Using Surrender-Trust to Overcome the Need to Control
By Mother Mary
Channel: Rob Loveland
Rob: So today, we are continuing in our series of going through each of the Infinity Keys, this time specifically the pairings of the keys of Surrender and Trust in order to overcome the need to control events in our lives, the thoughts and beliefs of others, and any other aspect. So I am coming to meet Mother Mary.
So Mother, over to you. Do you have anything to share with us today?
Mother Mary: Welcome, Rob. It is a pleasure to meet with you again. Yes, it is your mother, Mary, and I’ve come to talk to you, as you’ve requested, about Surrender and Trust.
As you well know, you are the author of all events in your life, all experiences you choose to have, so this human need to control events or attempt to control events is somewhat of a paradox. In reality, since you decide what all your experiences will be, you are, in fact, controlling all events. Control is always in your hands. You decide what you’re going to experience. Yes, there are those of us on this side who have agreed to be your guides and are helping you in your decisions, but ultimately, it is your choice.
And so, as you progress on your journey of ascension, your spiritual journey, you find yourself wanting to control the external events, and you become frustrated when the events don’t turn out the way that you had assumed. This is your human mind, your lower dimensional mind, thinking that you are isolated, that you are separated from all others.
In reality, as you have seen through the other keys, there can be no such thing as separation from Source and All-That-Is, therefore all events in your life, all events that you experience, were placed there by agreement with you. This is what you choose to experience to show you something, something about your own beliefs, your own attitudes, your own limitations. In reality, the only limitations that exist for you in this life are those that YOU have placed upon yourself.
So in the human form, once you understand that you are trying to control events, the Keys to Heaven and the Keys to Self are the means by which you can overcome that sense of control, that sense of a need to control. Surrender your desire to dictate the outcomes, the outcomes on the surface, what is apparent to see. But again, in reality, all outcomes are exactly as you choose them to be, have chosen them to be.
So surrender your need. Surrender yourself to the Divine Plan, to My plan, with your assistance, and therefore, your plan. Surrender yourself to THAT.
Trust. This requires trust, that you believe that there is a plan, that it all will be better, that you are working towards something greater, greater than yourself, greater than what you can see. It’s all for a purpose, and it is all perfect in its construction to achieve that purpose.
And so surrender goes along with trust. Once you surrender yourself to the Divine Plan, you are trusting that there is a Divine Plan, and that you are part of that, and that all will work out as exactly as it is intended.
And once you get to that point, then that need to control just naturally falls away. Again, that is a human construct, a lower dimensional construct, only necessary in this realm of linear time and sequencing of events, for all of it is actually, in reality, orchestrated to give you the experience that you choose to have, more often than not, to teach you to surrender yourself to something that is much larger than what you can see for yourself within this experience.
The fact that you are coming to the realizations of these truths says that you are well on the way to accepting these into your core belief system, and once there, life becomes so much simpler.
At this point you have accepted that you are connected to all and that you are one with all, and you have forgiven yourself for thinking you were ever separated in the first place, and now you are trusting in the Divine Plan, ultimately leading you to the complete understanding that you are the love behind all that animates the universe, the multiverse.
We applaud you for your efforts. We are getting very close now, and we could not be more thrilled. Thank you so much for all that you do [in] support of all in Heaven, who are, in fact, supporting you.
Go with my blessings and my love.
Farewell for now.
