Releasing the Fear of Rejection

Releasing the Fear of Rejection

Love Notes

Brynne E. Dippell, Ph.D.

Posted February 18, 2025

Photo credit: globalbizarre.com/what-are-the-akashic-records

Hello! I just wanted to share a quick note with you.

YouTube, in its at times unfathomable and unexpected algorithmic prescience, suggested this TED Talk on rejection over the weekend.

"What I Learned from 100 Days of Rejection" by Jia Jiang

https://youtu.be/-vZXgApsPCQ

"Hmm," I wondered, "Does YouTube think I have an issue with fear of rejection?"

Well, don’t we all... :)

Especially the sensitive ones, the ones who are seeking to change the world in ways large and small.

When I clicked on the link, my attention was drawn to the first comment that said the video was "Kelly’s" favorite TED Talk ever.

He said, "wow, i've watched a lot of ted talks and this is my favorite one. he's so genuine, his story is so relatable and i want a burger refill."

Based on the power of Kelly’s words, I listened to the talk.

It was delightful.

In a warm, humorous way, Jia related the story of his fervent desire to make an impact, complicated by his deeply rooted fear of rejection. As a teenager in Beijing, Jia had been inspired by a hometown talk by Bill Gates. The speech catalyzed his ambition to build a global company that would allow him to purchase Microsoft by age 25. When, at 30, he had not even come close to fulfilling this dream, Jia realized he needed to look at why. He discovered he hadn't taken the steps to build the business, or any business, because he was afraid.

Jia then embarked upon a 30-day challenge with the goal of being rejected every day in an attempt to release his fear. His initial adventures in rejection were both touching and at times hilarious, but most of all, the experience quickly gave him the sense that he could do anything. The process also coincidentally helped him find his life purpose: helping others overcome fear of rejection. To document his challenge, Jia created a video blog of his adventures, and one of his early experiences was viewed by 5 million people. As an unintended consequence, Jia became a bit of a sensation. Jia’s story is both amusing and engaging. I hope you enjoy it. Please be sure to stay til the end, where he brings it all together.

The Record Keepers say: We wish to share with you a bit of human delight and to use this as a pathway to encourage you to overcome any reticence or hesitation you may have about sharing your own light. If you are here, reading these words, you are important, and dare we say, a light worker. You are one who has come here to change the world. Your contribution is uniquely your own. Take a moment to breathe and connect with your soul essence. Ask quickly what your heart would most like to share with the world. Jot down a note or two, whatever first comes to mind.

Make the commitment to yourself that you will take concrete action in support of your larger vision in the next two days. Challenge yourself to move. It may not be necessary to put yourself in the pathway of rejection for 30 days as Jia did, and yet, you'll likely have to learn to overcome fears of your own. Just do it. :) You may discover it is easier than you think.

In love and inspiration,

Brynne

Source: Doug and Yael Powell. (2025). Messages from God. Circle of Light Spiritual Center. circleoflight.net.

Brynne

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Sensitive Ones, You Are Accessing Your Gifts

Sensitive Ones, You Are Accessing Your Gifts

The 9D Arcturian Council 

Channel Daniel Scranton

Posted on July 19, 2024

We are The Arcturian Council. We are pleased to connect with all of you. 

We are a very sensitive collective, and we have the ability to sense what is going on in all parts of the galaxy. We have been stretching ourselves to reach more of the corners, if you will, of this universe of ours with that sensitivity that we do have. We are telling you this because we want you to know that your sensitivity is something that has been a challenge for you, but you are becoming better at using it, rather than letting it be something that just happens in your day-to-day life experiences. In other words, you can train yourself to be sensitive to what you want to be sensitive, and you do not have to be sensitive to that which brings you more of the pain and suffering that you have experienced in this life because of that sensitivity that you have. 

We know that what we are telling you to do is something that you will have a difficult time with, and we want you to know that you’ve already had a difficult time with being sensitive in this life, and yet, here you are. Now that you can see it more as a tool that you are meant to use in your life, you can use it more effectively to help yourself and others. For example, if you are sensitive to the emotions of other people, and you come across someone who is having a hard, you can become aware of that, and know that it is the right time to approach that person ask them what’s going on with them. If it is a person that you don’t know, or don’t feel comfortable doing that with, then you know that’s the person who needs more love, more healing, and more of the space holding that you can do for them.

Now we know that many of you are tired of doing this, that you have become exhausted from doing it, but we know that is the case because you haven’t really honed the ability yet, and that is the next step for those of you who are sensitive. The next step is to hone your abilities, to use it as a gift and as a tool, and to also use it to help yourselves. So when you walk into a room, and you use your sensitivity to tell you which people to approach, which people to leave alone, and so on, then it becomes a tool that you’re using for yourself as well. When you use it in regards to information that you are seeing, hearing about, you can also then use it to guide you as to whether that information is relevant to you, or whether it’s even true in your reality.

And you need that discernment more than ever at this time, because there is a lot of information out there, and there are a lot of agendas behind the spreading of information. So your sensitivity is something that also helps you to then create your reality, because when you are sensitive to what’s going on in your emotional center and what’s going on with other people, then you can also be sensitive in regards to your vibration and you can shift it more easily with that awareness of what you’re feeling, where you’re feeling it, and where you can feel what you actually want to feel, because you can be sensitive to where your joy lies in your chakra system, for example.

It is time for those who are more sensitive to be the leaders of this world that you are living in, and now is the best time for you to start seeing this as a gift and as a tool, and we are here to help. We help by pointing you in the right direction and giving you the tools to better use the tools that you have, and we will continue to do so.

We are The Arcturian Council, and we have enjoyed connecting with you.

Daniel Scranton 

https://danielscranton.com/

 

Sensitive Ones, You Are Accessing Your Gifts

Sensitive Ones, You Are Accessing Your Gifts

The 9D Arcturian Council

Channel: Daniel Scranton

Posted on May 4, 2023

Greetings. We are the Arcturian Council. We are pleased to connect with all of you.

We are a very sensitive collective, and we have the ability to sense what is going on in all parts of the galaxy. We have been stretching ourselves to reach more of the corners, if you will, of this universe of ours with that sensitivity that we do already have. We are telling you this because we want you to know that your sensitivity is something that has been a challenge for you, but you are becoming better at using it, rather than letting it be something that just happens in your day-to-day life experiences. In other words, you can train yourself to be sensitive to what you want to be sensitive to, and you do not have to be sensitive to that which brings you more of the pain and suffering that you have experienced in this life because of that sensitivity that you have. 

We know that it is hard. We know that what we are telling you to do is something that you will have a difficult time with, and we want you to know that you’ve already had a difficult time with being sensitive in this life, and yet here you are. Now that you can see it more as a tool that you are meant to use in your life, you can use it more effectively to help yourself and others. For example, if you are sensitive to the emotions of other people, and you come across someone who is having a hard time, you can become aware of that, and know that it is the right time to approach that person and ask them what’s going on with them. If it is a person that you don’t know, or don’t feel comfortable doing that with, then you know that’s the person who needs more love, more healing, and more of the space holding that you can do for them.

Now we know that many of you are tired of doing this, that you have become exhausted from doing it, but we know that is the case because you haven’t really honed the ability yet, and that’s what is the next step for those of you who are sensitive. The next step is to hone your abilities, to use it as a gift and as a tool, and to also use it to help yourselves. So when you walk into a room, and you use your sensitivity to tell you which people to approach, which people to leave alone, and so on, then it becomes a tool that you’re using for yourself as well. When you use it in regards to information that you are seeing, hearing about, you can also then use it to guide you as to whether that information is relevant to you, or whether it’s even true in your reality.

And you need that discernment more than ever at this time, because there is a lot of information out there, and there are a lot of agendas behind the spreading of certain information. So your sensitivity is something that also helps you to then create your reality, because when you are sensitive to what’s going on in your emotional center and what’s going on with other people, then you can also be sensitive in regards to your vibration and you can shift it more easily with that awareness of what you’re feeling, where you’re feeling it, and where you can feel what you actually want to feel, because you can be sensitive to where your joy lies in your chakra system, for example.

It is time for those who are more sensitive to be the leaders of this world that you are living in, and now is the best time for you to start seeing this as a gift and as a tool, and we are here to help. We help by pointing you in the right direction and giving you the tools to better use the tools that you have, and we will continue to do so.

We are the Arcturian Council, and we have enjoyed connecting with you.

 

Daniel Scranton 

 

 

https://danielscranton.com/