Your Romantic Relationships

Your Romantic Relationships

The Creators (12D)

A Nonphysical Collective Consciousness

Channel: Daniel Scranton

Posted on March 8, 2025

 

 

 

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We are here for you. We are The Creators. We are a twelfth-dimensional collective of nonphysical beings, and we are here to help. 

 

We know that you are always doing the best that you can in all areas of your lives, but especially when it comes to all of your relationships with other people. You may be hard on someone else that you are in a relationship with because you are hard on yourself and because someone else, or several people, have been hard on you. You may be doing what you think is most appropriate within a romantic relationship because it is all that you have ever had modeled to you.

When you get together with someone else in a romantic relationship, you tend to see the best of them, initially. And then as time moves forward, you tend to see all parts of them, and you feel less love within you for that person as a result. The average person will try to change their partner, to try to get their partner to see the error of their ways, so they can shape up and be that very lovable person that first emerged within the relationship for them. Now, of course, this works to varying degrees for different people, but for the most part it is the person who is asking the other to change who needs to change.

It is important for you all to see that you are that love that you want to feel and that you can generate that love within yourself and feel it no matter what the other person is doing. And when you are sending love to the other person and being love under all circumstances, then you are getting what you think you need from the other person, but you are getting it from within yourself. You see, you don’t need anyone else to change in order to experience love when looking at that person or thinking about them. You may need to shift the way you are focusing on that person. You may need to decide what to focus upon when thinking about that person, but you do not need the other person to perfect themselves so that you can then offer them your conditional love.

Many people go from relationship to relationship thinking that they will finally find ‘the one’ who is going to be everything they think they need another person to be. It is important to accept and love yourselves as you are, and it is just as important to do that for everyone else who is in your life, regardless of whether the relationship in question is a romantic one. We know that you expect a lot from your children and from your parents as well. You expect them to always be in alignment with Source and be beaming that unconditional love of Source upon you. But often they cannot because they have not been taught how to do so.

When we tell you to go within and generate the love that you truly are from inside of you, that is what we are attempting to do. We are attempting to teach you how to find the love that you truly are so that you can be it and feel it in all circumstances and around all people. And then you won’t be asking anyone else to complete you or to love you unconditionally. And that will make your life a whole lot easier and it will make your relationships a whole lot better, and you will fill yourselves up whenever you need to, because you will have practiced it, and you will have practiced it because you want to be in a loving romantic relationship with another person. Ultimately, however, you want to start having that relationship with yourself.

 

We are The Creators, and we love you very much.

 

Daniel Scranton 

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Your Romantic Relationships

Your Romantic Relationships

The 12D Creators

A Nonphysical Collective Consciousness
Channel: Daniel Scranton

Posted on February 14, 2024

 

We are here for you. We are The Creators. We are a twelfth-dimensional collective of nonphysical beings, and we are here to help. 

 

We know that you are always doing the best that you can in all areas of your lives, but especially when it comes to all of your relationships with other people. You may be hard on someone else that you are in a relationship with because you are hard on yourself and because someone else, or several people, have been hard on you. You may be doing what you think is most appropriate within a romantic relationship because it is all that you have ever had modeled to you.

When you get together with someone else in a romantic relationship, you tend to see the best of them, initially. And then as time moves forward, you tend to see all parts of them, and you feel less love within you for that person as a result. The average person will try to change their partner, to try to get their partner to see the error of their ways, so they can shape up and be that very lovable person that first emerged within the relationship for them. Now, of course, this works to varying degrees for different people, but for the most part it is the person who is asking the other to change who needs to change.

It is important for you all to see that you are that love that you want to feel and that you can generate that love within yourself and feel it no matter what the other person is doing. And when you are sending love to the other person and being love under all circumstances, then you are getting what you think you need from the other person, but you are getting it from within yourself. You see, you don’t need anyone else to change in order to experience love when looking at that person or thinking about them. You may need to shift the way you are focusing on that person. You may need to decide what to focus upon when thinking about that person, but you do not need the other person to perfect themselves so that you can then offer them your conditional love.

Many people go from relationship to relationship thinking that they will finally find ‘the one’ who is going to be everything they think they need another person to be. It is important to accept and love yourselves as you are, and it is just as important to do that for everyone else who is in your life, regardless of whether the relationship in question is a romantic one. We know that you expect a lot from your children and from your parents as well. You expect them to always be in alignment with Source and be beaming that unconditional love of Source upon you. But often they cannot because they have not been taught how to do so.

When we tell you to go within and generate the love that you truly are from inside of you, that is what we are attempting to do. We are attempting to teach you how to find the love that you truly are so that you can be it and feel it in all circumstances and around all people. And then you won’t be asking anyone else to complete you or to love you unconditionally. And that will make your life a whole lot easier and it will make your relationships a whole lot better, and you will fill yourselves up whenever you need to, because you will have practiced it, and you will have practiced it because you want to be in a loving romantic relationship with another person. Ultimately, however, you want to start having that relationship with yourself.

 

We are The Creators, and we love you very much.

 

Daniel Scranton 

 

 

https://danielscranton.com/

 

 

Some Relationships Are Meant To Last Briefly

Some Relationships Are Meant To Last Briefly

Tunia via channel A. S.

Posted on April 8, 2023

My dearest brothers and sisters,

This is Tunia speaking. I love you so very much.

Many people on Earth have the perception that all romantic relationships are meant to last for life. They have the perception that if two people stay together for life, then the relationship is successful, whereas if the two people split up, then something went wrong.

People will also acknowledge that sometimes people should not have started a relationship at all; or that sometimes people had a good relationship but then one of the partners made a mistake or did something bad and now the relationship should end because of that.

However, there is another option that is frequently overlooked on Earth. That is: two people should start a relationship so that they can learn a few important lessons from each other, or help each other out for a period of time. And then the relationship should end. And in this possibility, it is actually good that the relationship starts, and it is also good that the relationship ends.

After all, to be blunt, a number of people are either not yet ready for their life-long relationship yet, or their soul does not want them to be in a life-long relationship (either at this moment or in this life entirely). In those situations, your soul may want you to be in a relationship for a while and learn a number of important lessons, but then also get out of that relationship at the proper time because that relationship was never meant to last for life. After all, you can very quickly learn certain lessons and grow in a good relationship.

So let’s say you are tormented by the thoughts of: “I had the one, I was with my true love, and then I said something wrong, and now we’re separated and my life is ruined.” To those people I say: it is entirely possible that you two were never meant to be in a life-long relationship. It is entirely possible that yes your soul wanted you two to come together, but then your soul also wanted you to split up when you did.

In fact, if you two split up over something relatively inconsequential — one person said some words that the other person didn’t quite like, or one person just isn’t really feeling the relationship anymore, or something like that — then it is likely you two were not meant to be together for life. If both of your souls wanted you two to be together, you very likely would not be splitting up over something relatively minor.

That said, of course it is still possible that a relationship ends while the souls of both people involved would have preferred that the relationship did not end. I am not saying that if a relationship ends, then that was automatically for the best. I am also not saying that you should aim to have brief relationships.

Some people are currently in a relationship that their soul wishes would end already, because it was meant to be a temporary relationship, but then the partners clung together anyway. This can lead to stagnation. If you know a couple who seemed to have not really changed over the course of say ten years, then that might be what is going on (although this is not always the case).

Again we see here that souls are usually much more concerned with soul growth and much less concerned with comfort or avoiding pain. People would usually be happy to sign up for a relationship in which two people just exist for their entire life in an acceptably content way. Meanwhile your soul usually wants change and growth every so often, and isn’t shy about having temporary relationships in order to learn certain lessons.

Also don’t underestimate that if you follow your soul’s path, then initially that may very well be uncomfortable, but in the end you will almost certainly be happy that you did. For example, once you have spent your time learning lessons and doing your own self-development work and you are ready, it is very easy for your soul to line you up with an amazing relationship. And at that time, you may find that you indeed prefer being with this partner rather than with those earlier people who you either had crushes on or not-entirely-fulfilling relationships with.

I hope this was helpful. I love you so very much.

Channel: A.S.

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