Using Surrender-Trust to Overcome the Need to Control

Using Surrender-Trust to Overcome the Need to Control

By Mother Mary

Channel: Rob Loveland

Post on July, 2026

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Rob: So today, we are continuing in our series of going through each of the Infinity Keys, this time specifically the pairings of the keys of Surrender and Trust in order to overcome the need to control events in our lives, the thoughts and beliefs of others, and any other aspect. So I am coming to meet Mother Mary.

So Mother, over to you. Do you have anything to share with us today?

Mother Mary: Welcome, Rob. It is a pleasure to meet with you again. Yes, it is your mother, Mary, and I’ve come to talk to you, as you’ve requested, about Surrender and Trust.

As you well know, you are the author of all events in your life, all experiences you choose to have, so this human need to control events or attempt to control events is somewhat of a paradox. In reality, since you decide what all your experiences will be, you are, in fact, controlling all events. Control is always in your hands. You decide what you’re going to experience. Yes, there are those of us on this side who have agreed to be your guides and are helping you in your decisions, but ultimately, it is your choice.

And so, as you progress on your journey of ascension, your spiritual journey, you find yourself wanting to control the external events, and you become frustrated when the events don’t turn out the way that you had assumed. This is your human mind, your lower dimensional mind, thinking that you are isolated, that you are separated from all others.

In reality, as you have seen through the other keys, there can be no such thing as separation from Source and All-That-Is, therefore all events in your life, all events that you experience, were placed there by agreement with you. This is what you choose to experience to show you something, something about your own beliefs, your own attitudes, your own limitations. In reality, the only limitations that exist for you in this life are those that YOU have placed upon yourself.

So in the human form, once you understand that you are trying to control events, the Keys to Heaven and the Keys to Self are the means by which you can overcome that sense of control, that sense of a need to control. Surrender your desire to dictate the outcomes, the outcomes on the surface, what is apparent to see. But again, in reality, all outcomes are exactly as you choose them to be, have chosen them to be.

So surrender your need. Surrender yourself to the Divine Plan, to My plan, with your assistance, and therefore, your plan. Surrender yourself to THAT.

Trust. This requires trust, that you believe that there is a plan, that it all will be better, that you are working towards something greater, greater than yourself, greater than what you can see. It’s all for a purpose, and it is all perfect in its construction to achieve that purpose.

And so surrender goes along with trust. Once you surrender yourself to the Divine Plan, you are trusting that there is a Divine Plan, and that you are part of that, and that all will work out as exactly as it is intended.

And once you get to that point, then that need to control just naturally falls away. Again, that is a human construct, a lower dimensional construct, only necessary in this realm of linear time and sequencing of events, for all of it is actually, in reality, orchestrated to give you the experience that you choose to have, more often than not, to teach you to surrender yourself to something that is much larger than what you can see for yourself within this experience.

The fact that you are coming to the realizations of these truths says that you are well on the way to accepting these into your core belief system, and once there, life becomes so much simpler.

At this point you have accepted that you are connected to all and that you are one with all, and you have forgiven yourself for thinking you were ever separated in the first place, and now you are trusting in the Divine Plan, ultimately leading you to the complete understanding that you are the love behind all that animates the universe, the multiverse.

We applaud you for your efforts. We are getting very close now, and we could not be more thrilled. Thank you so much for all that you do [in] support of all in Heaven, who are, in fact, supporting you.

Go with my blessings and my love.

Farewell for now.

Rob Loveland

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We Won’t Fall Into Atlantis Trap

We Won’t Fall Into Atlantis Trap

Saint Germain
Channel: Rob Loveland

Posted on 02/09/2025 by EraOfLight

Rob: I’m seeing Saint Germain as much younger and wearing purple. And I have that vision of the pyramid on Atlantis, the Temple of the Violet Flame. We’re going to just sit here on the top step of the temple.

Okay, St Germain, you’ve heard the question from the discussion with my teammates. What’s going to prevent us this time from falling into the same traps that we fell into previously on Atlantis?

St Germain: Greetings, all! Yes, this is Saint Germain, here on the temple steps, the Temple of the Violet Flame, where we have all met before. You, Rob, in particular, remember the ceremonies here, the initiation.

[Regarding] your question about what is different this time around, there are several factors, the primary of which is that now you (”humanity”) know better. You’ve learned.

At the time of Atlantis, before the sinking, the final sinking — it took several tries. The first time, it largely split in half. The second time, it broke into smaller islands. And the final time, it completely inundated — not that all traces of the Atlantean culture were gone at the time; there were pockets that remained, that survived.

But what is it about now that offers any kind of an assurance that we won’t repeat the same thing again? And I am here to tell you that, while it may not seem that way by outward appearances, the light energy held by the vast majority of humanity is higher now than it has been since well before the sinking of Atlantis. Yes, you have a tremendous amount of programming that tells you otherwise, that makes you doubt yourselves, but at your core, at the point of your soul, your light energy is higher now than it has been in many, many, many millennia.

You are ready for change. The vast majority of humanity wants change. But the thing about change is it always feels like such turmoil, such turbulence, in the process of that change. But when you strip all of that away, all of that programming, all of that conditioning to keep you pushed down, to keep you enslaved in one form or another, underneath all of that, you are ready. You want the change, and it is surely happening.

It is certainly the Mother’s Divine Plan that it happen now. This is the time of prophecy. This is the beginning of that transition, biblically known as the 1000 years of peace. It is happening. It will happen, and you will see that. You will see it arise.

So I would ask you not to put too much of your attention on what could go wrong, but focus instead on what it is that you want and trust that the rest of humanity will come with you. This is why you are here. It’s why you volunteered to come here at this time, to do YOUR part, to express YOUR vision of what it is that you want society to be, the relationships among all peoples to be, and it will surely happen as a result. It is well on the way.

I would suggest even that where we are headed is a return to the energy levels that existed even prior to Atlantis, or to the beginning of Atlantis, to the time of Lemuria. That was a society in a 5th dimensional reality. But you are moving even beyond that, and going to the higher dimensions, yet still, ultimately to the 7th, to the realm of Christ Consciousness on Earth.

It is all possible, and we ask you to lend your energy, your vision, your trust, that that will all come to pass. Let your imaginations run wild, for everything is on the table. Whatever it is that you want Nova Earth to be, it is in the making. It is in the forming, and it is ready to hear what your desires are, ready to bring that to fruition.

It is such an exciting time. We are absolutely thrilled at the progress humanity, as a whole, is making and for your individual efforts in seeing that come to pass. Again, open yourselves to the possibilities. Do not restrict yourself based on what you see outside, or what you think is possible. There are no limitations. The only limitations are what you yourselves place on that. Again, give yourself the freedom to run wild. Hop on that dragon and see where it takes you! 😉

So I’m sure your teammates have questions, so let’s see what they have.

Teammate: Thank you for coming to speak of this, Saint Germaine. You are becoming better and better known to me, and I’m really enjoying getting to know you. I understand that it will be several generations until we see a great deal of evidence of a new world forming or a new world established. Is that still true?

St Germaine: It need not be. This transition can happen as fast as you, the bulk of humanity, want to make it happen. If you place on yourself the limitation of belief that it can only happen after several generations pass, then that is surely what you will get. But it need not be. Open yourself to the possibilities that this could happen in large part in your lifetime. If enough people come to believe that it will surely happen.

Teammate: That’s wonderful. I suppose it’s more helpful to think that it may take some time, rather than to think it’s going to be instantaneous and then be disappointed. So I was remembering something that Yeshua had once told told us that it would take a while for governance, for example, to re-establish itself in a very ideal, a much more ideal, expression in our country, and I felt that was really interesting, that it would take a while. So I was just checking to see if I had understood that correctly. But I do know what you’re saying about creation.

I think I get hung up in the idea that I have to personally get out there in the world and change everything. And it’s more subtle than that, I think, is what you’re saying; that it doesn’t quite work that way; that I don’t need to push myself; that it’s going to happen; that because we are together as a group, as a collective, creating it, all I need to do is be myself. Can you elaborate on that?

St Germaine: Indeed! You are perfect as you are, so just being yourself will help elevate the vibration, as it were, of the rest of humanity. If you are moved to go out and do something in the world to help bring some aspect of Nova Earth to fruition, then by all means do that. But if you find yourself having to advocate too forcefully to others to try to force something to happen, then that tends to be counterproductive. Just express yourself in a way that brings out the love in everyone else, and all the rest of that will naturally fall into place. The change does not happen until people are ready for it to happen and put themselves in a place of receptivity that it can happen.

So first and foremost, I would suggest that you help people to understand who they are and what they are capable of, and the more people that hop onto that bandwagon, as it were, the faster the change will occur.

And I would suggest also, by the way, that the system of governance is changing quite rapidly these days. You are seeing more and more evidence across the planet, all countries, that people are tired of the system that has existed for so long, and they realize just how disempowering that is. They are ready for change.

With that, then I will take my leave. Again, we are so excited for the future, for what is coming, for what YOU are making happen. Thank you so much to all of you. Farewell for now.

Rob Loveland

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