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Saturday, July 19, 2025

How to Build Persistence the Buddhist Way


How to Build Persistence the Buddhist Way

By Victor M. Parachin

Posted on July 19, 2025


Buddhist teachings give us clear examples of the power of persistence. Use this wisdom to cultivate strength.

Life will frequently call upon us to exercise the ability to persist and persevere in order to overcome difficulty and discouragement. Buddhist teachings are both clear and consistent in emphasizing that persistence and perseverance are vital mental, emotional, and spiritual skills required for a healthy, happy, harmonious life. Here are some innovative ways of tapping into the power of persistence … the Buddhist way.

Adopt a Mindset of Right Mindfulness

Though the Buddha does not specifically use the words “persistence” or “perseverance,” he did stress the importance of “right mindfulness,” which is the seventh “right” on the list of Buddhism’s Noble Eightfold Path. Right mindfulness means tuning your personality toward optimism rather than allowing yourself to be dragged down into negativity and self-loathing when life becomes challenging. The reality is that those who dig deep mentally and emotionally, continuing to strive toward their goals even when circumstances are less than optimal, have a much higher likelihood of experiencing success.

Consider the experience of Academy Award-winning actor Michael Caine. In his book Blowing the Bloody Doors Off: And Other Lessons in Life, he describes a time when he was utterly despondent over his acting career, writing, “I came very close to a breakdown.” Unable to survive financially, Caine was forced to ask his mother if he could move back in with her. While auditioning for small parts for little or no pay, he often had to take “dead-end jobs,” which included washing dishes, working in a steelyard, packing laundry, working pneumatic drills on roads, and working as a “night porter for a very dodgy hotel catering to a lot of couples called Smith.”

“I owed small sums of money all over London and often had to dash across the street to avoid my creditors,” he writes. Additionally, he came “perilously” close to being arrested and jailed for getting behind on his child support.

Yet during that entire time, he continued to audition for roles. “No one can succeed in the movies or anywhere else without luck,” Caine rightly notes. With considerable insight, he continues: “But I haven’t just been lucky. I’ve been unlucky plenty of times too. And I’ve never rested on my laurels. I’ve worked hard, learned my craft, grabbed my opportunities, and just kept on bloody going when others gave up.”

Infuse Persistence with Patience

“The importance of patience and persistence to the success of any endeavor cannot be emphasized enough,” noted modern Buddhist master Hsing Yun. This combination is powerful because patience helps us endure delays and disappointments, while persistence motivates us to keep moving forward toward our objective. Anytime you feel that your patience level is weak, especially when facing difficulty, inspire yourself by reading and reflecting on these types of wisdom statements.

From the ancient Chinese sage Lao Tzu: “Can you remain unmoving until the right action arises by itself?”

From Hsing Yun: “The greater your patience, the closer you are to success.”

From Alan Lokos, a meditation teacher and author: “The wonderful thing about patience, unlike commodities, is the more we use it, the more we offer it, the more we have.”

And from Buddhist writer Ker Cleary: “Patience is the capacity to calm the mind under stress so we can see our way clearly.”

Remember that Persistence Produces Positive Outcomes

“Persistence guarantees that results are inevitable,” notes Paramahansa Yogananda, author of Autobiography of a Yogi. Similarly, Sri Aurobindo, a spiritual teacher from India, says, “One has to be more persistent than the difficulty—there is no other way!”

An inspiring contemporary example is that of Chuck Norris, actor, martial artist, and author of The Secret Power Within: Zen Solutions to Real Problems. Norris was a champion black-belt karate master, holding the World Professional Championship title for six years in a row before retiring undefeated. Achieving that success wasn’t simply the result of innate talent; it was also earned through a dedication to hard work.

His path began when he joined the US Air Force. While stationed in Korea, he enrolled in a Korean karate school. Every evening after completing his daily military duty, Norris attended karate classes from 5 p.m. until 10 p.m., with just five minutes rest between each hour. For five hours he practiced kicking, punching, blocking, and partner sparring. The sessions were both tedious and challenging. Norris explains that none of this came easily or naturally to him; it was his persistence that powered him forward. “I was not in particularly good physical shape, nor was I especially well coordinated,” he writes. “But I was determined to learn, so I refused to give up.”

Replace the Negative with the Positive

When obstacles show up in our lives, we seem to have a natural propensity to view the issue in a negative light. Negative thinking is emotionally dangerous because it can block our personal growth, lead us to make bad decisions, and drive us to become the worst versions of ourselves. That’s why it’s important to do a mental reset, directing the mind away from the negative and into the positive.

In Buddhism, this perspective shift is called “right view” and is the first step of Buddhism’s Noble Eightfold Path. Right view means disciplining yourself to silence that inner negative voice, allowing optimistic and hopeful vision to emerge. According to the ancient Indian sage Patanjali, it’s not that complicated. He advises, “When presented with negative, disquieting thoughts or feelings, cultivate an opposite, elevated attitude.”

Anytime you find yourself in a negative frame of mind, acknowledge it and make a transition toward the positive. Doing so will enhance your life, says Swami Vivekananda, who writes, “Think positively and masterfully, with confidence and faith, and life becomes more secure, more fraught with action, richer in achievement and experience.”

Don’t Underestimate Small Actions

The Buddha often reminded his followers not to underestimate small steps towards progress. “Do not overlook tiny, good actions, thinking they are of no benefit; even tiny drops of water in the end will fill a huge vessel,” he shares. “Do not overlook actions merely because they are small; however small a spark may be, it can burn down a haystack as big as a mountain.”

Tapping into persistence can often mean taking things one step at a time, one moment at a time. The Buddha’s wisdom of acknowledging the importance of small, persistent actions was evident in Captain Thomas Moore, a British decorated veteran of World War II. During the Covid epidemic, Captain Tom, as he was called, raised nearly £40,000,000 for British National Health Service frontline workers by walking 100 laps around an 82-foot loop in his Bedfordshire, England garden. One particular photo of Captain Tom shows him smiling, his military medals pinned on the lapels of his suit jacket, while holding onto the walker he used for balance since breaking his hip the previous year.

Captain Tom had started the fundraising effort at age 99 in order to celebrate his upcoming 100th birthday. He initially hoped to raise $1,200, but when his efforts went viral, more than 1.5 million individual donations poured in. Queen Elizabeth II knighted Moore and promoted him to Colonel in one of her first public appearances after entering quarantine. British Prime Minister Boris Johnson said Moore provided the United Kingdom with “a beacon of light through the fog of coronavirus.”

Many goals and objectives can feel impossible until they are suddenly achieved. Progress can feel slow, like it is taking forever. But one day we wake up and realize it is done. Stay motivated. Keep moving. Don’t quit. Tap into your power of persistence!

Victor M. Parachin


Sunday, June 30, 2024

Turning Poison into Medicine — the Buddhist Way

Turning Poison into Medicine — the Buddhist Way

By Victor M. Parachin

Posted on June 29, 2024



Buddhism offers both ancient and modern solutions for turning life’s challenges into great blessings. “Changing poison into medicine begins when we face difficulties with the confidence that we have within us the full resources to overcome them.” —Daisaku Ikeda, Japanese Buddhist philosopher and teacher The phrase “turning poison into medicine” was first articulated by Nagarjuna (c. 150-250), an Indian Buddhist teacher often described as the “second Buddha.” In his Treatise on the Great Perfection of Wisdom, Nagarjuna presents the truth that any person can become “a great physician who can change poison into medicine.” His principle is astonishingly contemporary, optimistic, and hopeful because it specifically teaches that, with right effort and right thinking, a negative can be converted into a positive, suffering can be transformed into flourishing, and pain can be refashioned into power. Here are four Buddhist ways of turning poison into medicine. See Potential in the Problem
“The power of positive thinking undoubtedly works. But so does the power of negative thinking,” observed Indra Devi, a pioneering yoga and meditation teacher. Her insight is a reminder to carefully and skillfully choose our attitude toward difficulties. That’s how poison is turned into medicine. One famous woman who did so was the “Queen of Rock ‘n’ Roll,” Tina Turner. In her book Happiness Becomes You, Turner explains how she learned this Buddhist teaching and was able to overcome a deeply challenging time in her life. Her realization took place at the conclusion of a group meditation session she was participating in. Turner was approached by a “few older women who glowed with a peaceful air of joy” who asked her: “Tina, you say you have too many problems to list. What sort of problems do you mean?” Turner recalls that she was normally uncomfortable publicly complaining about herself, but “something about the high life condition of these women opened [her] up.” So, she explained how her divorce complicated her life in a variety of ways (including intimidation, harassment, and arson from people associated with her ex-husband) and shared about her deep debt and the challenges of being a Black woman restarting her life in her 40s. Interestingly, when Turner concluded her sorrowful list, the older women enthusiastically clapped for Turner, telling her she was fortunate because now she had an ideal opportunity to turn poison into medicine. They reminded Turner that “when you raise your life condition, you are capable of transforming all the negative energy in those unfortunate situations into the opposite: positive energy of good fortune.” Turner wrote that she experienced a great relief to hear this wisdom. “I went from seeing a pile of negatives to recognizing a treasure trove. As intensely bad as the problems are, that’s how intensely good the benefits can be, I repeated to myself.” With that attitude shift, Turner began to experience increasing happiness and success. Cultivate Optimism
Modern psychology researchers consistently reveal that optimism is linked to better physical and mental health outcomes, as well as promoting a sense of well-being during difficult times. This would be no surprise to Eastern spiritual teachers who have, across the ages, promoted and endorsed maximizing the positive and minimizing the negative. Be like the sages and cultivate optimism. Motivate yourself by reading and reciting wisdom statements about optimism and positive thinking such as these: “People deal too much with the negative, with what is wrong. Why not try and see positive things, to just touch those things and make them bloom?”—Thich Nhat Hanh “I have no such words as ‘cannot,’ ‘difficult,’ ‘impossible,’ and ‘weakness’ in my dictionary. Those who are attempting to strengthen their will-force should remove these words from their dictionary.”—Swami Sivananda “Buddhism is a path of supreme optimism, for one of its basic tenets is that no human life or experience is to be wasted or forgotten, but all should be transformed into a source of wisdom and compassionate living.”—Taitetsu Unno “It is a great advantage to be able to face life with a positive and balanced spirit.”—the Dalai Lama Embrace Acceptance
“You have to learn to accept the good and the bad, just as you do with the weather. You can’t change it. So it’s better that you fit yourself into the weather.” This wisdom is offered by Sivananda Radha, a yogini, author, and founder of Sivananda Ashram in Burnaby, British Columbia. Her wisdom is a reminder that it is not at all unusual for us to find ourselves in situations we simply can’t change. Rather than deny the reality and avoid it as much as possible, a healthier approach is to apply radical acceptance. When that’s applied, we give the issue less power over us, and a path for moving forward emerges. An example of this taking place is provided by Brenda Shoshanna, PhD. In her book Jewish Dharma: A Guide to the Practice of Judaism and Zen, Shoshanna tells of being a new student to meditation and attending her first meditation retreat led by a Zen master. The retreat took place in the winter; the center had no heat, and all the first-time visitors were required to sit near the back of the meditation hall where the doors were intentionally kept wide open to promote strong meditation concentration. Though Dr. Shoshanna wore three sweaters, she recalls: “I was shivering and angry, unable to concentrate on anything but the cold.” Finally, a monk came to the back, telling the new students it was time to meet the Zen master, so they marched in a single file upstairs to the interview room. Seated before the Zen master, there was “dead silence” for a time before he finally asked, “Do you have any questions or comments?” When no one said anything, Dr. Shoshanna spoke out saying: “It’s freezing down there!” His answer was strong and fierce: “Then freeze!” His response delivered this important lesson to Dr. Shoshanna: Accept reality rather than trying to change it or run from it. “When you are cold, freeze. When you are hot, burn. When you are sad, grieve. Whatever comes, welcome it 100 percent. Do not escape your experience. Do not avoid it in any way. This is mindfulness taken to its fullest extent.” It is the desire for things to be different that creates suffering. When that struggle is dropped, then the energy of living becomes calmer and more peaceful. Place Yourself in the Presence of Spiritual Friends
David Viafora, an author and former monk in Thich Nhat Hanh’s Plum Village tradition, defines a spiritual friend as “someone who uplifts your path to a higher level of ethical and spiritual well-being.” The Buddha strongly stressed the importance of surrounding ourselves with a few spiritual friends when he made these comments: “One who has spiritual friends abandons what is unwholesome and develops what is wholesome.” And, “when you have spiritual friends, spiritual companions, spiritual associates, you live supported by their diligence and skillful qualities.” Among the best places to make spiritual friends are yoga classes, meditation groups, and spiritual book clubs. If these are unavailable in your community, then an online search can put you in touch with like-minded people. Tina Turner offers this additional thought about finding spiritual friends, saying that “if we don’t have access to a mentor (spiritual friend) in person, we can experience the wisdom of a mentor through the written word.”

Victor M. Parachin