pause in this message so that you can say that sentence to yourself, if you wish: “I am giving myself permission to live my authentic life.”

(pause)

And then feel into that energy.

(pause)

Next up, I would like to invite you to:

– make a list of the things that you have to do

– make a list of the things that are of critical importance to you

– make a list of the things that you would like to do, but you’re okay with not doing them if you lack the time or energy for them.

So for example, a list of the things you have to do might be: your job, mandatory chores, taking care of your children, et cetera. Now in some cases it would be best for people if they radically reconfigured their life or lifestyle. Or in other cases, you can save some time and energy here by either making some smart optimizations or by buying a dishwasher for example. But I understand that many people either don’t have the money for that or that people have already optimized their time in this way.

Next up, the things that are of critical importance to you. And I would like to invite you to also include subtle things, such as: having some time with no stimulation (which is actually very important), for example during a walk in nature or just before bed. Also, having enough quality time with loved ones. Enough time for spiritual practice. Time to observe or otherwise work with old pain if it comes up. At least a certain amount of time to do things you enjoy, because you’re not a machine, you can’t always be productive.

I want to invite you to not label everything as being of critical importance. After all, part of the point of this message is inviting you to not just automatically keep doing all the things that society tells you to do, or that you’re used to doing .

If you label everything as being of critical importance, then effectively you’re labeling nothing as being of critical importance.

And also, be realistic. If you have a lot of responsibilities, it’s better to schedule relatively short meditation sessions that you can actually do daily, rather than schedule long meditation sessions that in practice you won’t have the time or energy for.

Once you’ve made a habit out of meditation briefly every day, you can always extend that meditation time later if you wish.

And finally, you can make the third list, which is a list of things that you would like to do but it’s okay if you skip them.

So, if you want, feel free to make these three lists before continuing this message: what you need to do, what’s of critical importance to you, and what you like to do but it’s okay if you skip them.

Here’s another brief pause so that you can do this, if you want.

Now, you can see if there are things that you’re currently spending significant time on that aren’t in your “mandatory” or “of critical importance” categories.

For instance, you might be spending quite some time consuming news or political commentary, even though you probably haven’t labeled that as being of critical importance. I’m not saying that you should never catch up with news ever, but it might not be of critical importance to you to keep up with all the latest political outrages. That outrageous thing the other political side has just said, probably is going to be forgotten a month from now anyway. It’s probably not critical to the wellbeing of you or the world that you keep up with all the latest political twists and turns.

If you feel yourself rationally agreeing with this, but also facing some inner resistance, then it might be good to observe what exactly that resistance is, and what personal need of yours might be met through following politics closely. And then, perhaps you can directly work to heal that wound, or to meet that need in some other way.

Also, you might be spending more time on social media than you’ve labeled as being of critical importance. Perhaps you haven’t labeled social media as being of critical importance to you at all, or perhaps you’ve only labeled following a handful of specific people as being of critical importance to you. In that latter case, you can consider reducing your social media time to just following those specific people.

Now, I’m not saying that you should always be productive and that you should never give yourself free time. That just sounds exhausting. I’m all in favor of people allowing themselves to have free time. I just think that in most cases people can relax in ways that are more nourishing to them than being on social media.

Even if you’re tired, you may find that reading a fun fiction book or calling a friend will leave you feeling better than spending time on social media. Even watching tv or playing video games may leave you feeling better than being on social media.

Some people feel that they should always be productive (which is another thing that most likely comes from your society and doesn’t come from your own soul). But even people who feel that, most likely don’t have the energy to actually be productive all day. And if someone in practice is going to spend three hours on non-productive things anyway, then they might as well spend that time doing things they actually enjoy, rather than spending that time on social media.

Of course, these are just examples. People are different, and ultimately it’s up to you to decide what you do and don’t want to spend time on.

I know that many people are already managing their time well, life is just hard. And I very much empathize. Still, I hope that this message was beneficial to some of you.

I love you so very much. And in the future, you will most likely have more ease and leisure in your lives.

Your star sister,
Tunia


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Saturday, May 11, 2024

Permission

Permission

The Creator Writings

Channel: Jennifer Farley 




Posted on May 11, 2024
 

The Universe would like you to know that it is perfectly okay for you to say no. A chorus of humans are saying, “Oh my, it’s just not possible. Things would fall apart without me! What would people do if I wasn’t there to help?” In response, you are being asked the big what if…

What if you were to take time for yourself?

What if you choose rest over stretching yourself too thin yet again?

What if you gave yourself the gift of releasing the need to participate in things that make you uncomfortable?

My dearest child, give yourself permission to take care of your own needs without guilt, shame or disappointment. You are worthy and deserving of filling your own cup because you most certainly cannot pour from an empty one.
 
The Creator
 
Jennifer Farley 

 Reminder discernment is recommended

 

Sunday, November 5, 2023

Giving yourself permission to be human!

Giving yourself permission to be human! 

The Federation of Light 

Channel: Blossom Goodchild

Posted on November 5, 2023

 

 
Black = Federation of Light 
Gray = Blossom Goodchild
 
 

Good morning. I would like to get this week’s channelling done today, as I don’t have any other time to do so before Sunday. However, once again, I find myself in an ‘off mood!’ So, I’m going to try and see what happens. What will be will be.

Welcome, Blossom. Welcome, One. Welcome, All. Shall we discuss your reasons for your ‘downtime’?

No, thank you. To recognise that I am not always able to be a ‘law-abiding Lightworker’ and accept it, is all I need to do!

We accept it. We accept WholeHeartedly that we are not the ones abiding in the Vibration that you are and having to deal with its ups and downs … of great degrees. We are in awe of the way so many of you choose to cope with all that you have to contend with and you do so with great aplomb.

Not really. Today for instance … I know it is a matter of changing my attitude, Being Grateful, etc. Yet, I am too fed up to be bothered! You see what I mean? I know better … yet, I don’t want to act upon it because I am fed up of always having to ‘act on it’. It’s hard work!

Blossom Goodchild.

Yes … that’s me.

We know. We know who you are. We know your feelings because we can pick up on your Energy.

Not very Vibrationally High today, is it?

Actually, yes, it is. As Light Beings in human form, you feel you let yourselves down when you are not conforming to the practicalities of ‘making the most of what you have’. This idea of I should know better … does not really serve you.

Yet, I do know better.

You know how to Serve your Soul by ‘working on your mood’?

Yes.

What if we were to tell you that by allowing yourself to feel the way you are at this time is also Serving your Soul?

How so?

Because by allowing yourself to feel so grumpy …

Yep! That’s me today, BIG TIME Mrs Grumpy!

You are giving yourself permission to be human! Do you feel you will stay in this mood for the rest of your life?

Absolutely not.

How do you know this?

Because ‘life’ doesn’t work like that!

How does it work?

Actually, it doesn’t ‘work’ … it flows … upstream or downstream … depending on what’s going on.

Nothing flows upstream, Blossom.  Yet, to say ‘it flows’ is a beautiful analogy.

So, who puts the rocks in the way to block that flow?

Life.

Why?

So you get to work around them and set the flow in motion, time after time.

Why can’t we just have a continual flow of Love and all things Light flowing in this Life of ours? I feel you are going to say ‘to learn’. How many lessons do we need, for goodness sake?

As many as it takes for you to rise above it all and KNOW THE FLOW IS A GO!

Hah! Are you serious? You made me laugh, nonetheless. Yet, does this ever stop? One feels we have a grasp on the ‘laws of the universal flow’. We have been reminded through you, how to change thought patterns and to connect with our Love Light, and Smile and make the World a happier place through the usage of such tools. Sometimes it is easy, sometimes it feels like a never-ending slog, and yet, probably, this afternoon, I will once again find it easy. Who knows?! Who knows about anything?! Not one. Because we have no clue what is Truth any more!

TRUTH in what you are presented? Or, Truth, as in, who you are?

Interesting question. Definitely in what is presented, yet, also, I could say, in who we are. Regarding NPC’s for example. (Non-Playing character) I know I am a living, breathing Soul with a mind, an ego, a Heart of Love.  ‘Apparently’, not everyone on this Planet has all those attributes, if any.  The more we find out the Truth … assuming that is the Truth … the more RIDICULOUS we discover this Life Plan Game is, and, I can’t get my head around all this ridiculousness!

Because you can’t understand it?

Can you?

There is no understanding required, Blossom.

ALL … JUST … IS.

I don’t understand!

So, Blossom and Each one following along …

YOU DO NOT NEED TO UNDERSTAND EVERYTHING THAT IS GOING ON … ON YOUR PLANET OR ANY OTHER.

LET THAT GO.

Trying to make sense of it all … is impossible?

Why? Because it doesn’t make sense?

Oh, it does! Yet, it is impossible to grasp the enormity of the sense it is making.

There are many, many, Souls who have experienced ‘leaving the physical and entering into the ‘unknown’ and then returning to the physical body. The unknown that is Known by all because it is WHO YOU ARE. Within this ‘place’, for want of a better word … ONE KNOWS AND UNDERSTANDS EVERYTHING.

There are no textbooks or words … IT IS A FEELING … AND WITHIN THIS FEELING, EVERYTHING MAKES SENSE.

ALL OF IT.

We repeat … ONE KNOWS AND UNDERSTANDS EVERYTHING.

ONE GETS IT.

ONE IS IT.

Is what?

THE ALL.

THE EVERYTHING.

I have always felt how Blessed those Souls are to have had that experience. Either through a NDE (Near Death Experience) or, a deep meditation. They say, that when they ‘come back’ their life is never the same. It would make a huge difference to this Planet if we could all get a load of that! And I know you want to say ‘we can’ … and I want to reply … ‘Not so!’ Why can some experience that and others not?

It is part of their life’s journey.

Some could say, all be it childishly … that’s so unfair!

Not childishly, Blossom … perhaps naively.

Dearest Souls, there are thousands upon thousands, upon thousands of trillions, upon trillions upon trillions … just as a starter … of scenarios that are to be played out in Each Souls ‘package’.

Every Gift is offered to be played out … in any lifetime… on any Planet … on or off!

Gifts come in all shapes, sizes, surprizes, and guises.

All there in one’s package to be unwrapped by the recipient at the most agreeable moment to Serve that Soul.

Often, in the most unforeseen, unexpected ways.

And we reiterate …

ALL THOSE GIFTS … EACH AND EVERY SINGLE ONE ARE CHOSEN BY YOU … GIFT WRAPPED BY YOU … TO BE OPENED IN THE DIVINE MOMENT TO SERVE YOUR SOUL.

So, am I to look upon this mood … I was/am … in … as a gift I chose to wake up to this morning, followed shortly after by a teabag bursting all over my draw?

Do you see it as a Gift, Blossom?

Maybe I can at least look upon it as such because it enabled me to get a channelling done … no matter how ‘indulgent’ the content.

We want you to say what you are screaming in your Heart?

Why?

Because it is your Truth and that is why tears are falling.

It’s so indulgent.

Say it, Blossom.

I MISS MY HUSBAND!!

Thank you, Blossom. That in itself …. Is a Gift to so many.

You think?

We KNOW. That is why we pushed you.

How is that a gift to so many?

Because you ‘Stopped being Brave’ for a minute and spoke your Truth.

I don’t see it as brave. We all have our challenges and besides, we are here to uplift, are we not?

We are. Yet,  we are also here to BE IN TRUTH … and today, Blossom, THIS IS YOUR TRUTH.

Yep! … Yep! … Yep! … It is! Now I just need the courage to post this!

You will find it. You always do.

We take this moment to Thank YOU Blossom Goodchild … for carrying on when you don’t always feel like it. In doing so … our messages of Love reach so many.

Well, I thank you for thanking me … publicly. Yet, concerns of channelling my ego could arise!

Yet … you know better!

I think I do. I hope I do. Far out Brussel Sprout! What a session. I thank you Guys and I thank everyone who reads or listens to this for holding space for me. What a Gift. I AM the Light. I AM the Love. I AM the Truth. I AM. In Gratitude. In Loving Service. I AM.

 
Blossom Goodchild